View Full Version : How many ladies enjoy a spanking?
wrench13
12-16-2007, 04:08 AM
I have noticed over the years that most big girls, especilly the ones with big bootys, like to be spanked. I am not talking bout an abusive spanking, but the firm but loving full hand spanking, to be followed by soft carresses of your now red cheeks.
Ladies who have been in an abusive environment, you need not respond, obviously you will not enjoy it.
SO fess up! How many like to be spanked?
TallFatSue
12-16-2007, 02:52 PM
I do not like to be spanked, but gentle playful pats and especially squeezes are A-OK. One habit I seem to have sometimes, though, is to walk around the office gently but absent-mindedly patting my own butt like bongo drums. Although not like a one-woman band, by any means! Can't help it, I happen to like my big fat ass. ;)
ME!!!!!!!! :batting:
I love to be spanked. It is such a turn on. Giving the guy control, being somewhat powerless, then adding a bit of pain to that mix is super hot.
AnnMarie
12-16-2007, 04:43 PM
Right guy? Right time? Right place?
Sure, bring it on. Toss in a good hair pull and name calling and we can make a good ol' night of it.
Wrong time? Wrong guy? Wrong place?
If you try it you'll pull back a bloody stump.
MissStacie
12-16-2007, 04:47 PM
I think that anyone in this type of intimate situation is mindful to NOT be abusive and degratory, but to be erotic and playful.
Yep, a few firm smacks on my bountiful behind, grab a handful of hair and whisper a few naughty things in my ear, and you've got yourself a good time.
:eek: I can't believe I just said that...lol
Hugs,
Right guy? Right time? Right place?
Sure, bring it on. Toss in a good hair pull and name calling and we can make a good ol' night of it.
Wrong time? Wrong guy? Wrong place?
If you try it you'll pull back a bloody stump.
I may be wrong but doesn't this go without saying?
Have you had guys just go up to you and spank you? I can not imagine what I would do to the poor jerk who tried that.
AnnMarie
12-16-2007, 05:27 PM
I may be wrong but doesn't this go without saying?
Have you had guys just go up to you and spank you? I can not imagine what I would do to the poor jerk who tried that.
If it went without saying, I wouldn't have said it. :)
No really, not being a smart ass... it has happened to me.
I think there is some amount of barrier trouble because of my sites. It's either a barrier which prevents people from speaking to me at all, or seems to give carte blanche to extreme assholes to touch me without permission, as if having "seen" my ass grants them access to touching it.
It's been very rare - VERY - but the last time it happened I made the guy actually tremble when I turned around to confront him.
I can be scary. :D
OK OK...I thought you were kind of giving off an abrasive tone with that post. Then i reread it and thought to myself, I bet some dumbass has tried it. :rolleyes: How annoying it must be to have to add disclaimers to stuff. Idiots are so quick to forget their manners with a lady. :)
Butterbelly
12-16-2007, 05:57 PM
I'm not a fan of getting spanked...at all.
NO. No, no, no. Spanking is kind of weird to me-- that was how I was disciplined when I was little. My mom had a sauce spoon that she used.
No.
AnnMarie
12-16-2007, 06:10 PM
NO. No, no, no. Spanking is kind of weird to me-- that was how I was disciplined when I was little. My mom had a sauce spoon that she used.
No.
That reminds me... any mention of "daddy" or "bad girl" or anything even remotely incestuous and the deal is off! That shit absolutely creeps me right out (fine if you like it, no judging!) and is a HUGE turn off.
*shudder*
Ashley
12-16-2007, 06:15 PM
That reminds me... any mention of "daddy" or "bad girl" or anything even remotely incestuous and the deal is off! That shit absolutely creeps me right out (fine if you like it, no judging!) and is a HUGE turn off.
*shudder*
Completely agreed. Ick.
That reminds me... any mention of "daddy" or "bad girl" or anything even remotely incestuous and the deal is off! That shit absolutely creeps me right out (fine if you like it, no judging!) and is a HUGE turn off.
*shudder*
Yes. I second this. "Bad girl" might be okay, but I am on the fence about "daddy" stuff.
Gspoon
12-16-2007, 06:48 PM
I like to spank, and I like to be spanked
With my girlfriend, I spank her anytime I feel like it. And she proceeds to just GRAB my butt. I get that little "Haha! Exit only!" jitter and scramble, followed by a nervous yelp and laugh.
furious styles
12-16-2007, 11:46 PM
Wrong time? Wrong guy? Wrong place?
If you try it you'll pull back a bloody stump.
i can imagine this happening and you calmly pulling a chainsaw out of your purse.
HDANGEL15
12-17-2007, 05:38 PM
ME!!!!!!!! :batting:
I love to be spanked. It is such a turn on. Giving the guy control, being somewhat powerless, then adding a bit of pain to that mix is super hot.
ditto 200% here (((TONI)))) totally hawwwwwwwwwwwwwt :p
k1009
12-18-2007, 05:43 AM
I have a big fat bum but I prefer to be the spanker. Your theory does not hold, now bend over! :p:p:p:p
Shala
12-18-2007, 06:13 AM
Love it...coupled with some filty dirty talk.:D
wrench13
12-18-2007, 09:22 AM
I have a big fat bum but I prefer to be the spanker. Your theory does not hold, now bend over! :p:p:p:p
LOL, it's either feast or famine , when it comes to spanking!
Come on, let's hear from the rest of ya
I have a big fat bum but I prefer to be the spanker. Your theory does not hold, now bend over! :p:p:p:p
I love youuuuuu!!!:p
(in a non creepy/stalking way off course:cool:)
If someone tried to spank me I would probably LMFAO. I'm sorry, but it's the awful truth. (it has happened before :/ )
ashmamma84
12-18-2007, 09:54 AM
Yup - I dig it...especially when it's coupled with dirty talk.
LillyBBBW
12-18-2007, 09:58 AM
I'm into a lot of weird stuff but surprisingly I could never get into spanking, giving or receiving. It's too bad though because it seems it would be a lot of fun but it's not for me I'm afraid.
SparklingBBW
12-18-2007, 09:59 AM
Yes Sir, may I have another?
Good stuff this spanking and hair pulling and love being "man-handled". I think for me it makes me feel really desirable as a big girl...his passion for me is so overwhelming that it can be a little rough and tumble.
And for me too, there has to be trust and emotions first before said spanking. I've gotta know that he's also interested in gentle, sweet, luv making, knowing it's ALL good. :wubu:
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BrunetteBeauty80
12-18-2007, 02:11 PM
I love to be spanked. Never thought I would though, until my boyfriend and I started talking about different things we were into. I love it when he does it, especially if we are going at it doggie style. He can tug on my hair, spank my butt and whisper into my ear.
I do agree with all the "daddy" talk. Don't like it, and never will. However, "bad girl" can be used in the right context and I enjoy it (if I am pleasuring myself and he tells me not too..etc.) Also, I prefer "hands on" instead of whips or other objects. Then, when my butt is caressed, licked and loved afterword, I enjoy it even more! :smitten:
Ernest Nagel
12-18-2007, 04:35 PM
Not for the faint of rump nor the weak of rib but I love a BBW/SSBBW laying belly down on my chest while I reach around and spank her magnificent ass from underneath. The game is one spank, then one bounce until one or the other gives up. "Loser" has to be "on top" ;). I never lose, btw :p.
Incidentally, if she's smaller or you just like losing, play this game on the floor, not a mattress. With an SSBBW this version seldom lasts nearly as long. :rolleyes:
altered states
12-19-2007, 10:34 AM
Okay, I have a meeting in a half hour and I'm not going to be able to concentrate on A N Y T H I N G.
wrestlingguy
12-19-2007, 05:40 PM
Carla typically enjoys a good spank or two, but for some reason, it's not typically me that administers the spanking.
Usually, it comes from a tall, blonde haired girl......but it hasn't happened lately, although it will, in about a week.
wrench13
12-20-2007, 09:20 AM
The "daddy " talk is a bit much, even for a role-player like me. Having said that I can remember one evening when the other party dressed up like a catholic shool 6th grader, with ruffle socks, and plaid uniform. At that point the 'daddy' talk seemed appropriate!
But what IS hot is when the lady receivng the aforementioned spank giggles after the first 'smak'' and says what was that? A mosquito?
Always remember to sooth the booty after!
simply, without going into detail other than we have a drawer full of "equipment", YES, spanking is gooooood!
sweet&fat
12-20-2007, 12:02 PM
Who doesn't love a good smack on the ass? Especially when it makes everything jiggle. Although, the person/mood has to be right. When it's not done well and with confidence, it's really bad.
altered states
12-20-2007, 12:28 PM
Who doesn't love a good smack on the ass? Especially when it makes everything jiggle. Although, the person/mood has to be right. When it's not done well and with confidence, it's really bad.
Oh yeah. One time, my GF said "smack it" or something like that. That sort of thing just isn't my style, but she's not usually vocal in bed so I figured if she said it, it was more an order than a request. So wanting to please, I went ahead with a tentative, kind of off-the-mark thump that probably bruised more than it reddened. Bad news.
As for jiggling, for years my urge was to grab her ass or belly and wobble it around but I was afraid of making her self-conscious and taking her out of the moment. Then one time I just went for it and she totally dug it, and now it's become part of standard operating procedure to both our benefit.
...But trying something new and having it fail miserably? Jesus, there's nothing worse!
...and can I put in a late nomination for hottest pictureless thread of 2007?
Who doesn't love a good smack on the ass? Especially when it makes everything jiggle.
Well, I'm all for a smack on the ass. I don't really see that as spanking, though.
sweet&fat
12-20-2007, 12:54 PM
Well, I'm all for a smack on the ass. I don't really see that as spanking, though.
Good point. There is a difference between being smacked on the ass and a spanking. It goes back to mood/the person again- I've rarely found a man who can deliver a spanking (in the sense of punishment) in a convincing manner that makes me actually want to submit to it. But, I'm also content with a good smack in the meantime.
wrench13
12-20-2007, 12:57 PM
Oh yeah. One time, my GF said "smack it" or something like that. That sort of thing just isn't my style, but she's not usually vocal in bed so I figured if she said it, it was more an order than a request. So wanting to please, I went ahead with a tentative, kind of off-the-mark thump that probably bruised more than it reddened. Bad news.
As for jiggling, for years my urge was to grab her ass or belly and wobble it around but I was afraid of making her self-conscious and taking her out of the moment. Then one time I just went for it and she totally dug it, and now it's become part of standard operating procedure to both our benefit.
...But trying something new and having it fail miserably? Jesus, there's nothing worse!
...and can I put in a late nomination for hottest pictureless thread of 2007?
LOL, a local radio show here ( Opie and Anthony) had some skinny girl in studio and invited one of the interns to give her a smack. The bumbling fool hit her so hard she went flying, crying the whole way and it raised a friggin hand-shaped welt. That is NOT what we are talking about here.
Spanking , in the Wrench lexicon of sexual activities, is a medium strong swat with close held fingers, letting the hand reside on flesh for a brief moment or two, to gauge the heat. And to observe the resulting jiggle!
Never more than 3 or so before the aforemention soothing takes place. Of course, giggling and taunting from the spankee only increases the effort next time!
Hitting repeatedly or way too hard is a beating and who the hell enjoys that??
altered states
12-20-2007, 02:39 PM
Spanking , in the Wrench lexicon of sexual activities, is a medium strong swat with close held fingers, letting the hand reside on flesh for a brief moment or two, to gauge the heat. And to observe the resulting jiggle! Never more than 3 or so before the aforemention soothing takes place. Of course, giggling and taunting from the spankee only increases the effort next time!
See, it sounds so great the way you describe it... I'll have to find a meat locker to practice my technique, a la Rocky Balboa.
Never more than 3 or so before the aforemention
my crazy eyes read this as: Never before 3 in the afternoon and I was like: hmmn, what a weird cut-off time...
I've been smacked. I've liked it. Having to ask for it is weird, though. It seems formulaic, then. I've made suggestions while standing up, not lying down, that were then taken up when I was lying down, and that worked better ("you know, you could pull my hair sometimes...that would be good")
I'm not gonna give the 'daddy' thing a thumbs-down, m'self. It's a fun taboo and for me, it only harkens back to a power play (with one partner being the innocent) and NOT anything incestuous. That would make everything below my belly button go numb! It's an especially nice trigger for me during my... uh... when I...'manage my portfolio.'
Alicia Rose
12-24-2007, 07:19 PM
Power play, fun. Spanking, fun. 'Bad girl,' also fun. But if anyone called me daddy I'd probably start running. :p
nixonshine
12-25-2007, 02:10 PM
Spanking is good, if its not the stinging type...not a fan of that myself. But playful swats on the bottom of my bum makes other things tingle:wubu:
mimosa
12-26-2007, 12:19 AM
I think whoever started this naughty thread needs a good spanking.:D;)
Just_Jen
12-26-2007, 06:24 AM
I dont think spankings my thing really tbh..but then again i've never been spanked..
however, i am into the whole powerplay thing which can be quite a turn on. Being completely powerless to a guy letting him do whatever he want = Hot!..mm handcuffs and dirty talk...:smitten:
dear gawd, how on earth am i supposed to think about anything else now...*mush* :wubu:
pat70327
12-26-2007, 09:05 AM
I dont think spankings my thing really tbh..but then again i've never been spanked..
however, i am into the whole powerplay thing which can be quite a turn on. Being completely powerless to a guy letting him do whatever he want = Hot!..mm handcuffs and dirty talk...:smitten:
dear gawd, how on earth am i supposed to think about anything else now...*mush* :wubu:
:shocked: *Swoongasmic* :cool:
Just_Jen
12-26-2007, 12:03 PM
:shocked: *Swoongasmic* :cool:
haha darn tootin! it's amazing when someone's got you tied up and teasing you mercilessly..yummo! anyone else agree?
Alicia Rose
12-26-2007, 12:09 PM
haha darn tootin! it's amazing when someone's got you tied up and teasing you mercilessly..yummo! anyone else agree?
Girl, I'd tie you up any day :D
pat70327
12-26-2007, 12:16 PM
haha darn tootin! it's amazing when someone's got you tied up and teasing you mercilessly..yummo! anyone else agree?
Jen I think you should know that I would love to (In case we both somehow didnt already know that?) yummo is right... are u Rachel Ray ? lol
This1Yankee
12-26-2007, 12:40 PM
Right guy? Right time? Right place?
Sure, bring it on. Toss in a good hair pull and name calling and we can make a good ol' night of it.
Wrong time? Wrong guy? Wrong place?
If you try it you'll pull back a bloody stump.
Um, REPPED! LOL.... that's exactly how I feel.
pat70327
12-26-2007, 12:55 PM
Um, REPPED! LOL.... that's exactly how I feel.
hmmmmm, I'm not gona spank you ever then :eek::eek::eek: well maybe not EVER :wubu:
This1Yankee
12-26-2007, 12:59 PM
hmmmmm, I'm not gona spank you ever then :eek::eek::eek: well maybe not EVER :wubu:
There's a time and place for the spanking... there's got to be a certain mood that goes along with it and a specific chemistry. You can't just indulge in that kind of play with anyone. But that's a conversation for elsewhere, I'm not about to jeopardize my sterling reputation for being an innocent. :batting:
Just_Jen
12-29-2007, 12:11 PM
Girl, I'd tie you up any day :D
you and pat should just get yourselves to the uk :smitten:..teehee
Sensualbbwcurves
03-23-2010, 08:35 PM
Right guy? Right time? Right place?
Sure, bring it on. Toss in a good hair pull and name calling and we can make a good ol' night of it.
Wrong time? Wrong guy? Wrong place?
If you try it you'll pull back a bloody stump.
Ditto for me!!!:D
Alicia Rose
03-23-2010, 08:48 PM
Ditto for me!!!:D
http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c142/Pooh76/GraveDigger.jpg
wrench13
03-24-2010, 01:38 AM
Ah, so nice to see this thread brought back to life. We have a lot of new folks since it was posted in 2007, so fes' up - who likes a spankin' good time?
Micara
03-25-2010, 09:22 AM
Um, yeah. I do. Sign me up! ;)
FatAndProud
03-25-2010, 12:17 PM
I love being spanked. It's a total weakness lol
Geektastic1
03-25-2010, 12:54 PM
I do! :blush:
Tracii
03-25-2010, 05:21 PM
By the right person.
joswitch
03-25-2010, 05:27 PM
*cough* I was told by my then gf, who was verrry into the being spanked... That I have a firm hand and this was good... Apparently the riding crop was also good... :blush: Just sayin'! ;) :D
joswitch
03-25-2010, 05:29 PM
That reminds me... any mention of "daddy" or "bad girl" or anything even remotely incestuous and the deal is off! That shit absolutely creeps me right out (fine if you like it, no judging!) and is a HUGE turn off.
*shudder*
"bad girl" is incestuous??? how? :eek:
MzDeeZyre
03-25-2010, 05:33 PM
I am also in this club! I love a good spanking!
calauria
03-26-2010, 05:15 PM
ME!!!!!!:wubu:
chicken legs
03-27-2010, 11:00 AM
I love to spank. ;)
I wish people would line up for a spanking (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C11ftLeMjlw) from me. I guess I should post that on a fantasy thread..lol
bigtallcutie
03-28-2010, 02:52 PM
Um...yes, please. I think a few firm swats to a number of areas does wonderous things for the blood flow and heightens my sensations. Delightful!
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