More Weight, Better Sex?

[ImWideAwake]

Does anyone have any experience gaining weight and whether the sex improves? I'd really like to know about that.
Sometimes I hear that 'fat' people have better sex. I'm wondering if this is true.

[_broshe_]

Does anyone have any experience gaining weight and whether the sex improves? I'd really like to know about that.
Sometimes I hear that 'fat' people have better sex. I'm wondering if this is true.

While I have nothing to contribute to this, if someone here wants to do a side experement I'd be happy to oblige:blush:

tehe I couldn't resist

[Aurora]

I do believe this has been discussed before. Maybe a mod can direct you to a thread or two...?

Edit: Here's one, on the BHM forum - http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=31960

But I will say that yes, definitely my sex drive has gone up since I've put on weight. As was mentioned in the thread I linked to, I think it has a lot to do with feeling sexy yourself, so that drive is more prominent because you want to express that sexiness. :D

[The Orange Mage]

Aurora is right...if the idea of being fatter is okay or even desirable to you, you'd probably perceive your sex as being much better.

[babyjeep21]

I never understand questions like this...

I mean, I understand the question. But I think the bigger picture always needs to be looked at.

It's like the question "Is sex with a fat woman truly better?" Sure, if you're an FA and are attracted to fat women.... then how could the sex NOT be better? You're obviously going to have more desire and passion for someone you have a physical preference for.

So... If a person finds themself more attractive and sexy as they become heavier, how could sex possibly be worse for them?

It's all about confidence.

[marlowegarp]

Exactly. And if you are on the weight board, you are likely one of these people.


I never understand questions like this...

I mean, I understand the question. But I think the bigger picture always needs to be looked at.

It's like the question "Is sex with a fat woman truly better?" Sure, if you're an FA and are attracted to fat women.... then how could the sex NOT be better? You're obviously going to have more desire and passion for someone you have a physical preference for.

So... If a person finds themself more attractive and sexy as they become heavier, how could sex possibly be worse for them?

It's all about confidence.

[ImWideAwake]

I know, I know. But I also wanted to know more about the physical side of the story. Like if one is able to ahve more orgasms when fat(ter) or more ejaculation, things like that. Just curious.

[TraciJo67]

I know, I know. But I also wanted to know more about the physical side of the story. Like if one is able to ahve more orgasms when fat(ter) or more ejaculation, things like that. Just curious.

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[ImWideAwake]

Haha, not really. I'm just curious what kind of effect the mind will have on the body and vica versa.

[Jes]

I know, I know. But I also wanted to know more about the physical side of the story. Like if one is able to ahve more orgasms when fat(ter) or more ejaculation, things like that. Just curious.

I really think this issue is so individual that beyond Aurora's very smart response, you're not going to find any body of literature on...bodies. :)

[butch]

There is at least one study out there, I'm pretty sure, that says fat women have more orgasms, enjoy sex more, etc. etc. If I wasn't lazy, I'd try and hunt down a link to the study I've heard about.

[Aurora]

I really think this issue is so individual that beyond Aurora's very smart response, you're not going to find any body of literature on...bodies. :)

Aww thanks, but I can't take total credit. "Molly" in the post I linked to was first to say it. I just agree with it. :)

[Brazilian FASP]

Personally, my best sex expercience occured with a girl with 426 pounds, she was most hottest girl that i ever had.. For me a sexy with a fatter girl will be batter that a small one...

[Jon Blaze]

I agree with Jeepy's answer for the most part.

The only thing I can add is that I believe people have said on more than one occasion that added flesh may mean added sensation. You can work with that how'd you like. :p

</"I hope you have a big trunk, because I'm putting my bike in it."> :D

[Ruffie]

That he prefers sex with larger women. He is a musician and has been a man whore in his past before he got married. He said overall his experience was that fat women were
Had higher libidos
Were more wild in bed
Were certainly more sensual the soft flesh preferable to hip bones bumping
And he said most of them were intelligent and easier to carry on conversations with and wnjy his time with them overall.
So thats one mans opinion
Ruth

[pudgy]

I have to agree with most on here. It really is all about preference. So much of sex, orgasm, and emission is about psychology as opposed to physiology, so a pat answer about whether "skinny sex" or "fat sex" is better would be nearly impossible. Now keep in mind that physiology might certainly play a role. A chubbier body is obviously going to be more cushioned than a bony body. That certainly would help, you know? But honestly, if you can't stand fat, then fat sex would probably be awful. Vice versa for skinny people.

[ZainTheInsane]

Though i've never been the one who's grown in my relationships...physically anyway...my partner's have...and one thing I have to say is that it tends to be easier to arouse a fatter girl than a thinner one. Quite simply, there is more skin, and because of the increased areas of sensitivity, there is more erogenous zone to play with. Thus more sexual arousal.

As far as myself, I like 'em fat...so I am more aroused by pudginess than not...which makes me hella biased.

But I have slept with BOTH so, I'd have to say that as far as fore-play/getting a rise out of females...it is MUCH easier to do with a big girl. Then again I just might not be as good at turning on thinner girls due to my preference...

Who knows...

[ZainTheInsane]

I agree with Jeepy's answer for the most part.

The only thing I can add is that I believe people have said on more than one occasion that added flesh may mean added sensation. You can work with that how'd you like. :p

</"I hope you have a big trunk, because I'm putting my bike in it."> :D

HAHA, that's awesome!

[Adrian]

It greatly depends on how the person gaining weight perceives the weight gain. If they perceive it as an asset, the greater the likely-hood the weight gain will enhance their sex life. The opposit is also true, if weight gain is perceived as a negative.... it will most likely have an negative affect on not only their sex life but other aspects of their lives also.

Adrian

[krazyk1372]

Everyone has their own preferances so with that said, Instead of asking everyone elses opinion about if sex with a fat woman is better, why not go out and find yourself a hot, attractve bbw or ssbbw to your liking, have sex with her and you tell us how wonderful you both made each other feel. That way you have a first hand experience instead of eveyone else's experience. :)

[bbc4bbw]

I guess it's like anything else......"PREFERENCE"......I have try to get with petite/skinny women but I was bored during sex....in fact wasn't all that aroused,but with biggurls always happy and willing to give my all.....all those curves,big soft bottoms,sexy bellies....full bosoms...dam just talkin about it got me turned on...

[jello4me]

No surprise to those on this site - the more fat my bottom heavy gal gains the better the sex is. Cellulite is a wonderful thing and it keeps on keepin on my girl's thighs....... Nothing like seeing her in tight slacks waliking and jiggling towards me.