Big Boobs vs Big Bellies

[Big Paulo]

Hi there all

As the title says, which do you prefer on a woman and why? Big boobs or a big belly...

This is in no way being perverted (believe me). This is a honest question to all the FA's (or even FFA's) to think about and give their suggestions..

Hope to hear some good answers...

[Wagimawr]

Big boobs or a big belly...
Yes.

:D

[PhillyFA]

BOTH, and a big ass & thighs too.

[Big Paulo]

Come on everyone be more specifc on why :)

Like me i like a big belly to grap and rub, and big breasts to bury myself in


now everyone else's turn

[Miklosanin]

I mean....I guess....I suppose the belly is more important, because otherwise the big boobs don't really do it for me necessarily. However, once the big belly is there, I definately like the big boobs. And of course I like the accompanying big ass and thighs too. The effect of all four is this jiggly balancing act, attempting to defy gravity and not doing the best of jobs. :smitten:

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

How about both? I like big boobs and round bellies. But what really counts is whether I like the woman who owns them.

[Santaclear]

What was the question again?

[Angel]

The question is...


Ladies,

Do you prefer an intelligent considerant man who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are?

or

Do you prefer a male who negates you to nothing more than the sum of fat body parts, objectifies you, or tries to constantly assign you into some catagory based upon your shape, size, or weight?


;)


PS: No vs here.

[UberAris]

Yes.

:D

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[Wagimawr]

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[Jack Skellington]

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i212/uberaris/Fred_fredburger.jpg

Keeper of the Reaper?

[BigCutieSasha]

The question is...


Ladies,

Do you prefer an intelligent considerant man who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are?

or

Do you prefer a male who negates you to nothing more than the sum of fat body parts, objectifies you, or tries to constantly assign you into some catagory based upon your shape, size, or weight?


;)


PS: No vs here.
Can't we have both? I want a man who appriciates all aspects of me. From my brain to my big ass. Lots of us women have a great head on our sholders and a sexy ass body holding it up. If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his. I have shallow moments as I'm sure most of us have had from time to time seeing someone we are attracted to, maybe for just physical appearance. Nothin wrong to admit it once in a while. ;)

[Santaclear]

Which do you prefer?

Also, left breast vs. right breast? (Assuming they're fat.)

Shallow men vs. deep?

And what is the best part of the belly? Does one part beat out another and emerge victorious? What happens to the rest of the belly then? And what happens when breasts fight a belly? What does that get us?

[Ruby Ripples]

Can't we have both? I want a man who appriciates all aspects of me. From my brain to my big ass. Lots of us women have a great head on our sholders and a sexy ass body holding it up. If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his. I have shallow moments as I'm sure most of us have had from time to time seeing someone we are attracted to, maybe for just physical appearance. Nothin wrong to admit it once in a while. ;)

exactly what I was thinking, Sasha, I was quite enjoying the thread til the spoilsport body part post hehe!

And... he WAS only asking a genuine question, it didn't reduce women to body parts any more than the old are you a leg, breast, or butt man, which I've never seen anyone take offence at. And... let's face it, people do most of their dating etc based on that first physical attraction, then get to know the person - human nature.

[Ruby Ripples]

Which do you prefer?

Also, left breast vs. right breast? (Assuming they're fat.)

Shallow men vs. deep?

And what is the best part of the belly? Does one part beat out another and emerge victorious? What happens to the rest of the belly then? And what happens when breasts fight a belly? What does that get us?


Epidermis - insides don't do it for me.

Right breast, slightly bigger and fatter than the left.

Shallowly deep, shallowly shallow men.

Not being an FA, I can only speak for my own belly. I quite like how it's very smooth and round at the top, yet very soft and squashy at the bottom.

Being a fat all over type a gal, my breasts and belly never fight, my breasts claim superiority being above the belly but as my belly pointed out, they rely on it to rest on when bra-less. So they maintain a truce.

[Angel]

Guess you missed this!


;)


PS: No vs here.

Then again, only those who know me would get it!

[Ruby Ripples]

Guess you missed this!



Then again, only those who know me would get it!

I didn't miss it, but yes I clearly wouldn't understand private jokes :blink: or ones that only people that know you would get.

[mango]

Boobs. Bellies. Butts. Brains.


:D

[ripley]

Boobs. Bellies. Butts. Brains.


:D

But mango, describe it IN DETAIL. C'mon! :mad:

[Angel]

Can't we have both? I want a man who appriciates all aspects of me. From my brain to my big ass. Lots of us women have a great head on our sholders and a sexy ass body holding it up. If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his. I have shallow moments as I'm sure most of us have had from time to time seeing someone we are attracted to, maybe for just physical appearance. Nothin wrong to admit it once in a while. ;)

An intelligent considerate FA who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are will be attracted to your physical beauty as well as to your radiating inner beauty. Not a thing wrong with being attracted to the whole package! I want my guy to crave me physically and sexually, but I also want him to appreciate the parts of me that are going to take more than a 10 second glance to notice! Some people get it. ;)


decided to omit the $89.95 inflatable big boobed and big bellied put-her-back-in-the-box-when-yer-done-with-her temporary date reference ;)

[Santaclear]

This is in no way being perverted (believe me). This is a honest question to all the FA's (or even FFA's) to think about and give their suggestions..
Hope to hear some good answers...

OK, since you're not being at all perverted and you want suggestions, while you're loving the big belly reach up and tweak the nipples lightly, then kiss 'em and maybe tweak 'em a little harder, then kiss 'em and suck on 'em while running your fingertips and hands up and down lightly over and around the whole expanse, find the good parts, pay attention and see what she likes, move around and don't stay stuck on any one part unless she wants you to. This is all preliminary stuff, of course. (Oh wait, I forgot, it was only supposed to be about bellies vs. boobs. Oh well.) :(

[Angel]

Epidermis vs. Internal Glands

Which do you prefer?

Also, left breast vs. right breast? (Assuming they're fat.)

Shallow men vs. deep?

And what is the best part of the belly? Does one part beat out another and emerge victorious? What happens to the rest of the belly then? And what happens when breasts fight a belly? What does that get us?

If I'm using my fingertips, I want to be touching the epidermis!

Breasts? Either toned and muscular of the male variety, or extra krispy if the KFC variety!

Deep, for sure.

The best part of the belly is where ever his hands happen to be at the moment! :D




need ice water :p

[Santaclear]

....Being a fat all over type a gal, my breasts and belly never fight, my breasts claim superiority being above the belly but as my belly pointed out, they rely on it to rest on when bra-less. So they maintain a truce.

And a good truce it is, Ruby! Wise not to let any of 'em get the upper hand. They fight the good fight and at the end of the day, um....I lost my train of thought.

[Krissy12]

OK, since you're not being at all perverted and you want suggestions, while you're loving the big belly reach up and tweak the nipples lightly, then kiss 'em and maybe tweak 'em a little harder, then kiss 'em and suck on 'em while running your fingertips and hands up and down lightly over and around the whole expanse, find the good parts, pay attention and see what she likes, move around and don't stay stuck on any one part unless she wants you to. This is all preliminary stuff, of course. (Oh wait, I forgot, it was only supposed to be about bellies vs. boobs. Oh well.) :(


What a way to wake up this morning. hmm..excuse me...:smitten:

As for mine, they're in a race of sorts, trying to figure out which is going to stick out farther than the other. Of course, with a bra gives the boobs a clear advantage. Belly has called for a disqualification on this, but we'll have to see what the judges have to say.

[Angel]

I didn't miss it, but yes I clearly wouldn't understand private jokes :blink: or ones that only people that know you would get.

It's rather simple. "No vs here" simply means that a guy wouldn't have to make a choice between big boobs and a big belly with me.



spoilsport? lol

[Angel]

OK, since you're not being at all perverted and you want suggestions, while you're loving the big belly reach up and tweak the nipples lightly, then kiss 'em and maybe tweak 'em a little harder, then kiss 'em and suck on 'em while running your fingertips and hands up and down lightly over and around the whole expanse, find the good parts, pay attention and see what she likes, move around and don't stay stuck on any one part unless she wants you to. This is all preliminary stuff, of course. (Oh wait, I forgot, it was only supposed to be about bellies vs. boobs. Oh well.) :(

ummmm need more ice water.... or a walk through the nearest deep freeze!

[rainyday]

OK, since you're not being at all perverted and you want suggestions, while you're loving the big belly reach up and tweak the nipples lightly, then kiss 'em and maybe tweak 'em a little harder, then kiss 'em and suck on 'em while running your fingertips and hands up and down lightly over and around the whole expanse, find the good parts, pay attention and see what she likes, move around and don't stay stuck on any one part unless she wants you to. This is all preliminary stuff, of course. (Oh wait, I forgot, it was only supposed to be about bellies vs. boobs. Oh well.)

Oh, great. Hot and bothered and all out of rep. :(

[Ruby Ripples]

And a good truce it is, Ruby! Wise not to let any of 'em get the upper hand. They fight the good fight and at the end of the day, um....I lost my train of thought.

LOL! btw, I couldn't get hot and bothered at your advice to whatshisname, because the word "tweak" ALWAYS makes me giggle. It would be a perfect word except that I always think when you do the tweaking action, a tweaking sound should issue, somewhat akin to a squeak but more... tweakish. I also think of circus clowns.... tweaking the bulb of their trick lapel flower, to squirt someone in the eye. *sigh*

[Tigerhawk]

I think most non-internet relationships start out as a physical attraction.

My ladyfriend is very attractive, but what I love about her most is her BIG Heart, and Strong Confidence in herself.

Nothing better than a good confident woman!

[Fuzzy Necromancer]

The belly is the one and only important physical aspect of a BBW. Everything else is just fine details.

[Tooz]

Do you prefer an intelligent considerant man who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are?

or

Do you prefer a male who negates you to nothing more than the sum of fat body parts, objectifies you, or tries to constantly assign you into some catagory based upon your shape, size, or weight?

Amen. Why do people make threads like this? For those of us who are more self concious of our large stomach/smaller breasts or larger breasts/smaller stomach, these threads are problematic.

[Chimpi]

So we're doing like a Buffie versus Cindy type of thing here? Well, I'm all for competition!!

You know what would be cool, is if it were possible to take one persons body part and mold it into another persons body. Example: My my, Buffie has some enormous and wonderful boobies (not to mention the rest of her), but Cindy has such an enormous and round belly, I just cannot choose between the two!! Hey, let me take both of them down to the local SmushMart and smush them together to make one gorgeous lady. Yeah!!!

... A situation like that.
Hey, if we're talking purely bodily beauty here, that falls into a fantasy factor.
w00t!

I would never choose between either of the two ladies, of course, but for me, it truly is both Big Boobs and a Big Belly. Luckily, I am with a wonderful human being with quite the large, droopy, and round boobs and a nice plumply fat and round belly. :)

But Angel, I don't know... I think, if I had a woman with 689ZZZ breasts and a belly the size of Wal-Mart, I would not mind that when she accidently bumped her head into a wall, it would sound like a coconut. ;) :D :p

EDIT: I was able to mention Buffie, Cindy, Erin, and Angel... all in one post - My 1,000th post. :D More specifically, I could care less about the number count.

[Tooz]

So we're doing like a Buffie versus Cindy type of thing here? Well, I'm all for competition!!

You know what would be cool, is if it were possible to take one persons body part and mold it into another persons body. Example: My my, Buffie has some enormous and wonderful boobies (not to mention the rest of her), but Cindy has such an enormous and round belly, I just cannot choose between the two!! Hey, let me take both of them down to the local SmushMart and smush them together to make one gorgeous lady. Yeah!!!

I rest my motherfucking case. -_-

[Chimpi]

I rest my motherfucking case. -_-

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That was the objective of my post, young lady.

[Tooz]

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That was the objective of my post, young lady.

Gee, because one's tone is so blatantly obvious from lines of text.

[Chimpi]

Gee, because one's tone is so blatantly obvious from lines of text.

It is with the use of facial expressions used with said posting on one end of the spectrum. I was under the impression that my post had at least one form of sarcastic undertones lying in there. That, or the purely objectification of women would have given that away. But even through all of that, if it was not apparent, not only can I empathize with that, but I apologize for any garmonbozia* I may have caused. :( Key example: I am not sure whether you are obviously angered/mad, or just pulling my ass as well. :) Therefor, I assume the latter.

* garmonbozia. A word used in the movie Twin Peaks for "pain and suffering".

[Tooz]

I'm a bitch. It's both.

[Chimpi]

I'm a bitch. It's both.


:eek: :eek:
Bitch!!!

:p http://www.clicksmilies.com/s1106/lachen/laughing-smiley-016.gif

[CurvyEm]

The question is...


Ladies,

Do you prefer an intelligent considerant man who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are?

or

Do you prefer a male who negates you to nothing more than the sum of fat body parts, objectifies you, or tries to constantly assign you into some catagory based upon your shape, size, or weight?


;)


PS: No vs here.


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Kidding :D

[TearInYourHand]

uhhhh....is the above guy 18? from his last few posts, maybe we should inform the mods...

[Chimpi]

uhhhh....is the above guy 18? from his last few posts, maybe we should inform the mods...

Are you sure I am even a guy?

[TearInYourHand]

well, from your profile pic, you'd be one weird looking woman. but hey, i guess that was a little closed minded of me.

[Mikey]

Can't we have both? I want a man who appriciates all aspects of me. From my brain to my big ass. Lots of us women have a great head on our sholders and a sexy ass body holding it up. If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his. I have shallow moments as I'm sure most of us have had from time to time seeing someone we are attracted to, maybe for just physical appearance. Nothin wrong to admit it once in a while. ;)

Why can't we all just get along!

BTW...I agree with the ladies who said, "it's not just about the fat" I think its the sum of the whole woman... her intellect, wit, love, interests and character, etc., plus all of her wonderful physical aspects!!! :wubu: I have never been to arm charms...I want substance of character and intellect to keep me attracted and capture my heart!! But that is just me...:bow:

[Cossaboom]

As the title says, which do you prefer on a woman and why? Big boobs or a big belly...

Neither, if she has the personality of a wet rag.

However, if we are talking about purely hypothetical general preferences--why not both!

Toss in plush arms and big curvy hips too.

In all seriousness, my own preferences for models like Susie Wilden, Kerry Marie, Alicia and so on started because of a big breast fetish, which I still have and proudly acknowledge, but their lush expanded physiques turned me on more than I could have imagined. In part because their boobs were bigger, but in no small part due to their protruding bellies, wider hips, fleshier arms and faces....and so on. So from a purely physical standpoint, the rest of the package is equally meaningful to me.

Of course, intelligence and wit and charm and kindness are more essential than any physical gift, though. I answered your question presuming that this "dream girl" already had those qualities in spades.

IMHO.

[Chimpi]

well, from your profile pic, you'd be one weird looking woman. but hey, i guess that was a little closed minded of me.

:)

Most of the moderators are aware of my crazed way of posting from time to time. Not to mention that Heather and AnnMarie I'm sure do not mind a little humor now and then. :) I apologize for my last few posts. I am in a fairly good mood today. The "EW" was a very sarcastic form of humor in direct context with the opposite of CurvyEm's post... and the "Bitch" comment towards tooz was only because she, herself, called herself a bitch. That is all. :)

EDIT: And yes, I am sure I am 18+ years old.

*shrugs*

[Butterbelly]

Why can't we all just get along!

BTW...I agree with the ladies who said, "it's not just about the fat" I think its the sum of the whole woman... her intellect, wit, love, interests and character, etc., plus all of her wonderful physical aspects!!! :wubu: I have never been to arm charms...I want substance of character and intellect to keep me attracted and capture my heart!! But that is just me...:bow:

Thank God one man said that.

I have to agree with the women on this post. I really do get tired of seeing these kinds of threads. Woman are not merely body parts for men to handle!!!!

[mossystate]

Oh hell...do what I do and make note of men who start threads like this..and..flush them in the lil porta-potty I keep in my head..:D



*edited to add: checked profile..of course he posts no picture of himself..*W*

[UberAris]

Keeper of the Reaper?

yup, its Fred Fredburger... me and les saw the episode last night and were cracking up over it.

[LillyBBBW]

Quite frankly I have enough people appreciating how smart, artistic, unique, crazy, etc. I am. I want a smart considerate man to go completely blank and utter, "Duhhhhh," when I walk in the room.


The question is...


Ladies,

Do you prefer an intelligent considerant man who sees you as the unique beautiful creation that you are?

or

Do you prefer a male who negates you to nothing more than the sum of fat body parts, objectifies you, or tries to constantly assign you into some catagory based upon your shape, size, or weight?


;)


PS: No vs here.

[Mikey]

Oh hell...do what I do and make note of men who start threads like this..and..flush them in the lil porta-potty I keep in my head..:D



*edited to add: checked profile..of course he posts no picture of himself..*W*

Well, you shouldn't flush all of us...I started one of these threads to prove to a woman I know that there were men out there who would find her attractive.

[LillyBBBW]

The belly is the one and only important physical aspect of a BBW. Everything else is just fine details.

You're hired!

[Ruby Ripples]

You're hired!

LOL can I half in for him on job share? :batting:

[mossystate]

Well, you shouldn't flush all of us...I started one of these threads to prove to a woman I know that there were men out there who would find her attractive.

Umm, no, I still flush..*L* ...carry on

[LillyBBBW]

Thank God one man said that.

I have to agree with the women on this post. I really do get tired of seeing these kinds of threads. Woman are not merely body parts for men to handle!!!!

I for one like to read this kind of stuff and find out what men find appealing. There's enough diversity of tastes here to not feel like I'm being proded with sticks if somebody likes something other than my particular shape. As a previous poster said this is a non academic board for erotic fantasies and stuff. I try to steer myself from feeling shot down because I can't appear in every sex scene described here. Can't we all just try to be passive onlookers instead of taking offense so easlily?

[James]

Can't we have both? I want a man who appriciates all aspects of me. From my brain to my big ass. Lots of us women have a great head on our sholders and a sexy ass body holding it up. If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his. I have shallow moments as I'm sure most of us have had from time to time seeing someone we are attracted to, maybe for just physical appearance. Nothin wrong to admit it once in a while.

the unique beautiful creation that you are

"Unique beautiful creation" sums Sasha up perfectly Angel :D ... she's most definitely a "whole package (http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/forums/showpost.php?p=346691&postcount=9)" kind of girl :)

[Big Paulo]

I guess this is telling me that i'm shallow and superficial... sorry i insulted all of you who are offended

[Tad]

"You must spread some reputation around before giving any to LilyBBW again"

Doh!

I love people who know themselves this well.

-Ed

[mossystate]

I, for one, do not take some huge 'offense'.That would be fairly silly.For me, it is just that there is a 'tone' that bothers me,not about the particular preferences,etc...pssst..I have mine..yes..it is TRUE!!!;)

[Mikey]

I for one like to read this kind of stuff and find out what men find appealing. There's enough diversity of tastes here to not feel like I'm being proded with sticks if somebody likes something other than my particular shape. As a previous poster said this is a non academic board for erotic fantasies and stuff. I try to steer myself from feeling shot down because I can't appear in every sex scene described here. Can't we all just try to be passive onlookers instead of taking offense so easlily?

Your wisdom is always admirable!! Then again...I am the President of your Southern New York State Fan Club!!
:kiss2:

[Green Eyed Fairy]

Boobs. Bellies. Butts. Brains.


:D

In this order? :p

[LillyBBBW]

I, for one, do not take some huge 'offense'.That would be fairly silly.For me, it is just that there is a 'tone' that bothers me,not about the particular preferences,etc...pssst..I have mine..yes..it is TRUE!!!;)

Ahhh. A lot gets lost in translation with some of the more raunchier posts. Some of these fellas I've seen their handiwork before so I can tell right away that they jest. Someone not familiar with the poster would not know that they are being facetious.

[Butterbelly]

I for one like to read this kind of stuff and find out what men find appealing. There's enough diversity of tastes here to not feel like I'm being proded with sticks if somebody likes something other than my particular shape. As a previous poster said this is a non academic board for erotic fantasies and stuff. I try to steer myself from feeling shot down because I can't appear in every sex scene described here. Can't we all just try to be passive onlookers instead of taking offense so easlily?

In no way do I feel shot down by this thread. I'm confident enough to know that I'm beautiful and could care less what everyone else thinks.

What I found offensive by this thread is that it's the 80th one of it's kind on the board and it gets a bit old.

People have their own preferences as to what they like in the opposite sex (or for some, the same sex)...but for once...could someone post about what they find attractive in the opposite sex/same sex that doesn't pertain to a body part?

[Green Eyed Fairy]

You know, some of the posts I saw in this thread reminded me of that penis size thread from back a few months ago (It was an old thread that had been resurrected). I took note that some of the guys in that thread seemed not to like it- I noticed a couple of comments about it from them in other threads around the board. I understood and respected their comments/ideas about it.
So after seeing guy after guy after guy on here making all these threads about body parts, part of me really isn't offended simply because I'm used to men being that way. I really have no objection to this thread personally, however, I support the ladies that do.
Hell, if I'm expected to be sensitive and not talk about my preferences for a bigger d**ks, which I refrained from in that aforementioned thread because I didn't wish to offend anyone and a penis isn't the sum of a man, I don't see anything wrong with the ladies saying they don't care for these types of REPEATED threads. There was just a thread to discuss male preferences for breasts on the main board about two (?) months ago.
Can we have another penis size thread, please? I mean, isn't a big ole schlong fitting for the "fantasy board"?

****Just felt the need to add a "thank you" to the men in this thread that were respectful and considerate to the opinions/feelings of the ladies :)

[Jon Blaze]

My beauty curve for women is pretty holistic. I have my favorite parts (Boobs, Bellies, Butts, Hips, backs, arms, legs, nice hair and a lovely face for example), but personality is the key. If I can't get along with someone enough to date, I don't care how attractive/hot they are: Nothing is going to happen.

I just happen to know someone that has the qualities to suit me, but she's very far away...

[Chimpi]

I just happen to know someone that has the qualities to suit me, but she's very far away...

U-Haul. :)

[Angel]

But Angel, I don't know... I think, if I had a woman with 689ZZZ breasts and a belly the size of Wal-Mart, I would not mind that when she accidently bumped her head into a wall, it would sound like a coconut. ;) :D :p


LOL, you silly man. :p
Try to wrap your mind around this. I saw a bra on ebay last night. Using standardized sizing guidelines, the size of that bra would be the equivalent of a 38Y! I kid you not!


EDIT: I was able to mention Buffie, Cindy, Erin, and Angel... all in one post - My 1,000th post. :D More specifically, I could care less about the number count.

Congrats on the 1000th. :)

[Angel]

Amen. Why do people make threads like this? For those of us who are more self concious of our large stomach/smaller breasts or larger breasts/smaller stomach, these threads are problematic.

Seriously, I've given this much thought. I think that when a female has been fat for here entire life, she becomes accustomed to or accepting of her physical shape. She may not be 100% happy with her shape, but she knows that genetics chose what her body shape would be and that there is nothing she can do to change that. We're only self conscious at times because of the underlying fear of what others may think of us. As females, we tend to be more accepting and live with a reality mentality. We take things as they are, and learn to live with it. We don't have to question why we look the way we do, we just accept that 'this is who I am'. Sure, we do try to enhance our attributes. :)

Males, on the other hand, need to feel that they are not alone in their way of thinking or alone when it comes to preferences. They need assurance from each other that their thoughts and preferences are within the norm. Most FAs here probably have never encountered another FA in real life unless thay have attended BBW type functions or get togethers. Many FAs feel 'different from everyone else' or because of society's pressures, question whether or not something is 'wrong' with their way of thinking. They are not attracted to what the typical male is. Unlike their peers, they may not become aroused when they see a beautiful skinny woman. FAs know they are different. Here at Dimensions, they encounter other males who think like they do, sometimes for the first time ever in their life. Many of their questions, though possibly not worded in a sensitive to females kind of way, are basically asking if other guys have the same thoughts and feelings that they do. Indirectly, they are asking for or seeking the acceptance that have never felt irl when among their male peers. I really don't think that most of these guys here are trying to insult or belittle us with their questions or ratings or preference questions. I think they are trying to find a place where they fit in, and trying to find their own personal comfort and acceptance with who they are as a fat admirer.

Just *my* thoughts

[985WEST]

Why are some full figured women so sensitive? There is nothing wrong with a man having a preferred body type. I defiantly have a preference, as I believe most men do. It should be looked at as a good thing rather than bad. Otherwise everyone would be attracted to the same type of person. It seems that whenever someone posses a question of what people like, or prefer, there are always a few people that get all up in arms about it. Aren’t we all adults here? No one is trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. But this is real life. For example I am a 5’ 10” black male that is in really good physical shape. But I am sure if someone on the forum asked the women if they like white men or black men there would be some that would say they prefer white. Or maybe not be attracted to black men at all. And that’s great. That is their choice. I’m not going to complain about it. Doesn’t bother me at all. And I am sure not going to bring up that it should be more about what is inside that counts. Because that was not the question. Of coarse what’s on the inside counts. But that is not what we are talking about. I think that if people were more honest about what they were attracted to (men and women, there would be a lot less hassle. If someone is interested in me I sure wouldn’t want their preference in men to be say 6’ 4” will long hair. I would want them to be attracted to me. Now I don’t claim to be “all that” by any means. But some of you females need to really get over it, and realize that full figured women are no different that thin women. In that there are all types, shapes and sizes. And just because you call yourself a BBW doesn’t mean everyone thinks you are beautiful. But I guarantee someone will. Because everyone has different preferences. And just because a man says he is attracted to full figured women doesn’t mean he is attracted to all full figured women. That would be as dumb as saying that if a female is attracted to black men that she is going to be attracted to me. Maybe she would, maybe she wouldn’t. But it is her choice and you can’t fault her for that. And I am sure not going to complain about it.

[Angel]

Weight Board
Erotic weight gain and fantasy issues

Thank you, but I do know how to read.

My post which you responded to was a post which was originally intended as a teasing or kidding joke to Santaclear. A couple times recently, he had posted that he didn't know what I was talking about. In this thread about boobs and bellies, he playfully asked what the question was. I am not clueless as some seem to think. In a playful retort to Santa, I posed a completely different question as to that of the OP. Guess some don't see the humor. Perhaps it takes having had an intense and long term relationship with the same man for years to understand. When a male is completely attracted to everything that a woman is; when they have been in a relationship for years, they grow to know the thought processes of each other. Even after having been involved for years, there are still occasions when the male will look at the female and completely loose every coherent thing about himself. He will be left speechless and not able to respond with verbal words. At that point, a woman knows that she is the center of his world, and that nothing else matters to him at that particular moment in time.

When a man is taken in by the sheer beauty of a woman and feels nothing but lust and adoration for her physical form like that, you recognize the look in his eyes, and you know that no matter how stong and powerful he may be at any other time, at that moment he is weak and vulnerable only in the sense that he is going to succumb to the purely physical lustful visions within his mind.

In this thread, the thoughts of big bellies and big boobs leave some men, even if for a brief moment in time, forgetting what was going on in reality, or playfully pretending to have forgotten what the question was to begin with.

[LillyBBBW]

People have their own preferences as to what they like in the opposite sex (or for some, the same sex)...but for once...could someone post about what they find attractive in the opposite sex/same sex that doesn't pertain to a body part?

Like what? Brains? Personality? Sharp wit? Tattoos? All been mentioned before, even in this thread. In fact, it gets mentioned in EVERY thread no matter what it's about. Most people won't start a thread that says, "Who here likes a woman's brain?" It's a rhetorical question although there will be at least two people who will say, "Not me. I like 'em pretty and dumb," which I'm sure everyone would love to read. Seriously, I don't see the logic in coming to a board about erotic fantasies and complaining about people who post erotic fantasy material. You have a right to your feelings but why read here if you're sick and tired of all this?

[Chimpi]

Why are some full figured women so sensitive? There is nothing wrong with a man having a preferred body type. I defiantly have a preference, as I believe most men do. It should be looked at as a good thing rather than bad. Otherwise everyone would be attracted to the same type of person. It seems that whenever someone posses a question of what people like, or prefer, there are always a few people that get all up in arms about it. Aren’t we all adults here? No one is trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. But this is real life. For example I am a 5’ 10” black male that is in really good physical shape. But I am sure if someone on the forum asked the women if they like white men or black men there would be some that would say they prefer white. Or maybe not be attracted to black men at all. And that’s great. That is their choice.

I disagree. I think the root of the "sensitivity" caused her is because some women do not feel that they are the one-and-only most beautiful woman in any mans life; that there are others that are looked at as sexier. Which is humanly and inherently true, of course. The same goes for women viewing men. I know there are countless more women that would find Brad Pitt or Vin Diesel much more attractive than I - I even find both of them some sexy ass human beings. Nothing wrong with a little prick on prick action (.... gender bender? ....). :D Back to my point.
I do not think that people are getting completely up in arms over what has been said. I believe a few women in here are a little saddened or insulted that us male figures on the boards keep making such threads as this (which, yes, objectify the women to their body parts).

I see nothing wrong with people having some offense/sadness/heartache/whatever-have-you over this thread. I respect their opinions and feelings, as I know what it feels like to have such feelings and emotions.

But, as has been said as well, this is a weight erotica board itself, where we should feel comfortable in making posts such as this. There is a lot of action going on in the BHM/FFA board with women swooning and objectifying fat men. Nothing wrong with that.
We all should be blessed to be with someone that worships every single atom that makes up our bodies.

Hell, I lost my train of thought. Back to the topic.

EDIT: Might I add that there are a few select people here that I completely admire, worship, and/or respect their brains/feelings/hearts/warmth/personality. You're one of them, Lilly, to name one of many. I like your brain.

[Angel]

Why are some full figured women so sensitive? There is nothing wrong with a man having a preferred body type. I defiantly have a preference, as I believe most men do. It should be looked at as a good thing rather than bad. Otherwise everyone would be attracted to the same type of person. It seems that whenever someone posses a question of what people like, or prefer, there are always a few people that get all up in arms about it. Aren’t we all adults here? No one is trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. But this is real life. For example I am a 5’ 10” black male that is in really good physical shape. But I am sure if someone on the forum asked the women if they like white men or black men there would be some that would say they prefer white. Or maybe not be attracted to black men at all. And that’s great. That is their choice. I’m not going to complain about it. Doesn’t bother me at all. And I am sure not going to bring up that it should be more about what is inside that counts. Because that was not the question. Of coarse what’s on the inside counts. But that is not what we are talking about. I think that if people were more honest about what they were attracted to (men and women, there would be a lot less hassle. If someone is interested in me I sure wouldn’t want their preference in men to be say 6’ 4” will long hair. I would want them to be attracted to me. Now I don’t claim to be “all that” by any means. But some of you females need to really get over it, and realize that full figured women are no different that thin women. In that there are all types, shapes and sizes. And just because you call yourself a BBW doesn’t mean everyone thinks you are beautiful. But I guarantee someone will. Because everyone has different preferences. And just because a man says he is attracted to full figured women doesn’t mean he is attracted to all full figured women. That would be as dumb as saying that if a female is attracted to black men that she is going to be attracted to me. Maybe she would, maybe she wouldn’t. But it is her choice and you can’t fault her for that. And I am sure not going to complain about it.

It's not just full figured women who are senstive. If it were only fat woman, there wouldn't be millions of slim and skinny women constantly dieting and having medical alterations made to their bodies. Those physical actions and some of the "sensitive" responses you see full figured women making are a result of the constant comments and mentality that females have to be a certain weight, a certain size, a certain body type, or possess a certain well endowedness to be acceptable. The mentality that any female should have to look a certain way or possess a certain physical attribute to be found attractive or acceptable, or that she has to fit into some catagory to be beautiful or sexy is not the same thing as a male having a preference. There is nothing wrong with having a preference, but when males pose question after question after question only about certain specific physical attributes, some women feel that that is all men are interested in, and that they will never measure up or be acceptable enough.

The good thing is that some woman finally begin to realize that it isn't them after all, who are lacking anything.

[Angel]

We all should be blessed to be with someone that worships every single atom that makes up our bodies.



Beautiful. :)

[GPL]

If I can find a man who is able to see all the beauty in me, then I'm all his.

What about me:bounce: ?
:batting:

Hugs,
GPL.

[GPL]

Like what? Brains? Personality? Sharp wit? Tattoos? All been mentioned before, even in this thread. In fact, it gets mentioned in EVERY thread no matter what it's about. Most people won't start a thread that says, "Who here likes a woman's brain?" It's a rhetorical question although there will be at least two people who will say, "Not me. I like 'em pretty and dumb," which I'm sure everyone would love to read. Seriously, I don't see the logic in coming to a board about erotic fantasies and complaining about people who post erotic fantasy material. You have a right to your feelings but why read here if you're sick and tired of all this?

I like a woman with brains!!
Lilly???:D

Hugs, GPL.

[Chimpi]

Hell, I lost my train of thought. Back to the topic.

Why are some full figured women so sensitive?

It's not just full figured women who are senstive. If it were only fat woman, there wouldn't be millions of slim and skinny women constantly dieting and having medical alterations made to their bodies. Those physical actions and some of the "sensitive" responses you see full figured women making are a result of the constant comments and mentality that females have to be a certain weight, a certain size, a certain body type, or possess a certain well endowedness to be acceptable. The mentality that any female should have to look a certain way or possess a certain physical attribute to be found attractive or acceptable, or that she has to fit into some catagory to be beautiful or sexy is not the same thing as a male having a preference. There is nothing wrong with having a preference, but when males pose question after question after question only about certain specific physical attributes, some women feel that that is all men are interested in, and that they will never measure up or be acceptable enough.

The good thing is that some woman finally begin to realize that it isn't them after all, who are lacking anything.

The good thing is, Angel said most of what I was going to say (in some way or another), and that I won't have to type too much more.
Asking why full figured women are so sensitive is like asking why black guys are so hateful. It depicts a certain and distinct group of people and adds an adjective (sensitive or hateful, in this case) to describe that distinct group of people. The fact is, ALL women are sensitive (Obviously I'm being dramatic and sarcastic), and ALL guys are hateful (Obviously I'm being dramatic and sarcastic). :) I have known many full figured, and skinny figured women that are sensitive.

And now that Angel was able to redeem what my other point was going to be....

And just because a man says he is attracted to full figured women doesn’t mean he is attracted to all full figured women. That would be as dumb as saying that if a female is attracted to black men that she is going to be attracted to me.

Sorry to pick apart your post yet again, WEST. No offense at all, of course, but this is a Discussion Board. :D
Anyway, I believe what you have just stated is the root of a lot of offense taken / feelings being hurt. I feel that some women feel left out.

That is the short, simplest, and best way to say what I was going to say.

Beautiful. :) Thank you.

[Angel]

...could someone post about what they find attractive in the opposite sex/same sex that doesn't pertain to a body part?

I find your intelligence, self-confidence, and independence attractive. I like the feminine and sensitive side, too.

I won't mention that you are beautiful and have a sexy body! *giggles*

[liz (di-va)]

I dunno, this is yet another thread that for me highlights the sometimes loggerheaded but linked agendas that exist here at Dim...women here seeking community and size acceptance and ass, and men here seeking, well, ass, first, and then some community. MOST OF THE TIME. I am generalizing. These things often work beautifully together. I love that. And maybe gender isn't the best way to divide this, but it's there's no denying the sometimes different MOs.

I do think there's room for all sorts of likes/dislikes in the fat girl world--it would worry me if everybody liked the same thing--but whether or not it's fun or exciting to hear about the intimate workings of someone's attraction is a crapshoot. Can be totally depressing. Or exciting. Or you ignore it. Or whatever. Regardless, it seems to be part of the package here.

And hello, fat girls at Dim. aren't extra-sensitive...we have to hear MORE about what people like, in GREATER detail, than the average woman does, I'm quite convinced. Like I said, some of it is exciting and fun and what we're here for, but either way I guess it's gonna twang some strings. Otherwise this thread wouldn't still be going four pages later (oops, gonna shut up now).

[GPL]

Amen. Why do people make threads like this? For those of us who are more self concious of our large stomach/smaller breasts or larger breasts/smaller stomach, these threads are problematic.

I know threads like these can break heads, and I dont know what they will do to some people who aren't as self concious as the most of us will maybe be.
But physical attraction is always a very important thing when it comes to liking the other person, together with all the rest (brains, attitude, self-confidence, fun, smile, etc). I always try to keep people who they are and accept everyone, but sometimes it is hard to like every type of person and I also do have my preferences on physical appearence...

Hugs,
GPL.

[GPL]

Suddenly this question popped into my mind:
How about handicapped people? How do they feel about this (attraction threads) and how do you feel about that issue? I know it doesnt have to be a thing, but I know for myself I'm one who is really not on the lookout for meeting a woman with a handicap. Guess this is even a more difficult question...
Please bare with me if this question is irritating or not right in here and forgive me my preference in this... I know there are no differences in the end.

Are there even some in here who can give a very personally meaning?

GPL.

[LillyBBBW]

Your wisdom is always admirable!! Then again...I am the President of your Southern New York State Fan Club!!
:kiss2:

EDIT: Might I add that there are a few select people here that I completely admire, worship, and/or respect their brains/feelings/hearts/warmth/personality. You're one of them, Lilly, to name one of many. I like your brain.

I like a woman with brains!!
Lilly???:D

Hugs, GPL.

Thanks so much guys. :wubu:

[mossystate]

Suddenly this question popped into my mind:
How about handicapped people? How do they feel about this (attraction threads) and how do you feel about that issue? I know it doesnt have to be a thing, but I know for myself I'm one who is really not on the lookout for meeting a woman with a handicap. Guess this is even a more difficult question...
Please bare with me if this question is irritating or not right in here and forgive me my preference in this... I know there are no differences in the end.

Are there even some in here who can give a very personally meaning?

GPL.

Um, not quite sure what all you are saying/asking, but, like I said about preferences, yes, we all have them, including people who are attracted to those with disabilities.I guess it all comes down to ..tact..there..I said it again.When a person starts saying.."this shape is the best".."this particular person is the most attractive out here"..etc..that is a simpleton..a person with no tact..but..preferences?..hey..yay..*L*

[Butterbelly]

I find your intelligence, self-confidence, and independence attractive. I like the feminine and sensitive side, too.

I won't mention that you are beautiful and have a sexy body! *giggles*

Awww, thank you Angel :)

[marlowegarp]

At the risk of offending someone, a definitive answer:

Belly.

Thanks, I'll be here all week.:)

[Tooz]

Why are some full figured women so sensitive? [...]But some of you females need to really get over it, and realize that full figured women are no different that thin women. In that there are all types, shapes and sizes. And just because you call yourself a BBW doesn’t mean everyone thinks you are beautiful. But I guarantee someone will. Because everyone has different preferences. And just because a man says he is attracted to full figured women doesn’t mean he is attracted to all full figured women. That would be as dumb as saying that if a female is attracted to black men that she is going to be attracted to me. Maybe she would, maybe she wouldn’t. But it is her choice and you can’t fault her for that. And I am sure not going to complain about it.

I feel like I have to say "are you shitting me?" a LOT on this board. Anyway, here is MY response:

First of all, a lot of us have every damn right to be sensitive, due to things that may have happened to us in our lifetimes. Fuck! Sexual harrassment, taunting, discrimination, I could go on. Don't tell me how you "don't get" said insecurities. Don't say someone "needs to get over it." That's amazingly insensitive. I don't even know where to START on that one.

And while you do make some good points about diversity in regards to attraction, my point was that we don't need to sit here and dwell on how awesome some bodies are and how awesome others AREN'T. I don't see how positive things could come of it. It's like "WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE BBW" thread or whatever.

[supersoup]

i'm with the lovely tooz, i hate threads like this...

you like what you like, period. and i don't care who you are or what your reasoning is, it's asinine to TYPE FOR ALL TO READ that you think one body type is better than another. newsflash, to someone, you are being offensive. let's quit with all this nonsense kids, my head is starting to hurt. it's almost like i've wandered into hyde park.

we can all be e-friends. someone, commence with the dogs in hats!

[Tina]

My feelings are mixed on this. I'm no fan of the objectifying threads, nor am I thrilled with the popularity/most beautiful threads, but by the same token, I also understand that there are few places where FAs can discuss what turns them on. So for me, I've looked at this thread and thought, "bleh." But then I also am of the mind that if it bothers me so much I don't need to look at it. :p There is an exception to this and that is if someone is truly being offensive. There's no call for that, but bellies and boobs? Eh, no big deal.

[mossystate]

ack..dogs....now...cats...that's where it's at...maybe cats with large parts?...:D

[Spanky]

How about BOOBIES with hats and large parts.....minus the hats and the large parts being blue webbed feet. THEY'RE HUUUUUUGE!

[Chimpi]

And on another note...
(I have no idea why I've been posting constantly today... just felt like it for a change :D)

This is a Discussion Boards all-together (Dimensions) created by a "Fat Admirer" (Conrad/Webmaster) where other "Fat Admirers" can come and be comfortable with their preference and talk freely about it. *shrugs*

Secondly, this is the one section of the boards (Weight Board) where said "Fat Admirers" should feel the MOST comfort talking about their preference and everything to do with it. I believe that is why this Board is here. Same goes for the BHM/FFA Board.

Thirdly, Dimensions gains (pun intended) new members quite frequently. Many of these new members' first vision of these Boards are first in the Weight Board (because it is linked on the main Dimenions (http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com) page). Therefor, they see the progression of what is allowed to be talked about here, therefor, when they join in, they do so with the same progression of the topics. Many of the new members post new threads on this forum with this sort of thread discussion, hence many, many threads pop up for it.
Personally, I would have never used the "Search" button to search for old topics of what I want to post when I was an ex-lurker/first-time-poster. :)

Man, I'll shut up now. Anybody here like Big Peni? I sure don't...
Only small...
:D :shocked:

[William]

Hi Chimpi

I think that the BHM/FFA is just a general topics board for BHM and FFAs, not a weight board.

William


And on another note...
(I have no idea why I've been posting constantly today... just felt like it for a change :D)

This is a Discussion Boards all-together (Dimensions) created by a "Fat Admirer" (Conrad/Webmaster) where other "Fat Admirers" can come and be comfortable with their preference and talk freely about it. *shrugs*

Secondly, this is the one section of the boards (Weight Board) where said "Fat Admirers" should feel the MOST comfort talking about their preference and everything to do with it. I believe that is why this Board is here. Same goes for the BHM/FFA Board.

Thirdly, Dimensions gains (pun intended) new members quite frequently. Many of these new members' first vision of these Boards are first in the Weight Board (because it is linked on the main Dimenions (http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com) page). Therefor, they see the progression of what is allowed to be talked about here, therefor, when they join in, they do so with the same progression of the topics. Many of the new members post new threads on this forum with this sort of thread discussion, hence many, many threads pop up for it.
Personally, I would have never used the "Search" button to search for old topics of what I want to post when I was an ex-lurker/first-time-poster. :)

Man, I'll shut up now. Anybody here like Big Peni? I sure don't...
Only small...
:D :shocked:

[Chimpi]

Hi Chimpi

I think that the BHM/FFA is just a general topics board for BHM and FFAs, not a weight board.

William

That is correct. But, they also have their erotic threads in there. I've seen the "Female Fat Admirers" posting their fat guy topics in here, and then a moderator saying to "Please keep it in the BHM/FFA Board" or some such situation. :)
I never said BHM/FFA Board was an Erotic BHM/FFA Board.
Hooah!

[HotBBWnKC]

When I see a guy out in public, the first thing I notice is NOT his IQ, his ability to make me smile or some other form of internal happenings. I see the features that attract me to him such as his ass, eyes and height. If a guy wants to admit he likes my boobs or my belly then go for it, talk about it! I am secure enough to know that the man I end up with will not only love me for my external parts but even more so for what is on the inside. Men will be men, this is what they talk about. Well this and sports and how big the engine is in their vehicle.

[William]

Hi Chimpi

I was not referring to Erotic Talk, I meant that the BBW/FFA board was not created as gaining board, but as a compliment tp the Dimensions Main Board.

William


That is correct. But, they also have their erotic threads in there. I've seen the "Female Fat Admirers" posting their fat guy topics in here, and then a moderator saying to "Please keep it in the BHM/FFA Board" or some such situation. :)
I never said BHM/FFA Board was an Erotic BHM/FFA Board.
Hooah!

[BigCutieSasha]

At the risk of offending someone, a definitive answer:

Belly.

Thanks, I'll be here all week.:)

Haha :) Very nice. Nothing wrong with answering when an honest question is being asked. I think that was the whole point of this thread. Not to affend anyone, but for pure curiosity. For those affended, sorry if men and women like to openly share their physical preferences. Or am I wrong to think that is what this site is for? A common love for wonderful physical attributes.

[Spanky]

...and BELLIES! The yellow bellied sapsucker variation.....


sorry, less hat again. <seems a little too proud of his tummy though>

[Fuzzy]

Golly, I'm always missing the good threads... ;)

I'm a big belly lovin' man. Always have been. The curves, creases, rolls, stretchmarks, softness, fatness, heaviness, fullness, roundness, jiggly, wiggly, ripply, hefty, hugely, vastly, shockingly big bellies. :smitten:

I know it wasn't a part of the question, but I'm also partial to big butts.

[PiscesGirl]

Golly, I'm always missing the good threads... ;)

I'm a big belly lovin' man. Always have been. The curves, creases, rolls, stretchmarks, softness, fatness, heaviness, fullness, roundness, jiggly, wiggly, ripply, hefty, hugely, vastly, shockingly big bellies. :smitten:

I know it wasn't a part of the question, but I'm also partial to big butts.

I <3 your post. You made your prefrence known but in a loving way.

[Fuzzy]

I'm kinda obsessive that way. ;)

[AnnMarie]

I for one like to read this kind of stuff and find out what men find appealing. There's enough diversity of tastes here to not feel like I'm being proded with sticks if somebody likes something other than my particular shape. As a previous poster said this is a non academic board for erotic fantasies and stuff. I try to steer myself from feeling shot down because I can't appear in every sex scene described here. Can't we all just try to be passive onlookers instead of taking offense so easlily?

I agree. I post 100 other things on here a day where they can admire my wit or insight or whatever other little part of my head they want. If people want to talk about thinking a belly is really hot and why..... go for it, it's part of what this board is about, and what makes it unique.

I can sit around with a bunch of chicks and talk about how amazing and smart they all are from dusk til dawn, but sometimes it's all about what makes you tick "down there" - for both women and men.

[activistfatgirl]

I'm in total agreement with LillyBBW, also, for what its worth. We should make you queen of the weight board. You do a great job with calling out posts that go too far but also allowing real discussion of attraction and fat sexuality that sometimes makes folks uncomfortable.

[Jon Blaze]

Do you guys think maybe the format is a bit akward? Like the fact that because of the title (Big Boobs vs Big Bellies, or any part), it is bound to become a clash?
I honestly think the threads like double chin, back fat, and belly hang are wonderful. I know some of the parts that women tend to be self conscious tend to be expressed fully in those threads as being lovely. Maybe this should have been like "Big Boobs and Big Bellies: Share your love." Or somezing...

[mossystate]

Jon..yes..yes.....tact..tact...tact..this is NOT about preferences..:doh: :doh: :doh:

[rainyday]

I for one like to read this kind of stuff and find out what men find appealing. There's enough diversity of tastes here to not feel like I'm being proded with sticks if somebody likes something other than my particular shape. As a previous poster said this is a non academic board for erotic fantasies and stuff. I try to steer myself from feeling shot down because I can't appear in every sex scene described here. Can't we all just try to be passive onlookers instead of taking offense so easlily?

Add one more who agrees. While I chuckled at the original poster asking for more specific details, these threads don't really bother me. They used to offend me a lot, but somewhere over the years that offense fell away. Besides, what woman hasn't asked her own man (or one she's interested in) "so what type do you like?" In that setting it might be harder to hear that whatever you are isn't the ideal. But random strangers on a web board, not so much.

I do think though there's a respectful way to respond and not all posts hit the mark. But the question itself isn't an offensive one, and I like listening in to the answers even if after a while you can guess what they'll be.

[Ruby Ripples]

Like what? Brains? Personality? Sharp wit? Tattoos? All been mentioned before, even in this thread. In fact, it gets mentioned in EVERY thread no matter what it's about. Most people won't start a thread that says, "Who here likes a woman's brain?" It's a rhetorical question although there will be at least two people who will say, "Not me. I like 'em pretty and dumb," which I'm sure everyone would love to read. Seriously, I don't see the logic in coming to a board about erotic fantasies and complaining about people who post erotic fantasy material. You have a right to your feelings but why read here if you're sick and tired of all this?

I don't even have to post any more on this, suffice to say, I agree 100% on everything Lilly has said here and through the rest of the thread!

[Ruby Ripples]

When I see a guy out in public, the first thing I notice is NOT his IQ, his ability to make me smile or some other form of internal happenings. I see the features that attract me to him such as his ass, eyes and height. If a guy wants to admit he likes my boobs or my belly then go for it, talk about it! I am secure enough to know that the man I end up with will not only love me for my external parts but even more so for what is on the inside. Men will be men, this is what they talk about. Well this and sports and how big the engine is in their vehicle.


AMEN!!! Thank goodness for common sense!

[Ruby Ripples]

Haha :) Very nice. Nothing wrong with answering when an honest question is being asked. I think that was the whole point of this thread. Not to affend anyone, but for pure curiosity. For those affended, sorry if men and women like to openly share their physical preferences. Or am I wrong to think that is what this site is for? A common love for wonderful physical attributes.

Thankyou Sasha, that was exactly my thoughts when Marlowe said that. I wonder how many guys were too scared to post on this thread, for fear of being pounced on by the naysayers.

[blubrluvr]

Boobs. Most decidedly, Boobs.

Once a woman's belly starts to protrude further than her boobs I get less interested. To me, big bellies are kind of androgynous. A woman whose boobs are no bigger than "man boobs" on a male of similar weight simply does nothing for me.

I find it difficult to be turned on by women with boobs smaller than D or DD cups. As a woman's weight goes up, I find that I need her to be DDD/F or higher for me to find her attractive.

Sorry, that's just how it is. I responding at a purely primal level here. I will say that some women's personalities will elicit a response from me regardless of what their body or chest size is. For every rule there is an exception.

[LillyBBBW]

Jon..yes..yes.....tact..tact...tact..this is NOT about preferences..:doh: :doh: :doh:

Who *EDIT* besides blubrluvr *END EDIT* was being tackless, M? I'm not sure which post(s) you are refering to.

[LillyBBBW]

Boobs. Most decidedly, Boobs.

Once a woman's belly starts to protrude further than her boobs I get less interested. To me, big bellies are kind of androgynous. A woman whose boobs are no bigger than "man boobs" on a male of similar weight simply does nothing for me.

I find it difficult to be turned on by women with boobs smaller than D or DD cups. As a woman's weight goes up, I find that I need her to be DDD/F or higher for me to find her attractive.

Sorry, that's just how it is. I responding at a purely primal level here. I will say that some women's personalities will elicit a response from me regardless of what their body or chest size is. For every rule there is an exception.

blubrluvr, you ever hear an expression called TMI? It means Too Much Information. This was a perfectly marvelous thread until your post. A brief example of what I mean:

Exhibit 1:
"I like strawberries because they are red, sweet, juicy and they are easy to handle" positive

Exhibit 2:
"I like strawberries because they are not cumbersome, slightly bitter, dry and yellow like bananas." negative

You're saying the same thing essentially only while one expresses your preference in a positive manner, the other uses put downs on other preferences as a tool to make your point which is very ugly and not cool. I hope the moderators will not delete your offensive post simply to serve as an example of what NOT to do for people who are unclear on the concept. But in my opinion your post constitutes deletable material.

[Ruby Ripples]

I have to say that I actually was delighted to see another honest response to the question that was posed at the beginning of the thread! And he is very honest, and says that's purely on a primal level. I would be horrified if his post was deleted as "offensive", when he just answered a purely physical question with a purely physical answer, he wasn't rude, didn't swear or anything.

[LillyBBBW]

If I said I find small penises effeminate would you say that was offensive?

[_broshe_]

Boobs. Bellies. Butts. Brains.


:D

aparently we have a zombie in our mist.:eek:

[_broshe_]

It is threads like these that almost make me ashamed of being a guy

Although I'll admit that I do look around every now and again, love only occurs if their is an mutual attraction of both mental, physical and culture. JPII (god bless him) wrote (I'll have to look up the actuall paper some time) that love occurs first in the mental sence and slowly transends into the physical sence. Now granted there has to be some form of physical conection between the two individuals.

court adjourned

[985WEST]

Wow, you sure missed the whole point (I’ll try to act surprised). For starters I wasn’t talking about being sensitive in general. I was talking about being sensitive to this specific topic. The person that started this tred posed a very simple, black and white question. Nothing more nothing less. And don’t even try to preach to me about discrimination. I have stories and experiences that would make sick. Now if the people of this site decide that questions about body preference should not be asked, so be it. But until that time comes, it’s no big deal. You just need to be happy with you. And yes get over it. Because if waste your time trying to make every body happy, you will never be happy. Everyone, male and female, is beautiful in their own way. Just not in every way to everyone. I know I’m not.
And to Chimpi (or anyone else) you’re cool with me. I welcome criticism. I only ask that you take what I say at face value and not jump to your own conclusions.

[mossystate]

Who *EDIT* besides blubrluvr *END EDIT* was being tackless, M? I'm not sure which post(s) you are refering to.

No, I was referring to the 'tone' in here that was saying that the people who were offended were across the board saying that it is wrong to have preferences.There IS a way to express what one likes without it being.."this is the best".."that is gross"..."me have no tact here on Dims boards".

I HAVE PREFERENCES:doh:

I do not see someones soul from across a room.

[Tooz]

Wow, you sure missed the whole point (I’ll try to act surprised). For starters I wasn’t talking about being sensitive in general. I was talking about being sensitive to this specific topic. The person that started this tred posed a very simple, black and white question. Nothing more nothing less. And don’t even try to preach to me about discrimination. I have stories and experiences that would make [you] sick. Now if the people of this site decide that questions about body preference should not be asked, so be it. But until that time comes, it’s no big deal. You just need to be happy with you. And yes get over it. Because if waste your time trying to make every body happy, you will never be happy. Everyone, male and female, is beautiful in their own way. Just not in every way to everyone. I know I’m not.
And to Chimpi (or anyone else) you’re cool with me. I welcome criticism. I only ask that you take what I say at face value and not jump to your own conclusions.

Oh, Jesus, I guess you missed my point too. Also, let's not compare notes on discrimination. Honestly, how would YOU like it if I said "Oh, get over it" to what YOU have experienced? Maybe it's not exactly the same as what you are saying, but I maintain that saying "get over it" is NOT appropriate. You, however, will probably keep missing my point, so I'm gonna drop this now. I'll spell it out one more time, though-- my problem with this thread is it seems like one that would lean towards negativity too much. It would be too easy to have it end up being hurtful in some way.

Oh, and by the way-- my name's not in caps. :p

[985WEST]

No, I had to get over it. Or it would have eaten me alive. And I totally agree with the possibility of there being negative connotations. If people take for more than what it is. I just don’t think that was their intent.

[blubrluvr]

It's as though the last paragraph of my posing did not exist.

Luv ya Ruby!

[Tragdor]

I think I will agree with Fuzzy with his statement that bellies are very imporant. Love of big bellies is what seperates FAs from "ass men" and "boob men".

[Angel]

I think I will agree with Fuzzy with his statement that bellies are very imporant. Love of big bellies is what seperates FAs from "ass men" and "boob men".

Good point.

[Jon Blaze]

I think I will agree with Fuzzy with his statement that bellies are very imporant. Love of big bellies is what seperates FAs from "ass men" and "boob men".

Not to be rude or anything, but I find that to be misleading. Fat Admirers are attracted to added flesh. That doesn't mean they have to adore certain body parts in order to be given the title.

I think it would be important for an FA to not look down upon a tummy. I don't think he/she necessarily has to adore it.

[Angel]

OK. This is something I've wondered about. A guy will see a female or post a pic of a big busted female, who might be a size 12 or 14 at the most. He believes himself to be a FA because he is attracted to big busted "average sized" women. If you took that female and could somehow morph her, making her appear to be FAT (250 pounds minimum), would the guy still be attracted to that female? If you took the same female and again could somehow morph her, making her appear to be FAT, and make her appear to have small breasts, would the guy still find her attractive?

If the guy no longer found the same female attractive when she was truly indeed FAT, would he really be a FA or not?

See what I'm saying? :confused:

Same could be said if it was a guy who is into big butts, or big thighs, etc.

[Jon Blaze]

OK. This is something I've wondered about. A guy will see a female or post a pic of a big busted female, who might be a size 12 or 14 at the most. He believes himself to be a FA because he is attracted to big busted "average sized" women. If you took that female and could somehow morph her, making her appear to be FAT (250 pounds minimum), would the guy still be attracted to that female? If you took the same female and again could somehow morph her, making her appear to be FAT, and make her appear to have small breasts, would the guy still find her attractive?

If the guy no longer found the same female attractive when she was truly indeed FAT, would he really be a FA or not?

See what I'm saying? :confused:

Same could be said if it was a guy who is into big butts, or big thighs, etc.

Then wouldn't that be the same for women with large tummies? The girl that caused my conversion was quite thin, but for someone of her size, she had a rather large tummy.

If someone is only attracted to the tummy, wouldn't that single them out as well? :confused:

[Spanky]

This is actually an interesting thread (except for that jackass posting pics of boobies and bellies ;) )

I don't like the labelling that goes on more and more in society. If anyone can write a specification on an FA, please post it immediately. Then I can see if I should remove myself from the boards. BUT, then we can start weighing BBWs to determine EXACTLY whether they are BBWs or not.

Boobs, butts, bellies. Yeah, everyone has preferences that catch their eye. I am told as a male, I am much more visually stimulated than the average female. Fine. I love the female form. There are infinite female forms to look at. Females have curves and shapes and movements that males just don't have. It is in that difference (as a heterosexual) that I find my attraction.

With that said, my head turns more and my eyes focus more on the extreme form of female. Larger hips, bigger curves, softer bodies. I would never put a weight on it. It is the beautiful movements of everything together. To me personally, BBW forms are a visual stimulation like fine wine as compared (in general) to the Kool-aid stimulation of a skinny female form.

But, gasp, I do also notice beautiful thinner women. Why? I don't know and don't lose sleep over it. I guess it is not black and white. Maybe the more varied appreciation, the more beauty you can appreciate each day. :)

[Jon Blaze]

This is actually an interesting thread (except for that jackass posting pics of boobies and bellies ;) )

I don't like the labelling that goes on more and more in society. If anyone can write a specification on an FA, please post it immediately. Then I can see if I should remove myself from the boards. BUT, then we can start weighing BBWs to determine EXACTLY whether they are BBWs or not.

Boobs, butts, bellies. Yeah, everyone has preferences that catch their eye. I am told as a male, I am much more visually stimulated than the average female. Fine. I love the female form. There are infinite female forms to look at. Females have curves and shapes and movements that males just don't have. It is in that difference (as a heterosexual) that I find my attraction.

With that said, my head turns more and my eyes focus more on the extreme form of female. Larger hips, bigger curves, softer bodies. I would never put a weight on it. It is the beautiful movements of everything together. To me personally, BBW forms are a visual stimulation like fine wine as compared (in general) to the Kool-aid stimulation of a skinny female form.

But, gasp, I do also notice beautiful thinner women. Why? I don't know and don't lose sleep over it. I guess it is not black and white. Maybe the more varied appreciation, the more beauty you can appreciate each day. :)

Exactdemundo!! :D

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

You must spread some reputation around before giving it to Green Eyed Fairy again.


You know, some of the posts I saw in this thread reminded me of that penis size thread from back a few months ago (It was an old thread that had been resurrected). I took note that some of the guys in that thread seemed not to like it- I noticed a couple of comments about it from them in other threads around the board. I understood and respected their comments/ideas about it.
So after seeing guy after guy after guy on here making all these threads about body parts, part of me really isn't offended simply because I'm used to men being that way. I really have no objection to this thread personally, however, I support the ladies that do.
Hell, if I'm expected to be sensitive and not talk about my preferences for a bigger d**ks, which I refrained from in that aforementioned thread because I didn't wish to offend anyone and a penis isn't the sum of a man, I don't see anything wrong with the ladies saying they don't care for these types of REPEATED threads. There was just a thread to discuss male preferences for breasts on the main board about two (?) months ago.
Can we have another penis size thread, please? I mean, isn't a big ole schlong fitting for the "fantasy board"?

****Just felt the need to add a "thank you" to the men in this thread that were respectful and considerate to the opinions/feelings of the ladies :)

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

I have to spread the reputation around before giving it to Jon Blaze again. I could not agree more!


My beauty curve for women is pretty holistic. I have my favorite parts (Boobs, Bellies, Butts, Hips, backs, arms, legs, nice hair and a lovely face for example), but personality is the key. If I can't get along with someone enough to date, I don't care how attractive/hot they are: Nothing is going to happen.

I just happen to know someone that has the qualities to suit me, but she's very far away...

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

As a black man, I could not agree more. I would not want someone to date me because she likes black men and I'm a black man. Neither would I want to date a woman simply becuase I like her shape. Physical attraction is just the beginning. I find that compatibility and getting along with one another are paramount.

Women in general tend to be senstive about their looks. Every day women receive messages from other women, from men, and from the advertisers about their looks. In the case of large women, many of those messages are not positive. If I were a large woman and every 3rd commercial I saw was a diet commercial, I probably would feel senstitive about my looks.

My big sticking point is that we should celebrate our preferences without beauty contests or ranking women from top to bottom. If a man likes large breasts or large bellies or large asses or women of the same/a different culture, let's celebrate it. But beauty is not like gasoline in a tank. You can't quantify it or measure it.

There are multiple standards of beauty and not every man finds the same type of woman beautiful. I don't care what the media advertisers say. I will never agree that pencil-thin women who have tight posteriors, high heeled shoes and 36C breasts are the gold standard of beauty that every woman should follow.


Why are some full figured women so sensitive? There is nothing wrong with a man having a preferred body type. I defiantly have a preference, as I believe most men do. It should be looked at as a good thing rather than bad. Otherwise everyone would be attracted to the same type of person. It seems that whenever someone posses a question of what people like, or prefer, there are always a few people that get all up in arms about it. Aren’t we all adults here? No one is trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. But this is real life. For example I am a 5’ 10” black male that is in really good physical shape. But I am sure if someone on the forum asked the women if they like white men or black men there would be some that would say they prefer white. Or maybe not be attracted to black men at all. And that’s great. That is their choice. I’m not going to complain about it. Doesn’t bother me at all. And I am sure not going to bring up that it should be more about what is inside that counts. Because that was not the question. Of coarse what’s on the inside counts. But that is not what we are talking about. I think that if people were more honest about what they were attracted to (men and women, there would be a lot less hassle. If someone is interested in me I sure wouldn’t want their preference in men to be say 6’ 4” will long hair. I would want them to be attracted to me. Now I don’t claim to be “all that” by any means. But some of you females need to really get over it, and realize that full figured women are no different that thin women. In that there are all types, shapes and sizes. And just because you call yourself a BBW doesn’t mean everyone thinks you are beautiful. But I guarantee someone will. Because everyone has different preferences. And just because a man says he is attracted to full figured women doesn’t mean he is attracted to all full figured women. That would be as dumb as saying that if a female is attracted to black men that she is going to be attracted to me. Maybe she would, maybe she wouldn’t. But it is her choice and you can’t fault her for that. And I am sure not going to complain about it.

[Tina]

You're an evolved man, CBBWL. Well said.

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

Tragdor, while you may consider the belly to be the paramount body part to enjoy, your view on fat admiration is myopic. We guys all like what we like. Having a different preference from another guy does not make a man more or less of a fat admirer.

Fat women come in many different shapes and sizes. Some are pear-shaped, some are apple shaped, some are hourglass shaped, and some are any combination of these. There are tall fat women and short fat women. Some women have round bellies. Others have bellies that hang all the way down to their calves. Some BBWs have shapely, well defined legs. Others have less attractive legs. some fat women have large round arms. Others don't. Some fat women have double chins. Others don't. Some women have breasts as flat as pancakes and other women have big knockers.

Here is a question: Does it make me less of a fat admirer, according to your logic, that I prefer round bellies over bellies that hang past a woman's knees?

One thing my daddy told me when I was very young was that different people like different things. I will impart this maxim to you and to the other readers because it is directly applicable to this thread.

Being a fat admirer is not about whether you prefer big boobs or big bellies. Frankly, I think being a fat admirer is whether you like large women in general. Now I will make a comparison.

There are a lot of BBWs who are very much into African American men. Does liking a thuggish black man make the woman more of an admirer than a woman who likes a professional man? Does liking light skinned black men make the woman more of an admirer than a woman who likes very dark men? Does liking a man who is 5'9 make a woman less of an admirer than a woman who likes a man who is 6'4? All of the women described above are women who are attracted to black men, but they all like a different type of man.

Narrow definitions about who is a fat admirer are as ridiculous as the debates about who is supersized and who isn't. Isn't it a shame in our community that you have some women who stop attending BBW events because they don't want the "you aren't big enough to be here" type of dagger stares?

You claim that every man must be a belly man like you in order to be considered authentic. That's just like claiming that everyone must be very dark, wear pants that hang below your waist and show your underwear, and use bad English in order to be accepted.

This is ignorance and immaturity.

People are different. But every human being has inherent value and dignity. While all of us men may like big women, we all like different types of BBWs and SSBBWs. Whether a man likes big bellies or DDs/FFs is insignificant compared to whether he likes the complete woman.

I don't like the title of this thread. The author or the moderator should go back and retitle this as "Big boobs and big bellies." Every woman has inherent dignity. I think that we can celebrate the beauty and femininity of woman with big boobs and women with big bellies.

I think I will agree with Fuzzy with his statement that bellies are very imporant. Love of big bellies is what seperates FAs from "ass men" and "boob men".

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

Tragdor, while you may consider the belly to be the paramount body part to enjoy, your view on fat admiration is myopic. We guys all like what we like. Having a different preference from another guy does not make a man more or less of a fat admirer.

Fat women come in many different shapes and sizes. Some are pear-shaped, some are apple shaped, some are hourglass shaped, and some are any combination of these. There are tall fat women and short fat women. Some women have round bellies. Others have bellies that hang all the way down to their calves. Some BBWs have shapely, well defined legs. Others have less attractive legs. some fat women have large round arms. Others don't. Some fat women have double chins. Others don't. Some women have breasts as flat as pancakes and other women have big knockers.

Here is a question: Does it make me less of a fat admirer, according to your logic, that I prefer round bellies over bellies that hang past a woman's knees?

One thing my daddy told me when I was very young was that different people like different things. I will impart this maxim to you and to the other readers because it is directly applicable to this thread.

Being a fat admirer is not about whether you prefer big boobs or big bellies. Frankly, I think being a fat admirer is whether you like large women in general. Now I will make a comparison.

There are a lot of BBWs who are very much into African American men. Does liking a thuggish black man make the woman more of an admirer than a woman who likes a professional man? Does liking light skinned black men make the woman more of an admirer than a woman who likes very dark men? Does liking a man who is 5'9 make a woman less of an admirer than a woman who likes a man who is 6'4? All of the women described above are women who are attracted to black men, but they all like a different type of man.

Narrow definitions about who is a fat admirer are as ridiculous as the debates about who is supersized and who isn't. Isn't it a shame in our community that you have some women who stop attending BBW events because they don't want the "you aren't big enough to be here" type of dagger stares?

You claim that every man must be a belly man like you in order to be considered authentic. That's just like claiming that everyone must be very dark, wear pants that hang below your waist and show your underwear, and use bad English in order to be accepted.

This is ignorance and immaturity.

People are different. But every human being has inherent value and dignity. While all of us men may like big women, we all like different types of BBWs and SSBBWs. Whether a man likes big bellies or DDs/FFs is insignificant compared to whether he likes the complete woman.

I don't like the title of this thread. The author or the moderator should go back and retitle this as "Big boobs and big bellies." Every woman has inherent dignity. I think that we can celebrate the beauty and femininity of woman with big boobs and women with big bellies.

I think I will agree with Fuzzy with his statement that bellies are very imporant. Love of big bellies is what seperates FAs from "ass men" and "boob men".

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

Thank you, Tina. I think you are a very thoughtful woman and a great moderator.

You're an evolved man, CBBWL. Well said.

[Buffetbelly]

The Wisdom of Frank Zappa and the Mothers of Invention:

FRANK ZAPPA lyrics -
"What's The Ugliest Part Of Your Body?"

www.OldieLyrics.com (http://www.oldielyrics.com/)

What's the ugliest
Part of your body?
What's the ugliest
Part of your body?
Some say your nose
Some say your toes
(I think it's your mind)
But I think it's YOUR MIND
(Your mind)
I think it's your mind, woo woo

[Krissy12]

I can't decide...I'll have to touch my belly and then my boobs again to let you know which one makes me hotter.

One minute later.....

Still can't tell. They both feel very fleshy to me. ;)

[Jon Blaze]

I can't decide...I'll have to touch my belly and then my boobs again to let you know which one makes me hotter.

One minute later.....

Still can't tell. They both feel very fleshy to me. ;)


*DROPS JAW*
:p

And I still can't spread reps to Curvaceousbbwlover.....
Once again....
*Beethoven's 5th Symphony*
SON OF A B**************!!!!

[Spanky]

*DROPS JAW*
:p



Jon! The poor lady needs some help deciding! Now pick up that jaw and go help her! :D :D :D

But just for a minute....

[fiddypence]

In all things there must be balance.

[Jon Blaze]

Jon! The poor lady needs some help deciding! Now pick up that jaw and go help her! :D :D :D

But just for a minute....

But you're closer to her!! I'm in Florida GOSHHHHHHHHH!! :p

[Chimpi]

Tragdor, while you may consider the belly to be the paramount body part to enjoy, your view on fat admiration is myopic. We guys all like what we like. Having a different preference from another guy does not make a man more or less of a fat admirer.

Agreed. :)

A man that finds a size 14 woman whom has a very large buttocks, but a very small stomach, is no less a "Fat Admirer" than another man that loves a size 18 woman with a very large stomach and small everything else.
If it's big in comparison to normal standards, then you're welcome to be labelled a "Fat Admirer". At least, that is what I think. :)

[KerryNation]

Neither, if she has the personality of a wet rag.

However, if we are talking about purely hypothetical general preferences--why not both!

Toss in plush arms and big curvy hips too.

In all seriousness, my own preferences for models like Susie Wilden, Kerry Marie, Alicia and so on started because of a big breast fetish, which I still have and proudly acknowledge, but their lush expanded physiques turned me on more than I could have imagined. In part because their boobs were bigger, but in no small part due to their protruding bellies, wider hips, fleshier arms and faces....and so on. So from a purely physical standpoint, the rest of the package is equally meaningful to me.

Of course, intelligence and wit and charm and kindness are more essential than any physical gift, though. I answered your question presuming that this "dream girl" already had those qualities in spades.

IMHO.



I couldn't agree with you more! Kerry, Susie, Autumn, and Nadine Jansen are my definition of "supremely attactive" and "supremely womanly" all rolled into one! I think my early attraction to them is what led me into being attracted to my girlfriend. She has a figure that mimics those ladies, and a GREAt sunny personality to boot.

[Krissy12]

But you're closer to her!! I'm in Florida GOSHHHHHHHHH!! :p

Hahahah..why do I feel like a drowning victim on the beach who's so ugly that the EMTs are fighting over who has to give them mouth-to-mouth?

No, YOU do it! NO, YOU DO IT!

:p

[Cossaboom]

I couldn't agree with you more! Kerry, Susie, Autumn, and Nadine Jansen are my definition of "supremely attactive" and "supremely womanly" all rolled into one! I think my early attraction to them is what led me into being attracted to my girlfriend. She has a figure that mimics those ladies, and a GREAt sunny personality to boot.

Don't get me started on Autumn. She was cute when she first made a name for herself, then gained weight and her appeal factor zoomed off the charts for me. She was gorgeous. I hoped she'd evolve into an "XL Girl" or BBW. Then she went the other direction and was never quite the same. If she's happy, good for her, but that was a sad day for this fan.

There isn't anything wrong with big breasts, or with liking them. It is a physical characteristic of a particular body type. Anyone who prefers big (natural) breasts is going to gravitate towards a fleshier, more voluptuous body type. That same inclination is somewhat likely to make one prefer curvier hips over narrower ones, a fuller butt over a flatter one, etc. etc. etc.

Women have their likes, too. Whether it's chests, or arms, or butts, or a "big member", it's all the same. Is it shallow? Is it superficial? That's for everyone to answer for themselves. But people don't look at someone on the street and say "what a gorgeous brain--I want to get to know him/her". It is completely natural--and healthy--to be physically attracted to someone. If those people are compatible--i.e., intellectually, emotionally, etc.--and can live with each other's likes, dislikes, moods, etc., then a long lasting, meaningful relationship can develop. But to suggest that physical attraction is not or should not be an important part of any relationship is nuts, IMHO.

There are days when you just need an itch scratched. Sometimes, that kind of sex can be the most fun.

$.02

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

Absolutely!

Then wouldn't that be the same for women with large tummies? The girl that caused my conversion was quite thin, but for someone of her size, she had a rather large tummy.

If someone is only attracted to the tummy, wouldn't that single them out as well? :confused:

[Tragdor]

Agreed. :)

A man that finds a size 14 woman whom has a very large buttocks, but a very small stomach, is no less a "Fat Admirer" than another man that loves a size 18 woman with a very large stomach and small everything else.
If it's big in comparison to normal standards, then you're welcome to be labelled a "Fat Admirer". At least, that is what I think. :)

well okay let me restate what I ment. I seem to have mispoke myself. A FA may have preference for any area of a woman. Its just that the large majority of non-FA men who have preference for only for large breast or a large rear, do not like large bellies. And the FA acceptance of a larger belly is something which sets up apart from the non-FAs. Again this doesn't mean to be a FA you have to like the belly first and foremost.

[JMCGB]

Taken from the movie Lucky Number Slevin, "I will say what the man with two dicks says to the tailor when asked if he dresses to the left or the right. Yes."

I really dont favor one over the other as every woman has her own unique qualities that sets her apart from all the others. I just live by the big is beautiful motto, no matter where the big happens to be. :)

[Jon Blaze]

Hahahah..why do I feel like a drowning victim on the beach who's so ugly that the EMTs are fighting over who has to give them mouth-to-mouth?

No, YOU do it! NO, YOU DO IT!

:p

Whatever!! I see that avatar... You're mighty purdy! And I do mean purdy. :p

[CurvaceousBBWLover]

Actually, I would say she is a paragon of exquisite pulchritude! Love the avatar....and the photograph! Men certainly must be fighting over her.

I'll kiss her first! No, I'll kiss her first!

Whatever!! I see that avatar... You're mighty purdy! And I do mean purdy. :p

[Krissy12]

Where are these fighting men??? I'd love to know..heh.

Really, thanks for the compliments guys. Much appreciated :)

[Jon Blaze]

Actually, I would say she is a paragon of exquisite pulchritude! Love the avatar....and the photograph! Men certainly must be fighting over her.

I'll kiss her first! No, I'll kiss her first!


Wow! I thought my vocabulary was extensive. You sir are eloquent.

[EtobicokeFA]

well okay let me restate what I ment. I seem to have mispoke myself. A FA may have preference for any area of a woman. Its just that the large majority of non-FA men who have preference for only for large breast or a large rear, do not like large bellies. And the FA acceptance of a larger belly is something which sets up apart from the non-FAs. Again this doesn't mean to be a FA you have to like the belly first and foremost.

Well actually I believe that for most non-fas, if they like large breasts or butts they prefer them on otherwise skinny women. When a FA says that they like large breasts or a large butt they are thinking about large women whose breasts or butt are the most prominent.

[Phalloidium]

This is actually an interesting thread (except for that jackass posting pics of boobies and bellies ;) )

I don't like the labelling that goes on more and more in society. If anyone can write a specification on an FA, please post it immediately. Then I can see if I should remove myself from the boards. BUT, then we can start weighing BBWs to determine EXACTLY whether they are BBWs or not.

Boobs, butts, bellies. Yeah, everyone has preferences that catch their eye. I am told as a male, I am much more visually stimulated than the average female. Fine. I love the female form. There are infinite female forms to look at. Females have curves and shapes and movements that males just don't have. It is in that difference (as a heterosexual) that I find my attraction.

With that said, my head turns more and my eyes focus more on the extreme form of female. Larger hips, bigger curves, softer bodies. I would never put a weight on it. It is the beautiful movements of everything together. To me personally, BBW forms are a visual stimulation like fine wine as compared (in general) to the Kool-aid stimulation of a skinny female form.

But, gasp, I do also notice beautiful thinner women. Why? I don't know and don't lose sleep over it. I guess it is not black and white. Maybe the more varied appreciation, the more beauty you can appreciate each day. :)


I couldn't have said it better.

[DDP]

Getting back to the original question, I like big boobs over big bellies over big butts. Creates a nice layered look. Seriously, if me and and a woman had the right chemistry size wouldn't matter. I've dated 110 to 400 lb women. The big girls that I know got pissed when they've seen me with skinny gals and the skinny girls must've thought I was disparate when they saw me with the larger women. You can't win.

It's funny how when every time someone post "what do you prefer better" it turns into a drawn out politically correct debate. The same big women that criticize guys liking bigger boobs than bellies or what not are the same ones at bbw parties talking about how they can't stand the skinny guys that are usually attracted to the bigger woman. Why not have a thread started by the ladies about skinny vs. thick men? I don't think too many men would lose any sleep.
DDP

[Green Eyed Fairy]

It's funny how when every time someone post "what do you prefer better" it turns into a drawn out politically correct debate. The same big women that criticize guys liking bigger boobs than bellies or what not are the same ones at bbw parties talking about how they can't stand the skinny guys that are usually attracted to the bigger woman. Why not have a thread started by the ladies about skinny vs. thick men? I don't think too many men would lose any sleep.
DDP


Ummmm.... actually I do remember a thread here on the forum about a BHM not liking that some of the BBWs prefer thinner men.....
and there is a thread in the BHM forum about wanting thin FFAs

Point is men have their gripes/preferences, too ;)

[Jon Blaze]

Getting back to the original question, I like big boobs over big bellies over big butts. Creates a nice layered look. Seriously, if me and and a woman had the right chemistry size wouldn't matter. I've dated 110 to 400 lb women. The big girls that I know got pissed when they've seen me with skinny gals and the skinny girls must've thought I was disparate when they saw me with the larger women. You can't win.

It's funny how when every time someone post "what do you prefer better" it turns into a drawn out politically correct debate. The same big women that criticize guys liking bigger boobs than bellies or what not are the same ones at bbw parties talking about how they can't stand the skinny guys that are usually attracted to the bigger woman. Why not have a thread started by the ladies about skinny vs. thick men? I don't think too many men would lose any sleep.
DDP

Nobody said in order for you to be an FA you had to be exclusive...

Green Eyes is right about her comment too. Many BBWs like thin guys, and many BHMs prefer thin girls...