What is making you SAD right now...

[BarbBBW]

:( I was just trying to give some advice that would have hopefully helped ,.. sorry

[mossystate]

A healthy ego and confidence in yourself are fine, but wow:rolleyes:. Is there any room left to find something awesome with someone else when you're so in love with your own awesomeness?

Oh, hush with your womanly garbage.:D

[luscious_lulu]

:( I was just trying to give some advice that would have hopefully helped ,.. sorry

It was very good advice. *hugs*

[Red_Men]

Nah, my loneliness counterbalances what a good person I know I am, so yeah, everything works out and I'm still all alone, but hey, who doesn't have a sad life?

[Red_Men]

It was very good advice. *hugs*


it was, no hard feelings

[sirumberto]

Both of you need to STOP dating people, and start looking within yourself. Explore yourselves completely. Find out what it is that makes you happy, what in a mate makes you happy. STart by Loving yourselves, respecting yourselves and realize how wonderful , as a person, you are. I believe before dating anyone, you need to connect with "you" first. Once you see all the goodness in yourselves, and you can express that thru your walk, talk, the way you poise yourself, in pure confidence,.... I know the interactions with the opposite sex will improve. You can be gorgeous on the outside, but if you dont know how awesome you really are on the inside, it doesnt matter. Allow yourselves to be in a great relationship. Start working on "YOU" from the inside :)

Cheers pretty lady! This is quite relevant to me as well right now. Today is the first day I've been looking forward to this rather than dreading it.

I'm in the mood for a good adventure, and what could be a crazier adventure than a journey to the center of myself.

That or I'm just tired of external drama. Either or.

[JohnWylde]

I do miss my girl friend.

I think its even worse when I watch Serena Williams playing at Wimbledon when she reminds me so much of Her.

I hope She misses me too.


I am sad because someone I care about very much just does not seem to notice it or perhaps they simply don't care:(

[luscious_lulu]

it was, no hard feelings

and I was making a friend feel better about something she did out of concern, but was made to feel bad because of it.

[BarbBBW]

and I was making a friend feel better about something she did out of concern, but was made to feel bad because of it.

thank you my Lu Lu :) Muahhhh

Red,... play nice LOL

[KnottyOne]

It is 10 PM on the 4th of July and I am sober. DAMN YOU WORK!!!!!!

[JerseyGirl07093]

It is 10 PM on the 4th of July and I am sober. DAMN YOU WORK!!!!!!

Well, there's always tomorrow...
Didn't know that tomorrow is a holiday too? Of course it is, it's my birthday! lol
Use that as an excuse to party!:bow:

[KnottyOne]

Well, there's always tomorrow...
Didn't know that tomorrow is a holiday too? Of course it is, it's my birthday! lol
Use that as an excuse to party!:bow:

I would if I didn't open >_<. But I will be in jersey for a party tomorrow night so I will def throw one back in honor of your birthday

[Tracii]

I was driving home today and ran over a bunny.I felt so bad cause I love bunnies.:(
I have a lots of bunnies in my yard during the evenings and I sit out there and feed them lettuce and fruit all the time.
They even come up to my back porch thats how much they trust me.
I try so hard not to hit animals when driving and do watch for them at night.
I feel so bad about what happened.:(

[mel]

pissed more than sad..but I cant stand when people just verbally make you feel like shit and then say "I am sorry" ..and think that "sorry" makes it all ok. then on top of it..having to make decisions about plain ol dirty freakin shi*!!

[BarbBBW]

wanted to go back out tonight, but something happened and they called the gathering off,.. now i am sad!

[kittencat]

I am sad because I really want to see 16 Volt and Cyanotic on the 9th but i have work early the next morning.And i cant go in too work all sloppy and half assed.SO im not sure ill be able to make it:( so im sad about that.

[Tanuki]

I miss my girlfriend so much, she is really poorly right now and I cant comfort her ; _ ;

[mel]

I miss my girlfriend so much, she is really poorly right now and I cant comfort her ; _ ;



awww..maybe something soon will change..hugssssssss

[Mathias]

I can't visit my friends from college. :(

[mel]

I can't visit my friends from college. :(

sorry ((((((hugs)))))...maybe they will surprise you :)

[Gingembre]

My cat has got a tumour in her mouth under her tongue. Even if it's not cancerous it's inoperable and she might only live for another month or 2. She's only 9 :(

[The Fez]

just watched pixar's 'Up'

Most. Depressing. Film. EVER*




*with regards to animated films that're geared to kids and adults alike


seriously, the first ten minutes is a total sad-fest if nothing else. Fantastic film though.

[sugar and spice]

My cat has got a tumour in her mouth under her tongue. Even if it's not cancerous it's inoperable and she might only live for another month or 2. She's only 9 :(

I'm so sorry :( I am still grieving for my kitty Lily who died suddenly last year, she was only 6. Hugs to you and your sweet kitty girl.

[HottiMegan]

I am so sad for my dear friend. She lost her baby a week before her due date in December and now she just lost another baby. :( It so saddening, she's so deserving of a baby that survives.

[bigbob10000]

I just found out one of my old girl friends that I almost married now lives in a $500,000 home which here is a about 6,000 sqft and very nice. And here I sit a year later today (7-10-2008) after having a tumor removed from my head and loosing hearing in my right ear because of it. I still have very bad headaches and take 10 to 12 ibuprofens a day everyday since the surgery. They tell me that the headaches should stop after a year, well it's a year and they are still very bad, not as bad as they were. I can not so a lot of activities that I used to because my right inner ear is disconnected since the tumor was on one of the nerves to the inner ear and they took out both nerves to my right inner ear, so my balance is bad but I can drive, but not drive my drag race car(it makes me dizzy now).


BooHoo :(


BigBob10000

[BarbBBW]

I just found out one of my old girl friends that I almost married now lives in a $500,000 home which here is a about 6,000 sqft and very nice. And here I sit a year later today (7-10-2008) after having a tumor removed from my head and loosing hearing in my right ear because of it. I still have very bad headaches and take 10 to 12 ibuprofens a day everyday since the surgery. They tell me that the headaches should stop after a year, well it's a year and they are still very bad, not as bad as they were. I can not so a lot of activities that I used to because my right inner ear is disconnected since the tumor was on one of the nerves to the inner ear and they took out both nerves to my right inner ear, so my balance is bad but I can drive, but not drive my drag race car(it makes me dizzy now).


BooHoo :(



BigBob10000

well babe i am very sorry to hear that. But they say everything happens for a reason. wel all live and learn and it sounds like even though u are goin thru hell, it sounds like, you still are alive and are blessed!!

[goodthings]

I am very sad because I just bought my first home and my mom is not here to share the experience with me, i am sad because the last live link i had with her is going to be lost this weekend and i am sad that my supposed best friend is too busy with a new boyfriend to take time for me when i need her.

[italianmike21]

going to sleep without my special someone

[BarbBBW]

that im going to bed alone

you are more than welcome over here Mike ;)

[italianmike21]

No thanks I have a fantastic girlfriend who would offer that :)

[KFD]

I got stationed in Gulfport Mississippi. If I didn't go to dive school, I would be back in southern california, where i belong. My life, my little girl (who is five), and all my crap is in Calizona. Dammit!!! :doh::mad:

KFD

[DeniseW]

back home from a wonderful vacation, nuff said!!!

[steely]

I'm really missing someone and have been for a long time. :(

[Ernest Nagel]

I miss having someone to take care of and do things for. :(

[Sugar]

going to sleep without my special someone

I wish I was there...:kiss2:

[italianmike21]

I wish I was there...:kiss2:
Soon! I've been counting the days :)

[BarbBBW]

No thanks I have a fantastic girlfriend who would offer that :)

didnt mean to step on toes, was just joking with ya

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Is upset that a certain someone won't talk to me anymore..I am sorry! I hope you know that! I really am!:(:( Life sucks right now!

[Sugar]

I'm sad that one of the few people I called friends blew me off yesterday. I feel like never talking to him again. :(

[GoldenDelicious]

I am very sad because I just bought my first home and my mom is not here to share the experience with me, i am sad because the last live link i had with her is going to be lost this weekend and i am sad that my supposed best friend is too busy with a new boyfriend to take time for me when i need her.
Where is your mum? Has she passed away?

[pdesil071189]

That I'm no longer a Teenager

[Rowan]

Sad that I won't get to see Mike again for another week and a half, and today i was struck by particularly strong feelings of missing him. *pout*

[CAMellie]

I'm sad that certain days in our lives cant be re-lived...so that things can be undone and things can be unsaid. :(

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I'm sad that certain days in our lives cant be re-lived...so that things can be undone and things can be unsaid. :(
I agree with you a 100% I feel that way right now too! Sorry hon. ((hugs))

[thejuicyone]

My relationships slow demise. :(

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Aww (((Juicy))) :(

[BarbBBW]

My relationships slow demise. :(

you are young dont get bogged down baby!!

[Spanky]

you are young dont get bogged down baby!!

Barb, you need to get to Alabama and take her shopping for an afternoon.

Get to it!

Maybe you both get a coupla tattoos.

[BarbBBW]

Barb, you need to get to Alabama and take her shopping for an afternoon.

Get to it!

Maybe you both get a coupla tattoos.

i so agree babe!!

[blueeyedevie]

Sad that I can't have my dogie with me In New York.. I miss her so badly it hurts.

[steely]

My blood sugar dropped really low and now I'm just so weepy and sad. :(

[HottiMegan]

i haven't had a decent night sleep since getting pregnant with Alex. THat's nearly 2 years of fatigue. Alex still wont go to sleep well at night. Even when i restrict his naps.. I loved how well Max slept as a baby.

[Tanuki]

My Girlfriend broke up with me today...

[GoldenDelicious]

My Girlfriend broke up with me today...
I'm really sorry to hear that. I told Mergirl and she is sending you hugs xx

[Still a Skye fan]

My July vacation plans fell apart on me yesterday.

Yeah, I know this all seems trivial compared to most of the other problems mentioned here but I'm bummed out today.

I'm still taking the time off from work and I'll just do something else.


Dennis

[steely]

My July vacation plans fell apart on me yesterday.

Yeah, I know this all seems trivial compared to most of the other problems mentioned here but I'm bummed out today.

I'm still taking the time off from work and I'll just do something else.


Dennis

That's disappointing, sorry to hear that.

[Surlysomething]

My Girlfriend broke up with me today...


:( -big hug-

[thejuicyone]

you are young dont get bogged down baby!!

I know, but I loved him a lot, I mean he was a big part of my life for almost a year. Heartbreak is the absolute worst. And I agree with Spanky, you should totally come down here and go shopping with me. :)

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

My Girlfriend broke up with me today...
Aww (((T-Bear))) Sad news for sure! :(

[BarbBBW]

I know, but I loved him a lot, I mean he was a big part of my life for almost a year. Heartbreak is the absolute worst. And I agree with Spanky, you should totally come down here and go shopping with me. :)

aww baby-girl If i could I so would!!, Getting into LTR young in age always leads to heartbreak. SUCKS but true! But the good thing is u learn alot from them and when you are ready to move on you have alot you knowledge under your belt for the "next" special man in your life. Its takes alot of time but you are a strong woman!! you are always welcome here in AZ with me babe!! anytime! Muahhhh

[thejuicyone]

aww baby-girl If i could I so would!!, Getting into LTR young in age always leads to heartbreak. SUCKS but true! But the good thing is u learn alot from them and when you are ready to move on you have alot you knowledge under your belt for the "next" special man in your life. Its takes alot of time but you are a strong woman!! you are always welcome here in AZ with me babe!! anytime! Muahhhh

I know that's true, I have learnt a lot about myself and men from this relationship. But, thank you for the kind words barb, I heart you! :)

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Got a not so great phone call last night with some not so great news..Kinda down about it..

[Tanuki]

I'm really sorry to hear that. I told Mergirl and she is sending you hugs xx

:( -big hug-

Aww (((T-Bear))) Sad news for sure! :(

Thanks ever so much for the hugs everyone, they made me smile xxx

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Thanks ever so much for the hugs everyone, they made me smile xxx
Good I am glad I could help make you smile!:)

[BarbBBW]

I went to the pool today with my daughter and 2 of her friends. SO thats the good part, then I saw these 2 BBW,.. there separately there with people.

They were wearing like full dresses in the pool with a bathing suit underneath it. I felt sad for them. Why do that to yourself? Why cover up soooo much that you are going into a pool fully dressed? I just wanted to go up to them and tell then how beautiful and perfect their bodies were, and not to cover up so much that they cant even move in the water. I so wanted to tell then this, but I couldnt, I didnt know how they would take it?! Maybe be pissed, or feel even more insecure about how they looked? I didnt know what to do. So i just went by them several times and smiled big and said hi.
Makes me so very sad that BBW still have to feel like their bodies arent "good enough" to be seen in public.:( That some of us feel like we should hide it all under big clothes and long shirts, long dresses etc. Makes me sad they may never have that great feeling of being yourself,.. no matter what you wear in public.
I think its alot of women like those 2 special BBW would benefit immensely from a website like "DIMS" To feel the love, support and confidence we all share here. I think If I see them again at the pool I will give them the website info, and tell them how beautiful BBW are and that there are so many people in this world that think that way too!!

[mossystate]

When you say full dresses, are you talking about like a swimsuit coverup, or a Little House On The Prairie dress.

Yeah, I don't think saying something would have been a smart move on your part. I guess everybody gets to be comfy. Comfy can mean different things to different people. Maybe they were being...themselves. I agree that swimming is best done with not so much fabric..:D...and, if they truly did want to be wearing less, it is a sad thing, but, taking notice of someone who might be uncomfortable ( perhaps not how you would live your life, but then, we all have to be allowed how we choose to live ) was a smart and kind thing on your part.

I would careful about giving website info to strangers. If they ask you about how you get comfy wearing less to the pool, or start a conversation that leads to such talk...then...maybe. Confidence is not defined one way, nor should it be.

[BarbBBW]

When you say full dresses, are you talking about like a swimsuit coverup, or a Little House On The Prairie dress.

Yeah, I don't think saying something would have been a smart move on your part. I guess everybody gets to be comfy. Comfy can mean different things to different people. Maybe they were being...themselves. I agree that swimming is best done with not so much fabric..:D...and, if they truly did want to be wearing less, it is a sad thing, but, taking notice of someone who might be uncomfortable ( perhaps not how you would live your life, but then, we all have to be allowed how we choose to live ) was a smart and kind thing on your part.

I would careful about giving website info to strangers. If they ask you about how you get comfy wearing less to the pool, or start a conversation that leads to such talk...then...maybe. Confidence is not defined one way, nor should it be.

they were like sundresses, like long to there ankles lol. not just swim covers ups , although I see alot of bbw with those too. Just made me sad for them. Yes and I agree maybe I will just be nice and smile with them if i see them again, I guess we so what we all can when we are ready. :bow:

[mossystate]

they were like sundresses, like long to there ankles lol. not just swim covers ups , although I see alot of bbw with those too. Just made me sad for them. Yes and I agree maybe I will just be nice and smile with them if i see them again, I guess we so what we all can when we are ready. :bow:

Hmmmmm. Wonder if it was some religious thing. Hell, unless they look miserable...no smiling...etc...look at it as a personal choice. Maybe they are trying to set a new trend....make swimming a mega workout. I think being here makes people so suspect of anything that does not look like how fat people are supposed to act and live. Sounds like the ' outside ' world. Were they with men...and were the men wearing Speedos?...cuz that would be wild.

[BarbBBW]

Hmmmmm. Wonder if it was some religious thing. Hell, unless they look miserable...no smiling...etc...look at it as a personal choice. Maybe they are trying to set a new trend....make swimming a mega workout. I think being here makes people so suspect of anything that does not look like how fat people are supposed to act and live. Sounds like the ' outside ' world. Were they with men...and were the men wearing Speedos?...cuz that would be wild.

they looked comfy just sitting there on the side of the pool... the pool chairs are low and dont look like they hold much,.. I was scared to sit in them for like a year LOL. Once you get in the lounge chairs its hard to get outta them. ANyways,.. they went in the pool,.. and got out,.. looking uncomfortable,.. dress sticking to them everywhere and they couldnt walk without moving it off them. So the one BBW , was with a skinny chick and a guy,.. no speedos LOL. they other was with her little girl. I dunno if they were , as I am describing them, as you are saying . Just , as a bbw i saw it that way,... sad. If its a new trend I am never doing it hahaha.

[TraciJo67]

I wear a long t-shirt over my swimsuit when I am in the pool. It has nothing to do with how comfortable I am with my body (not very, but then, I also don't give a rat's ass about what strangers think). I do it because I'm very pale and burn easily, and painfully. Sunscreen doesn't always work very well when I'm in the water. The t-shirt protects my sensitive neck and shoulders. Maybe the women were doing the same thing? :confused: Either way, I probably wouldn't have immediately assumed that they weren't comfortable with themselves just as they are.

[BarbBBW]

They were wearing like pull up sundresses, with no shoulder coverage. Like a halter style dress. Thats not for sun coverage protection. As far as them hiding themselves, thats was my opinion. I dont know if indeed thats what they were doing, but thats the way I took it as. The dresses were long and dark brown the other was black. Usually for sun protection, its a white tee or cover up of somekind. Either way, I can not speak for them, It was just my observation, and thats what I relayed here.

[KuroBara]

That I'm in South Korea instead of at home. It's not that I don't like it here, but a lot has happened since I've been gone, and now the family life I found so boring seems so interesting since I'm halfway across the world. And I miss sweet, tasty corn and public bathrooms with toilet paper and soap.

[cinnamitch]

I wear a long t-shirt over my swimsuit when I am in the pool. It has nothing to do with how comfortable I am with my body (not very, but then, I also don't give a rat's ass about what strangers think). I do it because I'm very pale and burn easily, and painfully. Sunscreen doesn't always work very well when I'm in the water. The t-shirt protects my sensitive neck and shoulders. Maybe the women were doing the same thing? :confused: Either way, I probably wouldn't have immediately assumed that they weren't comfortable with themselves just as they are.ll


I wear a shirt and still burn. Im way too pale it seems.

[PunkPeach]

I feel insanely lonely and in need of a hug. Which is unlike me, I am not generally lonely when I have my friends around, and I am not big on wanting to be held/hugged. Right now, I just really feel like I need it.

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I feel insanely lonely and in need of a hug. Which is unlike me, I am not generally lonely when I have my friends around, and I am not big on wanting to be held/hugged. Right now, I just really feel like I need it.
I get that feeling to sometimes. (((Punk)))

[Tanuki]

I feel insanely lonely and in need of a hug. Which is unlike me, I am not generally lonely when I have my friends around, and I am not big on wanting to be held/hugged. Right now, I just really feel like I need it.

*hugs* I sometimes feel this way too, I hope its gets better soon :3

[Sugar]

Miscommunication....

[steely]

Tummy troubles

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

That I am not finding work!!!

[HottiMegan]

I am in enormous amount of pain. I got a sunburn on Saturday. I am now starting to blister on my forehead and right shoulder a little. Teeny tiny blisters on my shoulder and a big 4 inch by 1/2 inch blister along the top of my forehead.. youch!!

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Dang Megan that is not good. I hope they get better soon.

[HDANGEL15]

I am watching the news, and just saw a grown man crying becuase his cat dissappeared and showed up in a pit, in the city along with another dead cat, and had been killed by kids with cement blocks...i am sitting here with my kitty purring...and am so grateful I don't let my furry beast outside...

this is just a horror to me that kids can be so cruel :(

how do kids get so twisted that they could possibly find entertainment in something so sick :confused:

[Rowan]

My weekend with mike went by way too fast :(

[steely]

I am watching the news, and just saw a grown man crying becuase his cat dissappeared and showed up in a pit, in the city along with another dead cat, and had been killed by kids with cement blocks...i am sitting here with my kitty purring...and am so grateful I don't let my furry beast outside...

this is just a horror to me that kids can be so cruel :(

how do kids get so twisted that they could possibly find entertainment in something so sick :confused:

This breaks my heart. Who doesn't teach their children empathy and compassion. It sickens me.

[goofy girl]

People................................

[Fonzy]

Drunk people thinking they are right, drunk people thinking they are better than me, drunk people, people in general, the outside world, the economic recession, not being near my muffin, not being able to hold my muffin, not being able to kiss my muffin, lots of things really :( Oh and lack of sleep................ and not being able to eat a "tag along" :blink:

[Buttah]

i think i'm sad mostly because i'm PMSing and my emotions are heightened right now

anyways, i'm sad and mad cuz i'm lonely and i still never had a boyfriend before and i'm starting to question things. starting to think that cali isn't the place for me to find love nor to support my future. i feel stuck. many jumbled things in my mind right now, but that's the primary

[dynomite_gurl]

Drunk people thinking they are right, drunk people thinking they are better than me, drunk people, people in general, the outside world, the economic recession, not being near my muffin, not being able to hold my muffin, not being able to kiss my muffin, lots of things really :( Oh and lack of sleep................ and not being able to eat a "tag along" :blink:

:( try not to mind those people. awww :kiss2: all those things make me :( too, but hopefully not that much longer babe. lol and of course you miss the tag alongs! don't forget the tacos:P

[Noir]

Scientists who do pointless studies while wasting money AND getting paid. "MSG can make you fat" WOW scientist! way to catch up with the rest of the world. I should just slap a PHD on my wall and call myself smart.

[dynomite_gurl]

I don't have a lot of things to be sad about right now but....the very hot weather in Washington, having a lonely bed , not being around my babe. not being able to find a j.o.b, and having a painful jaw for some reason! :(

[OneWickedAngel]

I am at the bus station waiting to head back to NYC. My weekend in Boston is officially over. Waaaaaaah!:(:(:(

[DeniseW]

Someone who I thought for a long long time was polite, sweet , caring and a real man, turned out to be just the opposite. You just never know!!:confused:

[Chef]

People waiting at bus stops for a bus that only runs on weekdays...

[GTAFA]

I have a friend with a daughter/grand-daughter, whose lives were always were described as perfect perfect perfect, and who has sometimes looked down on me and my own daughter, when not offering advice and bailing us out. I welcome her help but wish i didnt' need it. We've managed to be friends even as my daughter wrote a virtual cautionary tale on how not to get married, get pregnant, get divorce with restraining order, etc etc. NOW, this weekend it all blew up, with the perfect daughter behaving like the demon seed, throwing her mom out for simply disagreeing. My friend is starting to sympathize a bit more with my own plight.

While there might be a tiny bit of relief in seeing how the mighty are fallen, it's still very sad for my friend who is mostly heart broken. I'm trying to console her. I had really thought her daughter wasn't going to sink so low. Someday they will all be happy happy, but right now there are a bunch of long faces.

[Sugar]

I'm just not feeling anything anymore. Major case of the meh's.

[Gingembre]

I would really like a hug today...a real, warm 'i care about you' hug. No-one here to give said hug :(

[PhatChk]

Where to start. It has been a tough year. January lost my job after working there for 4 years. The lost of income was a huge dent in my household. Unemployment pays is okay but not enough. I go back to college. I am working hard and doing well. I am started to pay my sisters car because my mother has not been a firm mom lately. Cant blame her either she is tire of taking care of my grandfather ( he has diabetes, amputated leg and lung fibrosis with Alzheimer's) and the monetary situation. Taking care of my grandfather took great effort. I took care of my grandfather during the day then my mother. We were both very tire. My Grandmother dies in February. Everyone leaves for the funeral and lives me behind with my incapacitated grandfather. The loneliness starts to worry me. By June I had to go to the hospital my visit lasted 2 weeks. I had pulmonary embolism and pneumonia. That was a shock but after all the bruising and needles I was okay. Came out smiling:)

A few days later a friend confided in me that my cousins boyfriend had been txting her and msg in yahoo. He had been telling her things about the relationship between my cousin and him. The family already did not like him we all could see he was mentally abusing my cousin. My cousin saw it but hold in on for a reason I do not think she even knew. My friend told me how he wanted to get to "know" my friend better and maybe go out. He had told my friend in more simple words how he wanted the Hispanic girlfriend without having to deal with the Hispanic family and culture. And my cousin is the most Dominican girl in the world I have met. He even talked to my friend about their sex life. But we kept this part from my cousin, we though it was just to much and she would be really hurt by it. My friend kept turning him down and telling him that she considered my cousin family. But he wouldn't give up. I kept my mouth shut for a couple of weeks. But I really started to feel really guilty when I her my cousin talking about her plans for anniversary. I finally broke down and told my cousins sister. And she broke told her sister. My cousin was really hurt and devastated. The next day my friend, my sister and myself went to help her move. I was not fully recovered but I had to go my sister is firecracker and I am the only one that can keep her in check. And still it was very hard to keep her from assaulting him; he was very scary when we went to help her move out. She was my cousin and there was nothing we wouldn't do for her.

Unfortunately, other things came out that night. It seem that my friend was not at innocent as we thought. He said how they had met in two occasions while my cousin was in Dominican Republic. And they had talk about an attraction between them. This hurt my cousin now she just didnt have a cheating boyfriend but betrayed by a good friend. As the days went by a lot of thing started to fit together. I had heard some stories my friend had told me about how some of her later friend had stopped talking to her because their of her "friendship" with their boyfriends. I though "wow bunch of insecure girls." And having a conversation with my cousin and sister we started to understand who my friend really was. She is smart, funny, intelligent and a basic good person. But when it comes to men she is really frustrated. She is in her 20's she tends to scare men because of her intensity. And I think that by getting the attention of men already married or in a relationship makes her feel good. Not really caring who she hurts because it is not her fault. This realization hurt me a lot. I know she is not perfect and when you love someone you love them with all their faults. I want to keep being her friend because otherwise she is very cool and great it is just her morals that are screwed. I have been battling with this for weeks. I want her a friend but I cannot trust her with the person that might become my boyfriend. Even, if I trust him. I do not trust her.
By this time my cousin is thinking of going back to her mentally abusive boyfriend. By this time I am getting tire of the whole situation and had a serious discussing with my cousin. Told her that my sister risked her freedom and life to help her out, she knew if my sister had to physically defend her my sister might have been in trouble, I risked my health traveling in the middle of the night in a cold day after being in the hospital just a few days before to help her out and defend her against this troll. All her own sister had done to take her in her home and take care of her. Told he to remember all the things she had told us he had done to her. And how she had lost her self and her freedom. That if she is still wanted to go back I wasn't going to stop her but to forget about the rest of the family including me. I told her I could not do anymore for her and that I could not be hypocrite and pretend nothing was wrong. This really hurt me. My family is very important. And I really try to build emotional bonds with them but there's so much you can do, and I was done. The days after this were very troublesome, the ex kept coming around and this situation was straining the relationship between her sister and her husband. And some how I had become the mediator between the two sisters. Mind you all this happen in between 5 to 7 days after getting out of the hospital. I still couldn't breath right and the medication made me shake whenever my body temp. would rise.
I started my new semester and started to study until late and sleeping only a few hours a day. Ten days later my I went to sleep at 2:30 am and I was woken at 3 am by my mother to call the EMT'S. My grandfather had died while everyone slept and I was doing my homework. It was hard but expected. Our next concern was funeral money he didn’t have life insurance. And when we had tried to get him some he was to old. He died at the age of 89 year old. After a couple of miracles we found the money. This was week a go Thursday. My parents left that Friday to Puerto Rico with my grandfather's body for the funeral. I was left again behind to take care of things. I had to turn in his hospital bed, clean his room, give way his clothe, call doctors and did all things that needed to be done. My sister had to leave to Mexico to be with her husband and I am here in a very lonely house having to deal with everything by myself. Not only that yesterday our roommate got robbed at gunpoint and stole his keys and papers with our address on it. Yayy! lol I do not have enough money to get a new house lock until Friday so, let just say I have only slept 4 hours today. Lol

I really do not want this to sound like some tragic novel. But these are the things that are troubling me right now. I am really trying to stay happy. I had had some good times too but not good enough to erase some of the bad ones. I smile everyday and I pretend everything is okay and can be fixed. Actually I know some of these things are fixable and I am positive about everything. I have been feeling tired physically and mentally. I do not like being depress and I ma sure no one does. lol I try to keep my self busy by doing class work, talking to friends, going out and really trying to keep my spirits up but when ever I stop everything keeps coming back. I haven’t told one person everything (until now lol). I feel like if I did I would sound like a walking tragic story. I am a sad but I am really trying to make things better. I do not want to feel like this anymore. I am just having a really hard year. I know it will pass. I just gotta keep holding on. I do feel I need a long vacation lol Thank you to anyone who read this. I am sry to bother you with my troubles. But it feels okay to finally let all of this out. These are the things that are making me a little sad.

[SSQT]

How has life gone by so fast and I haven't accomplished hardly anything in life that I wanted to?

Why do people have to hurt each other so much?

Why do bad things happen to good people?

How come the one you want wants someone else?

Why is there so much pain? What is there to hope for anymore?

Why do people push you away when all you want to do is hold them in your arms and love them forever? Why?

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I am feeling like such a burden to everyone around me! I can't find a job..
I am just down...

I know how everyone feels life does suck!:(

[BeautifulPoeticDisaster]

my hubby isn't here:( I miss him!!!

[NoraBadora]

I'm really missing having someone to sleep next to. :(

[mossystate]

The Hate Crimes that happened at a health club in PA. Three women were murdered ( the gunman was specifically going after women, whom he thought ruined his life and made his life miserable ). :(:mad::(

[Surlysomething]

I'm putting down my girl cat tomorrow. She's very sick....it's time...



:(

[mergirl]

I'm putting down my girl cat tomorrow. She's very sick....it's time...



:(

I'm so sorry. :( You are a caring owner and are putting the needs of your cat first. If ever i got too sick i would hope that someone would do the same for me. xx

[Donna]

A friend's dog just died very suddenly. That (adorable, sweet, energetic, smiling) dog slept with my friend's 10 yr old son every night for years.

He now clutches her collar in his sleep.

She said he is absolutely devastated. RIP Pepper :(

Children and dogs, the bond is so amazing...and sometimes so heartbreaking. I am sad for you and your friend's son.

I'm putting down my girl cat tomorrow. She's very sick....it's time...

Putting a pet down is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. I'm sorry you are going through this. Peace to you.

[BarbBBW]

i went for a check up at the Dr this morning. He said my sugars were too high and i need to DIET ASAP. I am starting to lose weight already, and I am planning on going down to 250. But then I wanna gain after that again. Can I do this safely, not to get full blown Diabetes?? we shall see!!

[OneWickedAngel]

Just found out a friend has died. I just spoke to her a few short days ago. I'm in a little shock.

[BarbBBW]

Just found out a friend has died. I just spoke to her a few short days ago. I'm in a little shock.

I am so sorry :(

[luscious_lulu]

Just found out a friend has died. I just spoke to her a few short days ago. I'm in a little shock.

*hugs*
...................

[Rowan]

I thought there might be a chance that mike could come up this weekend, but it looks like he cant :(

[Sugar]

I'm putting down my girl cat tomorrow. She's very sick....it's time...



:(

I am so sorry. I hope you're OK. :(

[Sugar]

I'm sad that my sister is never going to be able to take care of herself. I found out tonight that she had literally no food in her house and had been eating left overs from her husband's job at Arby's since Thursday. She's 2 hours away and I'm upset that she's moved so far away and into a icky situation. :(:mad:

[DeniseW]

I'm sad that the concert is over, I waited for months and it's over just like that but it was one of the best nights of my life!!! I'm hoarse from screaming and sore from dancing but it was all worth it...:)

[mergirl]

There was a woman's body found in the harbour outside mine n Gd's house. Really sad. I would have found the body were it not for the fact that my dog had me out at 4am because she ate something bad and was ill, so was sleeping when i normally take her out (about 20 mins before the body was found). I think i would have freaked out if i had found it so perhaps fate got in the way. It was sad though. GD aunt said "I hope its no one we know" and i thought "Well its someone somebody knows" Sad :(

[Surlysomething]

Thanks for all the kind words regarding my cat.

She was SUCH a good girl that day. It was peaceful and sweet and i'm so glad I was there when she left this world.


:wubu:

[Rowan]

My mom is having a lot of problems right now and I am there for her but dont know exactly how to help. I dont want to lose her to any selfish choices she might make for herself :(

[thejuicyone]

Love sick :( (Ready for my man to get back from visiting his family)

[steely]

Just sick, been up since 1 am, yuck!

[Donna]

Cruelty..in all of its forms. :really sad:

[HottiMegan]

Max had his first taste of bullying today. He's 5 days into first grade and got ganged up by 4 kids who proceeded to pants him (underwear too) in order to "torture" him. He was very sad about it and i feel helpless about it. Max is what one would consider a little person. He isn't a dwarf but is basically very much like one. So that opens him up to being smaller and different to the other kids. I half wonder if he has been picked on this year more than he's telling me because both days this week he was trying to find excuses to stay home from school. I have contacted his teacher via email since Max comes home on the bus so late. If i don't hear from her hubby and i will go to the school to see what protection is in place for him. My poor sweet, sensitive little guy. My heart is broken for him.

[Mathias]

Max had his first taste of bullying today. He's 5 days into first grade and got ganged up by 4 kids who proceeded to pants him (underwear too) in order to "torture" him. He was very sad about it and i feel helpless about it. Max is what one would consider a little person. He isn't a dwarf but is basically very much like one. So that opens him up to being smaller and different to the other kids. I half wonder if he has been picked on this year more than he's telling me because both days this week he was trying to find excuses to stay home from school. I have contacted his teacher via email since Max comes home on the bus so late. If i don't hear from her hubby and i will go to the school to see what protection is in place for him. My poor sweet, sensitive little guy. My heart is broken for him.

:really sad: That's awful! I hope things will get better for him.

[mossystate]

Megan, my heart breaks for him. I sure hope this is a mere blip on his childhood map, and things get better. :( Poor little guy.

[fatgirlflyin]

Max had his first taste of bullying today. He's 5 days into first grade and got ganged up by 4 kids who proceeded to pants him (underwear too) in order to "torture" him. He was very sad about it and i feel helpless about it. Max is what one would consider a little person. He isn't a dwarf but is basically very much like one. So that opens him up to being smaller and different to the other kids. I half wonder if he has been picked on this year more than he's telling me because both days this week he was trying to find excuses to stay home from school. I have contacted his teacher via email since Max comes home on the bus so late. If i don't hear from her hubby and i will go to the school to see what protection is in place for him. My poor sweet, sensitive little guy. My heart is broken for him.

Schools are REALLY cracking down on bullying these days. I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your son. Please persue this and make sure that the children who did this do get punished for their actions. (I'm sure you will, just saying)

[msbard90]

i'm sad because I just want something comforting in my life right now, and i don't have it.

[knottedsouls]

I hadnt had access to the boards since june 15th because I had the website address memorized wrong .

I was convinced it had something to do with the cookies saved on my hard drive...and have repeatedly deleted cookies, defraged my computer etc.to try to be able to get back on the boards...

but alas it is simply that I forgot to put ~magazine~ after ~dimension~ in the web address...

I feel like a smacked ass...:blush:
( but at least its figured out now:) )

[sugar and spice]

Max had his first taste of bullying today. He's 5 days into first grade and got ganged up by 4 kids who proceeded to pants him (underwear too) in order to "torture" him. He was very sad about it and i feel helpless about it. Max is what one would consider a little person. He isn't a dwarf but is basically very much like one. So that opens him up to being smaller and different to the other kids. I half wonder if he has been picked on this year more than he's telling me because both days this week he was trying to find excuses to stay home from school. I have contacted his teacher via email since Max comes home on the bus so late. If i don't hear from her hubby and i will go to the school to see what protection is in place for him. My poor sweet, sensitive little guy. My heart is broken for him.

Oh Megan that is terrible poor Max, where the hell were the teachers or staff when this was happening? I'm glad you're going to keep persuing it because those kids need to be punished for that and Max shouldn't have to deal with that anymore. I hope everything gets straightened out quickly and that Max can move on and enjoy school again.(((((Max))))

[Surlysomething]

Max had his first taste of bullying today. He's 5 days into first grade and got ganged up by 4 kids who proceeded to pants him (underwear too) in order to "torture" him. He was very sad about it and i feel helpless about it. Max is what one would consider a little person. He isn't a dwarf but is basically very much like one. So that opens him up to being smaller and different to the other kids. I half wonder if he has been picked on this year more than he's telling me because both days this week he was trying to find excuses to stay home from school. I have contacted his teacher via email since Max comes home on the bus so late. If i don't hear from her hubby and i will go to the school to see what protection is in place for him. My poor sweet, sensitive little guy. My heart is broken for him.


Poor little dude. Kids can be vultures. :(

[HottiMegan]

thanks everyone with your responses. I'd hand out rep but i ran out!
Max's teacher contacted the principal this morning and she took care of it. She reprimanded the children and called the parents about it. Apparently they were playing on the fact that Max doesn't like the dentist (due to getting a filling last week) and they decided to torture him and hold him down or something and play dentist and his pants got pulled down in the struggle. So they got in trouble and a lesson was taught about respecting fellow students. So hopefully it'll make Max feel better. We took him out for ice cream last night to help. He tried to stay home again today from school so i don't know how good he feels about it all.

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

:( Just found out they are giving my uncle 3 days to a week to live..please pray for him and his family.. He had been in remission for a couple years and his cancer came back...So sad....

[Rowan]

im sure its probably just my own insecurities, but i feel like im screwing everything up and dont know how to fix things...my relationship, work...life in general :(

[Surlysomething]

:( Just found out they are giving my uncle 3 days to a week to live..please pray for him and his family.. He had been in remission for a couple years and his cancer came back...So sad....



I'm so sorry to hear about your Uncle. Life can be pretty cruel sometimes.
:(

Sending my best thoughts..

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I'm so sorry to hear about your Uncle. Life can be pretty cruel sometimes.
:(

Sending my best thoughts..
Yes it can be..I just hope I can get up there and see him before he passes..This is just so hard...:(

[BarbBBW]

:( Just found out they are giving my uncle 3 days to a week to live..please pray for him and his family.. He had been in remission for a couple years and his cancer came back...So sad....

I am so sorry babe!! I will say prayers for all of you

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I am so sorry babe!! I will say prayers for all of you
Thank You..I am have a hard time with this..since just not but back in April we lost my Oma to the same cancer that is taking my Uncle. We had had hope for my Oma when we first found out because my Uncle had went into remission. So we hoped that would be the same for her but she died not, but a month or so after us find out she had cancer. I feel sorry for my Aunt and cousins. I am trying to figure out a away I can get up there to see them all. Thank you again we need all the prayers we can get to get through this hard time. Love Ya! Life truely is to short!:(

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I went last night and saw my uncle at the hospital. That was so hard. He is worse then I thought. My Aunt told me the cancer is all over now. He is in and out of it. He has been since before he went into the hospital been seeing people and things that are not there. My Aunt and cousins are being so strong. :(:(

[Surlysomething]

I went last night and saw my uncle at the hospital. That was so hard. He is worse then I thought. My Aunt told me the cancer is all over now. He is in and out of it. He has been since before he went into the hospital been seeing people and things that are not there. My Aunt and cousins are being so strong. :(:(


I'm so glad you got to see him. It was important for your family to have you there as well. -big hug-

[Rowan]

Im very frustrated and sad with too many aspects of my life right now. Some mornings i just dont want to wake up :(

[snuggletiger]

I went last night and saw my uncle at the hospital. That was so hard. He is worse then I thought. My Aunt told me the cancer is all over now. He is in and out of it. He has been since before he went into the hospital been seeing people and things that are not there. My Aunt and cousins are being so strong. :(:(

Big giant hugs. Wish I could cheer you all up.

[smithnwesson]

Im very frustrated and sad with too many aspects of my life right now. Some mornings i just dont want to wake up :(
Great big hugs to you, Rowan. PM me if you like. . .

I very rarely get involved in political issues and ALWAYS regret it. . . :(

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I'm so glad you got to see him. It was important for your family to have you there as well. -big hug-
Thank You. they all including my Grams told me that last night.. It was hard seeing him like that, but I am so glad I got the chance to go.

Im very frustrated and sad with too many aspects of my life right now. Some mornings i just dont want to wake up :(
I am so sorry to hear that sweetheart! I know how you feel I truely do. Big Hugs!

Big giant hugs. Wish I could cheer you all up.
Thank You ST. Not much can cheer me up right now..

[steely]

My brother accidentally cut down my morning glory's with the weedeater.

[Oldtimer76]

:( Just found out they are giving my uncle 3 days to a week to live..please pray for him and his family.. He had been in remission for a couple years and his cancer came back...So sad....

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Chimpi/Ellorion))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))):(

[Oldtimer76]

I think it is sad Monique is closing down her paysite after all those years. No more chocolate kisses :-(
She deserves a statue:bow:

[mossystate]

My brother accidentally cut down my morning glory's with the weedeater.

You watch that thing come back ...with a vengence...and gunning for your brother!

[steely]

You watch that thing come back ...with a vengence...and gunning for your brother!

I hope so!

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

My brother accidentally cut down my morning glory's with the weedeater.
Man that stinks..Sorry to hear that hon.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Chimpi/Ellorion))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))):(T hank You OT...Do I need to be making a call to Chimpi or something?

[Oldtimer76]

Man that stinks..Sorry to hear that hon.

Thank You OT...Do I need to be making a call to Chimpi or something?

I thought you used that name before..., so that's why;)
Or am I wrong?

[Oldtimer76]

Man that stinks..Sorry to hear that hon.

Thank You OT...Do I need to be making a call to Chimpi or something?

I thought you used that name before..., so that's why;) Didn't know how to call you. Maybe I'm living in the past:(

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

I thought you used that name before..., so that's why;)
Or am I wrong?

I thought you used that name before..., so that's why;) Didn't know how to call you. Maybe I'm living in the past:(

No I did back when Chimpi and I were together, my name use to be ChimpisDarlingAngel.. Your right. :) It's ok to live in the past every once in a while..:)

[steely]

Man that stinks..Sorry to hear that hon.

Thanks EDA, I woke up this morning and there was no glory.

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Thanks EDA, I woke up this morning and there was no glory.
Aww..that stinks silly brothers! I know how they can be!

[Oldtimer76]

No I did back when Chimpi and I were together, my name use to be ChimpisDarlingAngel.. Your right. :) It's ok to live in the past every once in a while..:)

Any news about your uncle, sweetheart?

*Hugs*

[luscious_lulu]

My mom is having a lot of problems right now and I am there for her but dont know exactly how to help. I dont want to lose her to any selfish choices she might make for herself :(

*hugs* Sometimes you need to let people make mistakes and screw up. It's hard to watch, but by not letting her make the mistakes you are enabling her.

[luscious_lulu]

It's my dad's birthday today. I think it's the last one he'll be able to celebrate.:( His cancer is taking it's toll.

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Any news about your uncle, sweetheart?

*Hugs*
He is now at a Hope Hospice resting..I was talking to one of my cousins and that's all I she told me. So I am happy that he is resting and he is comfortable.

It's my dad's birthday today. I think it's the last one he'll be able to celebrate.:( His cancer is taking it's toll.
:( I am sorry sweetie! ((Hugs))

[Surlysomething]

I lost my freaking cell phone today.

My nephew was a little asshole when we were out shopping today.

My hair looks like crap.

My place is a mess.

I was supposted to relax this weekend and I did NOT.


I'm beyond bitchy. Like 8 gazillion thousand light years past it. :mad:

[1300 Class]

Rejected for another job. Getting to the point now where the will to try is just being sapped away.

[Surlysomething]

I lost my freaking cell phone today.

My nephew was a little asshole when we were out shopping today.

My hair looks like crap.

My place is a mess.

I was supposted to relax this weekend and I did NOT.


I'm beyond bitchy. Like 8 gazillion thousand light years past it. :mad:

Found my phone! :D

[HDANGEL15]

I can't sleep, from discomfort/pain + it's been almost 2 weeks since I had hip surgery--I just want ONE good nites sleep ; (

I have to wait TWO weeks for the Finale of True Blood

There's only ONE show left for the season of True Blood

[HottiMegan]

Max keeps trying to not go to school. I'm afraid that the bullying is making him not want to be in school. The school nurse said he's in there daily with various complaints. He's totally fine at home but sooo sick at school. I am not sure what to do for my little guy.

[Surlysomething]

Max keeps trying to not go to school. I'm afraid that the bullying is making him not want to be in school. The school nurse said he's in there daily with various complaints. He's totally fine at home but sooo sick at school. I am not sure what to do for my little guy.


Does his teacher suggest anything?

[CleverBomb]

Found my phone! :D
Yay! Dropped mine two weeks ago and ruined the screen, got a replacement that's quite good but not quite the same. (Was: Nokia E71, Now: Nokia E75).

Sad? My scooter (the big one) is in the shop and should have been done today, but one of their mechanics quit and it might be as late as Thursday by the time they're done.
And my other scooter (the little one) is waiting for me in Las Vegas for when I head down there in a week on business. I miss my bikes.

-Rusty
Suzuki Burgman 650
Vespa 150S

[archivaltype]

The movie Seven Pounds. :(





i've been pretty down for awhile and seeing this didn't help...but it affected me, just like it was meant to

Holy crap, me too. I watched it and cried for like...an hour after it was over. Incredible incredible incredible movie.

Heh...I'm bummered out because I'm so damn easy to string along. :doh:

[thejuicyone]

I decided to torture myself and read random love letters via the internet, while listening to love songs. It was just one of those nights. :(

I'm such a hopeless romantic...

[1300 Class]

Another employment rejection. Damn the system to hell!

[Surlysomething]

Another employment rejection. Damn the system to hell!


Keep on with it. Your persistence will pay off.

[HottiMegan]

Much of my life i feel like i'm on the outside looking in. Not feeling a part of anything or anyone. I'm the kid who wasn't invited to the party sitting across the street watching everyone have fun. I don't belong anywhere.

[Surlysomething]

Much of my life i feel like i'm on the outside looking in. Not feeling a part of anything or anyone. I'm the kid who wasn't invited to the party sitting across the street watching everyone have fun. I don't belong anywhere.


Awww. I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. :( It's hard being a stay at home Mom, i'm sure. Try and keep your chin up, girlie. What about taking a class at night when your husband gets home so you can have some 'me' time? Even if it's a cooking class or something like that.

[HottiMegan]

I do miss me time. I haven't had any in a few years. I usually go to bed early so i can have some me time by reading a book or playing on my DS in bed. I am probably going to start back to school in the spring going 3/4 time in the evenings or early classes before Max gets off of school. If school doesn't work out, i'm going to look into some full time employment. I just miss adult interaction. I don't have a car during the day so i have little choices as to what to do with my time.
I was tempted to take a community class teaching indian cooking but was nervous about that being a vegetarian.

[mergirl]

that i think this time its really over. :(

[mossystate]

I don't like a sad mer. :(

[mergirl]

I don't like a sad mer. :(
noof. i don't either. och well.. this is the "whats making you sad thread".. Its the best place for it i guess..

[1300 Class]

Only one more week of employment left on the current job... so wish the job was contracted to last longer than next week.

Still, the life of a Passenger Load Counter was a decent, honest calling...http://img218.imageshack.us/img218/364/jaby2.gif

[Sugar]

My week of fun is quickly coming to a close. :(

[Weeze]

I miss "real" college :(

[Gingembre]

I was tempted to take a community class teaching indian cooking but was nervous about that being a vegetarian.

I would have thought Indian cooking would be very suited to vegetarianism? When I was in India I ate totally meat-free, and a high percentage of Indian people are vegetarians. If this is something you're interested in, Megan, perhaps talk to the person running the class about it? I'm sure the majority of recipes must be geared up to vegetarians and have ingredients you can substitute in place of meat - paneer, stuff like that. Worth enquiring?

[Teleute]

one of my coworkers has just passed away. she's been struggling with lung cancer for about a year and we've been spending a lot of time visiting and supporting her because she didn't have any family. they'd stopped treatment after it metastasized to her brain and bones, so we knew it was coming, but it was still kind of a shock to hear. it just hurts :(:(:(

[QueenB]

my best friend's dad died last night.

[Donna]

one of my coworkers has just passed away. she's been struggling with lung cancer for about a year and we've been spending a lot of time visiting and supporting her because she didn't have any family. they'd stopped treatment after it metastasized to her brain and bones, so we knew it was coming, but it was still kind of a shock to hear. it just hurts :(:(:(

my best friend's dad died last night.

Wishing you both peace and strength.

[Mathias]

My sore throat... :(

[ssflbelle]

Teleute and Queen Bee
I came on line to say I was sad I was all alone and not able to share the day with anyone. But after reading your posts I realized there are worse things in life. So sorry to hear about the deaths of your coworker and best friends dad. My prayers go out to you both and your fellow coworkers, family and friends who are grieving today.

[Teleute]

<3<3<3

Thank you so much, Donna and Belle. I really appreciate your support. *hugs*

[Leesa]

My vacation ends today; back to reality. :(

[Surlysomething]

one of my coworkers has just passed away. she's been struggling with lung cancer for about a year and we've been spending a lot of time visiting and supporting her because she didn't have any family. they'd stopped treatment after it metastasized to her brain and bones, so we knew it was coming, but it was still kind of a shock to hear. it just hurts :(:(:(


So sorry to hear this, Teleute

Queen B, i'm also sad to hear your news. Life truly sucks some days.


:(

[QueenB]

thank you so much, everyone. i also reaaaally appreciate your support.

death has always been so hard for me to deal with, but i am going to do my best to be strong for my friend and her family.

[fatgirlflyin]

I'm having the worst failed relationship in my life. It was over before it began, and I'm still being hurt. :(

Sorry that your relationship didn't work out, that always sucks. I hope you don't hurt for long!

I try to look at a relationship that ends, not as a failure, but as a learning experience. You learn from the relationship that just ended and hopefully your next relationship will benefit from the pain you are feeing now.

[Sugar]

Mike went home today. :(

[dynomite_gurl]

A really bad headache after spending 3 hours in a boring and somewhat useless class :(

[mossystate]

Mike went home today. :(

Aw...little stinky...sorry.

[Sugar]

Aw...little stinky...sorry.

Awww thanks. *slides lotion tissues and soup towards plumpy*

[BarbBBW]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

[Mathias]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

I'm so sorry Barb. :( My condolences.

[EllorionsDarlingAngel]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.
OMG I am so sorry Barb! Yes she is in a better place now.:(:( ((((Barb))))

[BarbBBW]

I'm so sorry Barb. :( My condolences.

OMG I am so sorry Barb! Yes she is in a better place now.:(:( ((((Barb))))

thank you both very much!! i appreciate it

[mossystate]

Sorry to hear about your mom, Barb.

[Surlysomething]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.


I'm so sorry for your loss, Barb.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

[fatgirlflyin]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing.

[Donna]

My prayers are with you and your family as you grieve. I'm sorry.

[BarbBBW]

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Barb.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Sorry to hear about your mom, Barb.

thank you all very much.

[tonynyc]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

(((( Barb)))) so sorry for your loss. My condolences & prayers for your Mom, you & family at this very difficult time...

[Adrian]

I am so sorry to hear about your mother you have my condolences. You and all of your family have my prayers.

Adrian

[chocolate desire]

Barb I am very sorry to hear about your mom.

[luscious_lulu]

Barb, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. *big hugs*

[knottedsouls]

After waiting over 6 weeks, I finally got a response from my ex partner on September first in regards to our now four year son... she's not sure she can trust me or that I will follow through in reguards to visitation and contact with our son.

She broke off our relationship in early November '08( mostly due to the fact that I would not quit my job that she hated that I have had before we started going out several years ago) and promised that she would never keep my son away from me.

I had supported her both previous to our relationship and all throughout(housing, food, clothing, overall financially) due to illness ( she had several bouts of leukemia) for 7 years and then once she was well she got pregnant via a generous donation form a close friend, I supported her and him the last nearly five because she didnt want to put our son into childcare due to her own fears and insecurities and refused to find a job.

.... Im not sure how much more proof of my ability to 'follow through' she needs.

I last saw my son on April 27th of this year, and now unless my ex changes her mind, Ill not see him again until he is old enough to make his own decisions...as I was not able to legally adopt him while she and I were together due to financial constraints and the legal recourse left to me will cause more harm then good in the end for my son.( who is the one who is most important in this scenerio)

I've been trying to get on with living my life...some days its really hard and I get so sad I can barely stand it. Like today, I just miss him horribly.
I went from seeing my little boy everyday, watching spongebob ( I know bad show but my goodness it made him laugh) and seasame street every morning with him before work and putting him to bed everynight, going to sleep watching him sleep in his crib/bed to not seeing him for close to five months...and now, I may not see him for years or ever...
:(

[TraciJo67]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

Very sorry for your loss, Barb.

[BarbBBW]

(((( Barb)))) so sorry for your loss. My condolences & prayers for your Mom, you & family at this very difficult time...

I am so sorry to hear about your mother you have my condolences. You and all of your family have my prayers.

Adrian

Barb I am very sorry to hear about your mom.

Barb, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. *big hugs*

Very sorry for your loss, Barb.

Thank you all, it means to much to me, that I have you all

[Surlysomething]

After waiting over 6 weeks, I finally got a response from my ex partner on September first in regards to our now four year son... she's not sure she can trust me or that I will follow through in reguards to visitation and contact with our son.

She broke off our relationship in early November '08( mostly due to the fact that I would not quit my job that she hated that I have had before we started going out several years ago) and promised that she would never keep my son away from me.

I had supported her both previous to our relationship and all throughout(housing, food, clothing, overall financially) due to illness ( she had several bouts of leukemia) for 7 years and then once she was well she got pregnant via a generous donation form a close friend, I supported her and him the last nearly five because she didnt want to put our son into childcare due to her own fears and insecurities and refused to find a job.

.... Im not sure how much more proof of my ability to 'follow through' she needs.

I last saw my son on April 27th of this year, and now unless my ex changes her mind, Ill not see him again until he is old enough to make his own decisions...as I was not able to legally adopt him while she and I were together due to financial constraints and the legal recourse left to me will cause more harm then good in the end for my son.( who is the one who is most important in this scenerio)

I've been trying to get on with living my life...some days its really hard and I get so sad I can barely stand it. Like today, I just miss him horribly.
I went from seeing my little boy everyday, watching spongebob ( I know bad show but my goodness it made him laugh) and seasame street every morning with him before work and putting him to bed everynight, going to sleep watching him sleep in his crib/bed to not seeing him for close to five months...and now, I may not see him for years or ever...
:(


I'm so very sorry for your situation. Your ex is horrible for doing this. That is your son and you should be able to have in him your life. Hopefully one day your country will get with the goddamn program. From the sound of it YOU should have primary custody.

I wish there was something more I could say...I can't imagine the heartache you must feel. -big hug-

[mergirl]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.
I am so sorry for your loss. ((((((Barb))))))). :(

[Surlysomething]

just feeling teary...

[mergirl]

After waiting over 6 weeks, I finally got a response from my ex partner on September first in regards to our now four year son... she's not sure she can trust me or that I will follow through in reguards to visitation and contact with our son.

She broke off our relationship in early November '08( mostly due to the fact that I would not quit my job that she hated that I have had before we started going out several years ago) and promised that she would never keep my son away from me.

I had supported her both previous to our relationship and all throughout(housing, food, clothing, overall financially) due to illness ( she had several bouts of leukemia) for 7 years and then once she was well she got pregnant via a generous donation form a close friend, I supported her and him the last nearly five because she didnt want to put our son into childcare due to her own fears and insecurities and refused to find a job.

.... Im not sure how much more proof of my ability to 'follow through' she needs.

I last saw my son on April 27th of this year, and now unless my ex changes her mind, Ill not see him again until he is old enough to make his own decisions...as I was not able to legally adopt him while she and I were together due to financial constraints and the legal recourse left to me will cause more harm then good in the end for my son.( who is the one who is most important in this scenerio)

I've been trying to get on with living my life...some days its really hard and I get so sad I can barely stand it. Like today, I just miss him horribly.
I went from seeing my little boy everyday, watching spongebob ( I know bad show but my goodness it made him laugh) and seasame street every morning with him before work and putting him to bed everynight, going to sleep watching him sleep in his crib/bed to not seeing him for close to five months...and now, I may not see him for years or ever...
:(

Such a sad situation. Maby you should think about seeing a lawer. I know nothing about American law but you must have some rights.

[mergirl]

I was feeling a bit sad, then i saw what horrible things everyone here was going through and i had to think myself lucky..
Love and light energies to everyone going through a tough time. x

[TraciJo67]

I'm so very sorry for your situation. Your ex is horrible for doing this. That is your son and you should be able to have in him your life. Hopefully one day your country will get with the goddamn program. From the sound of it YOU should have primary custody.

I wish there was something more I could say...I can't imagine the heartache you must feel. -big hug-

If I'm interpreting what he is saying correctly, the child is not biologically his, nor was he married to his ex. Unfortunately, that being the case, he would likely need to plead his case in court to get visitation rights.

If the child is biologically his, or if he legally adopted him, then it's a slam dunk. He's legally entitled to visitation, if not partial custody.

OP ... please consider hiring an attorney; I think that you may have a very solid case for visitation rights. You raised this boy from infancy, and for all intents & purposes, he is your son. I hope that things work out for you and for your boy.

[mergirl]

If I'm interpreting what he is saying correctly, the child is not biologically his, nor was he married to his ex. Unfortunately, that being the case, he would likely need to plead his case in court to get visitation rights.

If the child is biologically his, or if he legally adopted him, then it's a slam dunk. He's legally entitled to visitation, if not partial custody.

OP ... please consider hiring an attorney; I think that you may have a very solid case for visitation rights. You raised this boy from infancy, and for all intents & purposes, he is your son. I hope that things work out for you and for your boy.

Oh. I thought it was two women.. confusion. Ok..same advice applies. Avitars fuck me up.. can i just say...:confused:

[Surlysomething]

If I'm interpreting what he is saying correctly, the child is not biologically his, nor was he married to his ex. Unfortunately, that being the case, he would likely need to plead his case in court to get visitation rights.

If the child is biologically his, or if he legally adopted him, then it's a slam dunk. He's legally entitled to visitation, if not partial custody.

OP ... please consider hiring an attorney; I think that you may have a very solid case for visitation rights. You raised this boy from infancy, and for all intents & purposes, he is your son. I hope that things work out for you and for your boy.


They were a gay couple. I'm not sure what kind of laws would protect her from a situation like this. It makes me sad either way.

[JohnWylde]

I feel sad because I seem to have been separated from my love for an eternity.

Everything has seemed to conspire to keep us apart - financial problems family problems to mention just two.

When I think things are getting sorted, something else crops up.

Hopefully it wont be too long now though - and I do realise that this is trivial compared with what others may be suffering.

John W

[TraciJo67]

They were a gay couple. I'm not sure what kind of laws would protect her from a situation like this. It makes me sad either way.

I didn't look at the OP's post -- I read it snipped from someone else's. OP, I'm sorry for the confusion. Still, I think you may have some legal rights. I hope so. You raised your son from infancy, and you should absolutely be entitled to legal rights to parent him. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. I freeze up inside when I think of anything ever separating me from my (adopted) son.

[Sugar]

I feel lonely. I even struck up a conversation with the clerk at Walgreens. I need to get out more.

[Surlysomething]

I was in a car accident tonight.

Rear-ended VERY hard. I'm so sore and uncomfortable.


:(

[luscious_lulu]

I was in a car accident tonight.

Rear-ended VERY hard. I'm so sore and uncomfortable.


:(
*hugs*
As someone who had a similar incident beginning of July; go see a doctor right away. Get x-rays and if he recommends them (he should), anti-inflammitories <sp> or muscle relaxants. Also, lots of heat on whatever is sore. Hot showers or baths work well.

It's really important to document everything as well. You never know what crop up in the future or how long you will be sore. I'm still in pain from the accident that I was in.

[OneWickedAngel]

I was in a car accident tonight.

Rear-ended VERY hard. I'm so sore and uncomfortable.

:(

I'm glad you're okay considering, but listen to Luscious_lulu. Get yourself checked-out. There are so many things that can happen internally that by the time we feel it, it has turned into a much bigger than expected. Better to know for sure everything is okay.

[Saoirse]

I was sad watching Kanye West totally ANNIHILATE Taylor Swift's moment on the VMAs.

This makes me feel kinda pathetic, but I totally felt for the girl.

[BigCutieAriel]

I'm sad because i've lost the ability to walk due to peripheral neuropathy :(

[Adamantoise]

Well today was the worst day of my life. My mother, passed away this morning. As many of you know , she had a massive stroke back in October, and it made her life very hard. So , I am happy, she is at rest, but it doesnt make the heartache any less.

I'm truly sorry for your loss,Barb...

[HottiMegan]

The news just said Patrick Swayze died. I'm sad. I have enjoyed his movies my entire life :(

[Surlysomething]

The news just said Patrick Swayze died. I'm sad. I have enjoyed his movies my entire life :(


It's so heartbreaking. I wanted desperately not to believe all the tabloid bullshit about him but in the end he was just too sick. His poor wife, they were married 34 years. :(

RIP Patrick, your movies will always make me smile. Dirty Dancing, The Outsiders, Ghost, To Wong Foo....and on...and on..

[MisticalMisty]

pancreatic cancer is truly a bastard. It's bascialy the only incurable cancer. My grandmother had it..it's absolutely horrible. I feel so sorry for his wife and his family.

I hope they find peace soon.

[mossystate]

I'm sad because i've lost the ability to walk due to peripheral neuropathy :(

I am so sorry about this. :(

[Rowan]

I miss mike but he has a busy life that i dont fit into much right now *shrug*

I cant get in to see the psychiatrist, which is a new one now since the last one's residency ended. i called and left a request for a refill on my meds and the new idiot left me a vm telling me to call her and leave her a vm, but didnt leave her number....stupid. So..ive been off both my cymbalta and trazadone (anti anxiety and anti depressant) for a while now and Im really starting to feel the effects...like i'm sad all the time right now and feel like crying too often and i find that i am getting overly angry at things sometimes. and to make matters worse, i dont always know where i stand in my relationship, if at all.

*sigh* I hate being like this.

[saucywench]

Having MY trust violated.

[IwannabeVERYfat]

I am sad about the state of the economy, and My current lack of employment :(

[dynomite_gurl]

Being in a LDR right now :(

[Sugar]

Being in a LDR right now :(

I feel ya...I really really do.

[JerseyGirl07093]

I'm sad because i've lost the ability to walk due to peripheral neuropathy :(

I have peripheral neuropathy too. I started a thread about neuropathy on the health board if you're interested. There are at least a few of us here that have it. It helps to not fell so alone because I know that when you have neuropathy you feel that way and you also feel like no one understands just what you're going through. Probably because they don't! Unless you have it you really don't understand. I don't like to think of just how bad neuropathy can get because I have no idea how far mine will advance. Losing the ability to walk is a fear of mine as I do have some trouble already.
If you ever want to talk you can PM me. Just know that you're not alone and that I'm thinking of you. :)

[ssflbelle]

I am sad as I am having trouble with my electric mobility device for the past week. Had a dead battery replaced Wednesday and now today it was dead again even though it had been charge. Now I have to wait for a brake part to come in, 5 to 7 business days. I only work one day a week so I hope I get the part installed in time for work next Tuesday. But now I am stuck at home and can't go anywhere as I need that scooter to do everything. :mad: I really feel trapped. :eek:

[Surlysomething]

*hugs*
As someone who had a similar incident beginning of July; go see a doctor right away. Get x-rays and if he recommends them (he should), anti-inflammitories <sp> or muscle relaxants. Also, lots of heat on whatever is sore. Hot showers or baths work well.

It's really important to document everything as well. You never know what crop up in the future or how long you will be sore. I'm still in pain from the accident that I was in.

Thanks. I feel much better today. :)

[Admiral_Snackbar]

I was in a car accident tonight.

Rear-ended VERY hard. I'm so sore and uncomfortable.


:(
I would say having had family members in a similar situation: See a doctor, document everything and keep contact with your insurance company. Settlements these days get harder to finalize (because of course from years of people abusing the system) and the insurance companies we so honorably pay into to help us often end up cornholing us when it comes to payouts--especially in this economy.

This is even more complicated if the drivers of both vehicles have the same insurance company (which happened in our case). They don't like robbing Paul to pay Paul's less safety-conscious little brother.

Get well and hope it all works out for you! :)

[goofy girl]

My honey is upset right now and I can't do anything about it but be here for him. I just want him to be happy. It hurts to see him so sad. :(

[bobbleheaddoll]

someone hit a deer on the busy road on my way home...it had just happened and they guy pulled over and was on the cell on the side of the road...but the poor deer was not dead and lying in the road suffering...i cried all the way home...still upset. :really sad:

[thejuicyone]

I'm smitten as can be & he's not here. *sighs*

[HottiMegan]

Three things are making me cranky today:
I have a stomach bug.. no fun
Hubby's out of town for three days
both kids decided to be extra troublesome since dad's out of town.
All this combined made for a really tiring, sucky day.

[Ruffie]

I am worried about two of my little grandbabies who got very sick last night. They are only 22 months old and had a cold/flu. My daughter in law and son were at work with us when they got a call that one had a seizure and stopped breathing and both had high temperatures. His mom and sister got her breathing again and they raced home to the farm to get the babies to the ER. Adopted son called me from the hospital last night to update me but I haven't heard anything since about 11pm. Don't want to call in case they are catching up on sleep as they may have been in the emergency room for quite some time last night. So on pins and needles worrying about them.

[HottiMegan]

Oh Ruffie, i sure hope they are okay. I can't imagine how scared you are! I hope you hear from your family soon so you know more.

[mossystate]

Just found out my brother's girlfriend miscarried a few months back. I don't think it is going to happen for them, and it would have been so wonderful.

[Surlysomething]

I am worried about two of my little grandbabies who got very sick last night. They are only 22 months old and had a cold/flu. My daughter in law and son were at work with us when they got a call that one had a seizure and stopped breathing and both had high temperatures. His mom and sister got her breathing again and they raced home to the farm to get the babies to the ER. Adopted son called me from the hospital last night to update me but I haven't heard anything since about 11pm. Don't want to call in case they are catching up on sleep as they may have been in the emergency room for quite some time last night. So on pins and needles worrying about them.


Thinking of you and the babies. Kids are resilient!

[Gingembre]

I am feeling like i've just been slapped in the face and i have a strong feeling that everything I was really happy about is about to go completely tits up :(

[Surlysomething]

I am feeling like i've just been slapped in the face and i have a strong feeling that everything I was really happy about is about to go completely tits up :(


I hope it's not as bad as you think...


hang in there

[Leesa]

I am :( I miss my pals from the Cape and wish I were with them again this weekend.
HURRY UP NJ! :D

[1300 Class]

Just been one of those "did nothing, achieved nothing, monotony" days. Still sad about not being employed.

[Gingembre]

I am feeling like i've just been slapped in the face and i have a strong feeling that everything I was really happy about is about to go completely tits up :(

I hope it's not as bad as you think...

hang in there

Pretty much was as bad as I thought...am full of that "why aren't i good enough for anyone" feeling this evening. Ace.

[Rowan]

Pretty much was as bad as I thought...am full of that "why aren't i good enough for anyone" feeling this evening. Ace.

I completely feel you there sweetheart. After being told recently (as im sure you saw my posts) that im the "perfect girlfriend" and that I "did everything right" but still got dumped...I've been in a pretty damn dark place since then and honestly have sometimes sighed in disappointment when i've woken up in the morning some days.

So if you need someone to talk to, im here to commiserate with *hugs*