BBW Confessions thread

[Tina]

I confess that it's much quieter in here than I expected. It feels a little uncomfortable, even though many have wanted this for a long time.

I also confess that I'm beyond thrilled that olwen and butch are fellow mods here. :D

[olwen]

I confess, that I don't have much to confess except to say that this board is awesome. :)

[ashmamma84]

IC my heart kinda fluttered when my honey and I were talking and out of nowhere she grabbed me by my waist and said, "I really love your curves, and your lumps and your bumps." She then sort of blushed and grinned at the same time. That TOTALLY made my week.

:wubu::wubu::wubu:

[Fascinita]

I confess that I can't wait to read scads of confessions here in the weeks to come.

[Tina]

Oh, Ash, that is so romantic. :)

[ashmamma84]

Oh, Ash, that is so romantic. :)

Yeah, it was. I live for those moments of spontaneity though. *sigh*

[mossystate]

I'm fat.

.....

[Tina]

*snort* M, are ya sure???

I do, too, Ash. I confess that I am a sucker for romance. :D

[Fascinita]

oooooooh! IC that the title of this thread--"BBW Confessions"--sounds ever-so-slightly titillating to my ears. :batting: :p I imagine a smoky voice-over, sounding like the woman's who does those Milky Way commercials. You know?

[TraciJo67]

I'm fat.

.....

IC that I :wubu: fat, crusty Mossything just as she is.

[mossystate]

*snort* M, are ya sure???


I realized that I sounded like I just woke from a coma. *L*

I wanted to say it in a place where it could stand on its own, no person from any ' side ' telling me that I should do this or do that ( be bigger or be smaller ). Just felt kind of like sitting in the pit we used to dig in the snow, when I was a kid. Was secure and quiet and was only...me. This makes sense in my head.



IC that I :wubu: fat, crusty Mossything just as she is.


I confess that I feel comforted knowing that TraciVaJoJo considers me a friend.

[Fascinita]

I wanted to say it in a place where it could stand on its own, no person from any ' side ' telling me that I should do this or do that ( be bigger or be smaller ). Just felt kind of like sitting in the pit we used to dig in the snow, when I was a kid. Was secure and quiet and was only...me. This makes sense in my head.

It makes sense to me, too.

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Oh, and IC that there is a mouse (I think) in the floorboards of the floor above me, and it's been driving me nuts with its teeny tiny movements in there for months.

IC that it feels good to confess to something that is not necessarily weight related, though I wonder if this is "on topic" enough.

[Tina]

Makes sense to me, too, but when put into context. Before that, yeah, the coma thing. :D

The thread is on topic, Lizzy, but you wondering if it is or not is off-topic. Bad Lizzy.

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC I really,really hate reality shows..They all make me sick..

[Keb]

IC that I just had my first "real" kiss last weekend...and I can't wait for the next one!

[Tania]

I confess that it makes me feel giddy and insurmountably confident when someone who knew me when I was at my physical zenith tells me that he thinks I'm hotter now than I was then. Also doesn't hurt that he was telling me how amazing and sexy I am as he proceeded to f* my brains out. ;D

[Tau]

I confess I really, really want somebody to fuck my brains out *sigh* I'm sooooo jealous Tania

[Tania]

Keep at it, girl. You've been putting yourself out there, and that will pay off.

[comaseason]

IC I do not want to go to work today. That is why I'm still here instead of on my way out the door like I should be. :D

[thatgirl08]

I confess that I think I found a boy who appreciates me for the person I am AND thinks I'm totally hot. :wubu:

[bexy]

I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.

[NoWayOut]

I confess that I think I found a boy who appreciates me for the person I am AND thinks I'm totally hot. :wubu:

That's awesome, everyone deserves to have someone like them for who they are.

[TraciJo67]

IC that I just had my first "real" kiss last weekend...and I can't wait for the next one!

Details! Share 'em!

[Teresa]

IC that I'm really enjoying this BBW board.

IC, although I'm not real sure it's a confession, maybe more like bragging?? LOL But, I'm gonna say it anyway..... IC that I was recently told I kiss "fucking fantastic". :bounce:

[Teleute]

IC that I'm feeling pretty damn sexy today, and the cute courier who I'm pretty sure is an FA has been all blushy and fumbly every time he comes to the window to drop stuff off, and it's totally been boosting my ego (which I fully admit did not need help today, heh). Either that, or I've got a big mark or something on my face and he doesn't know how to tell me. :rolleyes: Ah well, I'll go with the interpretation that makes me feel better :p

[olwen]

IC that I just had my first "real" kiss last weekend...and I can't wait for the next one!

Cool. I'm sure the next one will soon follow. ;)

[Tooz]

(Sorry if this is a downer of a confession.)

IC that I still struggle with my body sometimes. I look at myself, and it's not that I wish I was thinner, it's more that I wish my body was differently shaped (see the in-betweenie thread). I wish I was more defined. Larger butt, smaller stomach and ...overall larger bottom half. I'm not an apple, I'm definitely not a pear but I don't feel like I am an hourglass, either. I sometimes wonder if there is any way to spot-reduce. I feel bad about that.

[Punkin1024]

My confession is a bit like Tooz's -

I wish my fat was more evenly distributed, instead of mostly being around the middle. I think my body looks a little goofy because my legs and arms are much smaller than the rest of me. Sigh!

[Punkin1024]

I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.

Awww, sweetie! Perhaps you can try using Palmer's Stretch Mark cream to reduce the redness. If you don't have Palmer's in Ireland, I'm sure there is a cream you can find that targets stretch marks.

(((((((Bexy)))))))

[Kellie Kay]

i totally agree with the posts above me <3 im constantly wishing my butt was rounder, and i try to make it that why but it seems like all the weight i gain goes everywhere but to my butt! lol but it's only every now and then lol

[thatgirl08]

I confess that I think I found a boy who appreciates me for the person I am AND thinks I'm totally hot. :wubu:

IC that this boy asked me to be his girlfriend today and now I'm totally giddy.

[Weeze]

IC that this boy asked me to be his girlfriend today and now I'm totally giddy.

I just went WOO.

like. out loud.

[StarWitness]

IC that I went to get my driver's license photo taken a few weeks ago, I was feeling like a million bucks, and when I got it in the mail, I was disappointed to see that it was one of the worst photos of me in existence. Sadness.

[bufbig]

I just went WOO.

like. out loud.
I went "YAY" at the time. :happy:

IC that this boy asked me to be his girlfriend today and now I'm totally giddy.
;) :wubu:

[katherine22]

IC that I just had my first "real" kiss last weekend...and I can't wait for the next one!


I am happy for you.

[katherine22]

I confess that I am terrified of getting old. I had no appreciation of myself when I was young, and I hate watching myself aging. I confess that I wonder if I will have the courage to keepn living.

[Tracy]

IC that I'm a sucker for tall dark handsome men. I also confess that this morning when I stopped at the old country store for my bacon and egg biscuit that those redneck looking guys were kinda HOT :eek: :D I just might have to go back tomorrow morning! :)

[steely]

I confess that I am really enjoying the BBW Forum. Thank you for allowing a place for us to discuss relevant and important issues. :bow:

[Tooz]

i totally agree with the posts above me <3 im constantly wishing my butt was rounder, and i try to make it that why but it seems like all the weight i gain goes everywhere but to my butt! lol but it's only every now and then lol

We need to reenact the time we lifted our back fat to look at how big our butts would be...and get a picture.

[butch]

IC that I'm honored to help Tina and Olwen mod this forum.

Although, truth be told, I might not know enough about the second B and the W in the acronym 'BBW' to be of use here on the boards, but I'll do my best. ;)

[fatgirlflyin]

IC that I have been light headed, off and on, for the last 3 days. I'm not sure if its from lack of sleep (my work schedule has been crazy, I'm back in school, and the kids just got back from Florida) or not eating right (I don't really cook when its just me) but if after this weekend I'm not feeling back to normal I'm gonna have to go see a doctor.

[Tania]

I hope you feel better soon, Ella. :(

I confess that I fuck myself over a lot. It would be nice, just once, to follow my heart into something that won't cut me up into a million emo little pieces.

Just keep swimming...just keep swimming...just keep swimming... :'(

[MsAppleCinnamon]

i confess i am new here on the forums, and hope i get to chat with a lot of people here and make new friends..=]

[Cors]

IC that I'm honored to help Tina and Olwen mod this forum.

Although, truth be told, I might not know enough about the second B and the W in the acronym 'BBW' to be of use here on the boards, but I'll do my best. ;)

Hmm, how about Big Boyish Woman or Big Butch Woman? :wubu:

[Teresa]

I confess that I am terrified of getting old. I had no appreciation of myself when I was young, and I hate watching myself aging. I confess that I wonder if I will have the courage to keepn living.

Katherine, I predict you'll have the courage if going by the thoughtful, intelligent, courageous posts you put out on a continuous basis is any indication. Growing older is difficult for each of us as we reach milestones. When I reached 30, that was no problem for me, unlike my sister. When I reached 40, again no problem, unlike my younger brother. Now I'm getting closer to 50 and I have a feeling that will be a difficult milestone for me. We each have stages in our lives where we find it difficult to continue on as before, so we have to make the changes necessary for our lives and try to have a positive outlook. Difficult at times, but definitely worth the effort.

I take comfort in the fact that women and men are more active and are living much longer and productive lives.

Teresa

[Fascinita]

I confess that today I feel accomplished, happy, and fulfilled.

[fatgirlflyin]

IC that I got defensive today while going over a presentation with my co-workers. I realized I was doing it and eventually just took a deep breath and shut my mouth, but not before a couple of people noticed.

[olwen]

IC that I went to get my driver's license photo taken a few weeks ago, I was feeling like a million bucks, and when I got it in the mail, I was disappointed to see that it was one of the worst photos of me in existence. Sadness.

Nobody looks good in their driver's license. I can't wait for my to expire so I can get a new picture.

I confess that I am terrified of getting old. I had no appreciation of myself when I was young, and I hate watching myself aging. I confess that I wonder if I will have the courage to keepn living.

I wish I knew something to say to make you feel better about it. IC I worry too about that and I'm younger than you. I mostly worry about my arthritic knees and whether I'll be able to get them replaced without too much hassle from doctors. I try not to think about it tho.

(Sorry if this is a downer of a confession.)

IC that I still struggle with my body sometimes. I look at myself, and it's not that I wish I was thinner, it's more that I wish my body was differently shaped (see the in-betweenie thread). I wish I was more defined. Larger butt, smaller stomach and ...overall larger bottom half. I'm not an apple, I'm definitely not a pear but I don't feel like I am an hourglass, either. I sometimes wonder if there is any way to spot-reduce. I feel bad about that.

Everybody has parts they wish they could modify. IC I wish my arms were smaller so I could wear blouses and cute shirts that have arms. I have a ton of tank tops, but I get sick of wearing them sometimes.

IC that I'm honored to help Tina and Olwen mod this forum.

Although, truth be told, I might not know enough about the second B and the W in the acronym 'BBW' to be of use here on the boards, but I'll do my best. ;)

Butchie, you don't need an acronym, but you could always call yourself a Big Butch Whatchamacallit. :p

Also, IC, I saw a totally hot BHM today with long hair in a pony tail that took me back to my heavy metal days and I couldn't stop staring. :blush:

[mossystate]

I have been quite productive today, and I am doing my best to keep a particular worry in perspective. I also confess that I no longer want to lug around a certain number of pounds, and want to get in the frame of mind where I can approach the issue with some peace and calm...and action.

[SparklingBBW]

IC that I love this new forum! Thanks to everyone who made it happen!

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[BubbleButtBabe]

I confess that I am terrified of getting old. I had no appreciation of myself when I was young, and I hate watching myself aging. I confess that I wonder if I will have the courage to keepn living.


I understand where you are coming from..The only b-day that bothered me a lot was when I turned 25..I was a total wreck and couldn't stop crying all day..After that I have thought of growing older as writing a book..Each day is a new page and every year is a new chapter..When I am in a bad mood, I open my book and look back on my life..I read through my pages and realize that I had a pretty good life..It wasn't perfect nor should it have been but even the bad parts now look like it was an interesting time in my life,something I would not trade for youth..I am going to keep writing pages and chapters until it is time for me to leave..I then wish my children and g-children would open my book and read it and realize that things I did in it were because I was me..

[steely]

I confess I think of mountains and rocks by the sea, homesick for a place I've never been.

[Punkin1024]

IC I'm sick of this hot, hot weather!

[butch]

Good advice, Cors and Olwen! I think I shall henceforth be known as a Blue Behemoth Walrus. It kinda has a nice ring to it, doesn't it? :D

[olwen]

Good advice, Cors and Olwen! I think I shall henceforth be known as a Blue Behemoth Walrus. It kinda has a nice ring to it, doesn't it? :D

Coo coo cachoo. :p :)

[butch]

Coo coo cachoo. :p :)

:D Tried to rep you, but couldn't. :(

[comaseason]

IC I just bought new jammies... and I look h.o.t. in em.:D

[kayrae]

IC that I'm pining away for a boy who doesn't quite know what he wants from me. Sweet one moment, ignores me the next. Mysterious, neurotic, incredibly intelligent. I am emotionally attached. I've been trying unsuccessfully to get over him and find someone else for the last three months.

[leener38]

I confess to lurking around these parts for years. Finally grew a pair, and decided to come out of the shadows more or less. Even chose an avatar pic. At 5'5" and 280+/-, I guess I couldn't hide too much! It's so hard to find a niche to squeeze into comfortably, but forums like these help!

[QueenB]

i confess that sex just gets better and better. the wg has definitely been a part of it ;]

[Tina]

Yay! Welcome, leener! Lovely to see you. :)

So many remarks I'd like to make to so many posts, but I confess I'm beyond exhausted and can't gather my thoughts.

Very poetic, steely.

[Carrie]

I confess that while I was/am a huge supporter of this forum and am truly happy to see it here at last, I feel somewhat vaguely unwelcome because of the several comments I've already read about supersized women (like myself) making you lovely mid-sizers feel unwelcome or somehow invalidated because of your size. I feel shitty that that's ever happened to any of you, here or in real life, and fervently wish it hadn't, but I hope no one loses sight of the fact that there are many, many (in fact, I would venture to say the majority of) supersized women (again, like myself) who have never been anything but supportive and welcoming of our smaller friends. I hate that the negative in life always seems to get more press than the positive. :(

[Ruffie]

I confess that I am sick and tired of being judged for my body shape and size rather than the inner beauty I possess. At 45 I am more than just a fat middle aged lady!

[olwen]

I confess that while I was/am a huge supporter of this forum and am truly happy to see it here at last, I feel somewhat vaguely unwelcome because of the several comments I've already read about supersized women (like myself) making you lovely mid-sizers feel unwelcome or somehow invalidated because of your size. I feel shitty that that's ever happened to any of you, here or in real life, and fervently wish it hadn't, but I hope no one loses sight of the fact that there are many, many (in fact, I would venture to say the majority of) supersized women (again, like myself) who have never been anything but supportive and welcoming of our smaller friends. I hate that the negative in life always seems to get more press than the positive. :(

Carrie, the good thing about this board is that we can all be here to learn from each other. Sometimes that will mean hearing things that make us a little uncomfortable but that's okay. If something makes us uncomfortable it means we're really thinking about it. To my mind that's a good thing. :)

[Carrie]

If something makes us uncomfortable it means we're really thinking about it. To my mind that's a good thing. :)
Oh, ick, thinking. :p

[Grandi Floras]

I confess that I am still having a lot of trouble thinking that a man would want to be with me since I am a BBW.

I am just wondering, if there are so many FAs out there, why, after all of these years of being here on Dimensions and out here in real life, have I never been approached by any man for dating or a relationship? I confess that I am at a loss.......:rolleyes:

[D_A_Bunny]

IC that I checked and checked to see if this forum was open and then I started a farm on Farm Town in facebook. I have been so busy trying to build up my little farm, I just now noticed that the lights are on here.

Hello everyone!

[Fascinita]

Christine! Are you farming crullers? :p

Good to see you, bun-bun.

[D_A_Bunny]

Christine! Are you farming crullers? :p

Good to see you, bun-bun.

You truly are a wordsmith my friend.:wubu: Hey if they had a game where there were pastries and stuff, you might never see me again.;)

[comaseason]

IC I just sneezed so hard I bit my tongue.

[Punkin1024]

IC that I checked and checked to see if this forum was open and then I started a farm on Farm Town in facebook. I have been so busy trying to build up my little farm, I just now noticed that the lights are on here.

Hello everyone!

Hey there! You know, I may just let my little farm at Facebook go fallow, because I'd rather spend more time in here with my fatty friends! :D

[D_A_Bunny]

Hey there! You know, I may just let my little farm at Facebook go fallow, because I'd rather spend more time in here with my fatty friends! :D

It only takes a few minutes per day to keep it up. You can always plant long term crops. But either way, it will be good to hang out.

[steadydecline]

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

[D_A_Bunny]

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

Noone has the right to tell you that you do not belong here. If you want to belong, that is your choice and you are welcome here. Please do not leave based on one person's remarks.

If any woman feels that she wants the camaraderie and support of other women who are fat, or think they are fat, or feel fat, then this is the place to be.

Please stay and read and post. I think you will like it a lot.

FYI - if you ever feel that someone is treating you inappropriately, please contact a moderator and let them know so that they can help you.

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC I just saw Transformers II and loved every minute of it..I am such a sci-fi geek!

[BubbleButtBabe]

I confess that while I was/am a huge supporter of this forum and am truly happy to see it here at last, I feel somewhat vaguely unwelcome because of the several comments I've already read about supersized women (like myself) making you lovely mid-sizers feel unwelcome or somehow invalidated because of your size. I feel shitty that that's ever happened to any of you, here or in real life, and fervently wish it hadn't, but I hope no one loses sight of the fact that there are many, many (in fact, I would venture to say the majority of) supersized women (again, like myself) who have never been anything but supportive and welcoming of our smaller friends. I hate that the negative in life always seems to get more press than the positive. :(

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/


I am so sorry you both feel so bad..I agree that we all need to work on accepting one another based on the fact we are women and not by our dress size..

[Carrie]

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/
Ugh, that is complete bullshit! Makes me so mad to hear this kind of thing. SD, I really hope you will consider reporting that PM to a moderator, so whomever said that can be properly infracted (my preference would be tossed out on his/her ass!). Please, please, please believe that you are absolutely welcome here, regardless of size! I'm certain that you have, as you said, dealt with your share of human jerkiness and have a lot to contribute here, and to learn, as we all do, whether you're a size 0 or a size, well, me. :D

So stay and post, okay? You won't regret it. :)

I am so sorry you both feel so bad..I agree that we all need to work on accepting one another based on the fact we are women and not by our dress size..
Thanks for this, BBB. Wise words! :)

[Leesa]

IC that I checked and checked to see if this forum was open and then I started a farm on Farm Town in facebook. I have been so busy trying to build up my little farm, I just now noticed that the lights are on here.

Hello everyone!

WOW, there are so MANY BBW farmers!
I am always looking for a great neighbour. :eek:

[tinkerbell]

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/


I feel the same way, and have been told the same crap in the past too. That I wasnt fat enough to be here, or even fat at all. It made me want to leave, and kind of put me in perma lurk mode, as I take things to personally too.

[Grandi Floras]

I confess that I am not really sure what this thread is actually for.......:confused:

[olwen]

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

As a few others have already stated, harassment is definitely not okay. If anyone has been harassed via PM or otherwise please report it to a moderator. You have just as much right to be here harassment free as anyone else no matter what size you are.

/mod

[rubmyroundbelly]

IC I just saw Transformers II and loved every minute of it..I am such a sci-fi geek!

Ooooooooooooooooh I wanna see that!! IC that I too am a scifi geek and I'm not ashamed of it! :D

Tess

[Sweet Tooth]

IC that the SA movement and this site have given me a great deal of overall confidence in my life in the last 17 years, I still have a hard time thinking that I'm not still automatically judged based on weight by others, like it's a fight I'm constantly ready to have. Of course, I go about my life without stressing too much about my size either. It's very matter-of-fact.

IC that I'm completely unmotivated to do anything productive these days, as much as I want to get stuff done. I worry sometimes that my weight makes it harder to fight inertia, but I think sometimes it's just that there's a disconnect between what I want to do and what I feel guilted into doing by society's norms. [Like, hey, maybe I want to come home and eat dinner while chatting rather than getting yardwork done.]

IC that sometimes living so closely tied to an online community really skews my idea of how things work. Take relationships... the start of something... and how intense it is online versus how it is offline where you talk every few days, go on occasional dates, etc.

[tinkerbell]

IC we're going to go see Transformers 2 today, for the 2nd time :)

[GoldenDelicious]

I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.
aaah, Bexy, your stretch marks will fade with time and be less noticeable. Keep your skin well moisturised and this will help the elasticity. Also bio oil is meant to be quite good. My friend used it and said it helped. I suspect your hormones had a part to play in your tears over your body. Your body is doing something amazing right now, it's growing an actual human being that will grow up and love you and have an entire personality all of his/her own. Your stretch marks show that you have produced a life using your body to grow it in, that's pretty special. So you'll have a few stretch marks, fuck it!

I wish you a healthy happy baby, I'm sure you'll be a great mother.

[bobbleheaddoll]

I confess that I cried about my body recently and I haven't done that in a very long time. I realised I had new stretchmarks, which I understand what with there being a full term baby inside of my tum tum, but I think they are ugly and they really upset me. They are red and new looking and made me cry. I haven't put on any weight, actually lost a lot since being pregnant, so the stretchmarks caught me a bit by surprise.

Oh and I understand there are a lot of people that find new fresh stretchmarks attractive or a turn on, but I don't, certainly not on me when I have never really had them before and I am happy I have somewhere to say that without being told off.

hi bexy! goldendelicious it totally right...it is all about moisturizing. i would highly recommend shea butter or cocoa butter. you can usually get pure shea or cocoa butter at a naturals store. it is great for your skin and will help ease up the stretch marks. this will help soften your skin and moisturize to hopefully lessen the chances of getting any more. try doing it right after your shower when you skin is very hydrated and really any time you feel your skin could use it.

i confess that i too lost a ton of weight during pregnancy (50lbs), but it was mostly due to 8 months of morning sickness and projectile vomiting.
:( luckily i was a chunky chick and had the mass to spare :)

[DeniseW]

I confess that we went to see Bruno this weekend even though I knew it would be sick but I laughed so hard that I almost peed my pants!!

[Punkin1024]

I confess that I've been a bit down lately. Too many stresses at work and at home has made me want to escape for a while. Thank goodness I have the internets...especially Dimensions and the BBW Forum. Sigh!

[steely]

I confess that I've been a bit down lately. Too many stresses at work and at home has made me want to escape for a while. Thank goodness I have the internets...especially Dimensions and the BBW Forum. Sigh!

Hope you start feeling better soon! I know I can identify with wanting to escape.

[Tracy]

IC that I'm feeling down today! I found out the land I was going to purchase to build a house on was not approved for the septic tank. I kinda dread starting the search over again for a piece of land. Not sure what to do!:(

[ashmamma84]

IC somedays, like today, when I can really feel ALL of my fat; its like I'm moving in slow mo' or something. Like I just can't get with it no matter what; I have so much I need to accomplish before going on vacay but my body is saying DOES NOT COMPUTE, for some reason.

Ugh. I put off running errands because I knew I just didn't have the energy to walk around the store to get what I needed...and I'd end up being a sweaty, huffy, puffy mess. :rolleyes:

Fat is where its at, but sometimes (very rarely), I kinda think to myself, "not so much."

[Punkin1024]

IC somedays, like today, when I can really feel ALL of my fat; its like I'm moving in slow mo' or something. Like I just can't get with it no matter what; I have so much I need to accomplish before going on vacay but my body is saying DOES NOT COMPUTE, for some reason.

Fat is where its at, but sometimes (very rarely), I kinda think to myself, "not so much."

Does it help to know that I totally understand what you're saying and how you are feeling?

IC that I'm tired of this week, can it be Friday night right now! Sigh!

[fatgirlflyin]

IC that I had dinner with a Dimmer and she is one cool chickadee!

[PunkPeach]

I confess that I am still talking to my most recent ex, I have a horrible habit as keeping them as friends.

[Weeze]

i confess that sex just gets better and better. the wg has definitely been a part of it ;]

I've actually heard this from a few people. I kinda sorta almost casually mentioned it to my mom the other day, and she said that it might have something to do with the fact that when you gain weight your hormones shift and your libido can skyrocket. Obviously, my mother does not know why I would *really* ask such a thing.

Kinda goes with Carrie's comment.

IC that even on a forum based on acceptance, I still worry about being judged or generally disliked. I mean, I'm only 170 lbs, hardly a SS, and I know that larger women sometimes have more problems than I, but I have dealt with my share of intolerance, hatred, and hurtful remarks. I've already had one person (who shall remain unnamed) PM me saying basically "What's the big deal? You're not even fat. Deal with it." It kind of made me want to leave...I guess I take things too personally. :/

I wouldn't call taking that too personally. No lie. Whoever said that to you is full of shit. First off. You seem freaking adorable and I promise that's not just the raging homo inside of me saying that. Stay. Post. Besides we need more younger chicas :p

I confess that I am still talking to my most recent ex, I have a horrible habit as keeping them as friends.

Ew. I have a habit of this too. No fun. no. fun. at. all.

[Friday]

;) I confess, she's even cuter in person!

[Shosh]

IC that I am loving that my thighs are all filled out and jiggly and wobbly again since I have gained weight. They look so much nicer now.:)

[lypeaches]

First, I confess that I'm an oblivious idiot, 'cause I just now noticed this new BBW forum.

Second, I confess to 2 major celebrity crushes....LL Cool J ('cause he's beautiful and sweet) and Jeff Goldblum (because he just IS sexy).

[steely]

First, I confess that I'm an oblivious idiot, 'cause I just now noticed this new BBW forum.

Second, I confess to 2 major celebrity crushes....LL Cool J ('cause he's beautiful and sweet) and Jeff Goldblum (because he just IS sexy).

Isn't Jeff Goldblum just hot!? Most people think I'm crazy, but since Earth Girls Are Easy he's just gotten better looking every year.

[lypeaches]

He's totally hot looking....but in particular I'm drawn to his hands and his really quirky personality. Totally dig it.

[Make_Lunch_Not_War]

Isn't Jeff Goldblum just hot!? Most people think I'm crazy, but since Earth Girls Are Easy he's just gotten better looking every year.

If you really like Jeff Goldblum, you might find his cartoon funny.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=deppIzXmmY4&feature=PlayList&p=4F35DAE434868499&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=4

I found it hysterical but no one else I sent it to did.

[lypeaches]

hehe...too funny! Thanks!

[mossystate]

I am ok with being human, and would like others to worry more about themselves.

[OneHauteMama]

IC that I've been thinking about my last BF a LOT lately and I totally miss him...

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC I am getting way to old to chase a 3 yo 24/7 for a week..I am wore out!!

[steely]

If you really like Jeff Goldblum, you might find his cartoon funny.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=deppIzXmmY4&feature=PlayList&p=4F35DAE434868499&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=4

I found it hysterical but no one else I sent it to did.

LOL, I loved it! Thanks!

[LunaLove]

IC my boyfriend wet my bed last night :/

[mossystate]

A man from Dimensions has popped up in my dreams...3 times...this last week, give or take.


I am going to start charging him rent.

[D_A_Bunny]

A man from Dimensions has popped up in my dreams...3 times...this last week, give or take.


I am going to start charging him rent.

When you say "popped up", what exactly do you mean my dear Mossy?:happy:

[mossystate]

When you say "popped up", what exactly do you mean my dear Mossy?:happy:

Shhhh. I planted that one for Traci. :D Well, ummmm...one of the dreams was a lil.......fun.

[Punkin1024]

Isn't Jeff Goldblum just hot!? Most people think I'm crazy, but since Earth Girls Are Easy he's just gotten better looking every year.

Another Jeff Goldblum fan here! :happy:

[olwen]

IC, Jeff Goldblum doesn't do a thing for me. But he is kinda funny, like in that way where someone doesn't have to do anything to be funny.....I also confess that wasn't as clever as I thought it would be. :p

[Fascinita]

IC that I love this forum more and more every day.

[mossystate]

IC that I love this forum more and more every day.

IC that you need to change your user title to...inowlpearable....or whatever...cuz that bottom half looks like an owl to me. Thanks. Bye.

[D_A_Bunny]

Shhhh. I planted that one for Traci. :D Well, ummmm...one of the dreams was a lil.......fun.

And STILL that slacker has yet to show up. ;)



IC that sometimes I do like being me. Those are the days that make me happiest.

[Fascinita]

IC that you need to change your user title to...inowlpearable....or whatever...cuz that bottom half looks like an owl to me. Thanks. Bye.

IC that I'm thrilled you looked at my bottom half. Now let's cut to the chase and you show me yours. k? :eat2::smitten:

[Green Eyed Fairy]

IC that I'm thrilled you looked at my bottom half. Now let's cut to the chase and you show me yours. k? :eat2::smitten:


IC that I have taught you well, Grasshopper :bow:


Now snatch this chocolate bar from my palm......if you can ;)

[Green Eyed Fairy]

When you say "popped up", what exactly do you mean my dear Mossy?:happy:

You are a dirty, dirty bird......or should I say owl? :confused:

[Punkin1024]

"snicker" - you all are so funny! It is good to smile.

IC that I've had another mostly blah Saturday. Low energy, too much to do and overwhelmed by it all. At least I got some tasks accomplished at my little farm in Farm Town. ;)

[rainyday]

Last night I watched 20/20 and one of the stories included footage of a camp for kids who are scarred by burns. Just a warm, supportive atmosphere where they're not oddities and their positives are reinforced.

Made me think it would be cool if there were fat camp for fat kids to go to too. Not the kind of fat camp I went to as a kid, but one that celebrates their value just as they are and lets them learn to move their bodies for the joy of it, not for how many pounds it will subtract. I wouldn't be surprised if fat kids who went to that kind of camp actually ended up thinner in the long run.

[graceofangels]

I've always wondered what life would be like if i were more like the rest of my family.

[TraciJo67]

Shhhh. I planted that one for Traci. :D Well, ummmm...one of the dreams was a lil.......fun.

IC that while Mossytart is making the electronic moves on my very asleep hubby (who is right now bizzy snoring into our child's ear) *my* dreams will be all about being the creamy filling in the middle of an Estevez/Sheen brother sandwich. I had Orlando Bloom last night. I demanded that he show himself as Legalos and the whiny baby cried a bit about feeling objectified so I had to smack him around a little. It was for his own good.

[cinnamitch]

IC that I have taught you well, Grasshopper :bow:


Now snatch this chocolate bar from my palm......if you can ;)


OOOhhh, you said "snatch":D

[Green Eyed Fairy]

I confess that I still melt for DJ Tiesto's "In My Memory" now as much as I did the first time I heard it. Beautiful love song of longing.....and regret and melancholy.
I need to find myself some better music :doh:

[fffff]

First, I confess that I'm an oblivious idiot, 'cause I just now noticed this new BBW forum.

Second, I confess to 2 major celebrity crushes....LL Cool J ('cause he's beautiful and sweet) and Jeff Goldblum (because he just IS sexy).


OMFG you have no idea, NO IDEA how much I LOVE Jeff Goldblum.
I think I was maybe .. 6 when I saw jurassic park and all I remember was just thinking "I feel something different about this guy."
He is my dream Jew.

[Teleute]

IC that my brain has been doing this thing lately (that I thought it stopped doing a while ago) where it replays times that I was really embarrassed/humiliated, like stuff from when I was in elementary school, and I get the physical "embarrassment" effects and blush really hard out of nowhere even though I know the stuff I'm mentally replaying is silly and it's not something that would embarrass me now. It just loops the moments over and over and then I'm feeling weirdly ashamed even though I'm just sitting by myself in the lab. Sigh... stupid brain, when will you ever shut up?

[thatgirl08]

IC that my brain has been doing this thing lately (that I thought it stopped doing a while ago) where it replays times that I was really embarrassed/humiliated, like stuff from when I was in elementary school, and I get the physical "embarrassment" effects and blush really hard out of nowhere even though I know the stuff I'm mentally replaying is silly and it's not something that would embarrass me now. It just loops the moments over and over and then I'm feeling weirdly ashamed even though I'm just sitting by myself in the lab. Sigh... stupid brain, when will you ever shut up?

This happens to me sometimes too.. not as much now, but when I was really being affected by my OCD. I think it's part of the obsessive thoughts. I'm not saying that this is what's happening to you, just random thoughts.

[fatgirlflyin]

IC that I'm home from my weekend in Vegas, and I'm sunburned and TIRED!

[kayrae]

IC that I'm in love with two coats. They're both expensive! How do I choose?

[Cors]

Post pics Kayrae!

[Crystal]

IC that a few friends went to an amusement park and told me of the amazing fun they had, and it made me miss riding rollercoasters, when I wasn't too big to fit into the seat.

[Teleute]

This happens to me sometimes too.. not as much now, but when I was really being affected by my OCD. I think it's part of the obsessive thoughts. I'm not saying that this is what's happening to you, just random thoughts.

I'm glad I'm not the only one, heh. I do have family history of OCD and I have ADHD which is strongly linked to OCD, so it would probably be a good idea to discuss it with my therapist.


Also, I wanna see the coats too! :D

[kayrae]

Steve Madden Hooded Duffle Coat (http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/3032127?Category=&Search=True&SearchType=keywordsearch&keyword=steve+madden+in+All+Categories&origin=searchresults)

I can't find a link for the other coat.

Post pics Kayrae!

[Teleute]

!!

I don't know about the other one, but that coat is AWESOME! I love the fuschia plaid and the toggles.

[thatgirl08]

I'm glad I'm not the only one, heh. I do have family history of OCD and I have ADHD which is strongly linked to OCD, so it would probably be a good idea to discuss it with my therapist.

Yeah you should. :]

[olwen]

IC that a few friends went to an amusement park and told me of the amazing fun they had, and it made me miss riding rollercoasters, when I wasn't too big to fit into the seat.

IC, I do not miss roller coasters at all. The last time I was on one (in high school I think) it got stuck and it was the kind where you dangle from the track. My seat was dangling over a pond and I was uncomfortable, couldn't breathe well and it was all I could do to keep from having a panic attack. No thanks.

[Punkin1024]

IC that I wish I had more time to spend in here! :happy:

[Teresa]

Isn't Jeff Goldblum just hot!? Most people think I'm crazy, but since Earth Girls Are Easy he's just gotten better looking every year.

IC that I first found Jeff Goldblum sexy when he took his shirt off in the remake of "The Fly". Mmmmmmmmmmmmm what a body!

[fffff]

Several times a week I have sex dreams about House.

[Punkin1024]

Sometimes I wish I could just get in my car and travel all over the USA without a care in the world!

[Blackjack]

Several times a week I have sex dreams about House.

Clearly you're meant to have a relationship with Mini.

[JerseyGirl07093]

Sometimes I wish I could just get in my car and travel all over the USA without a care in the world!

I call shotgun! Let's get this BBW roadtrip underway! :)

[Crystal]

Several times a week I have sex dreams about House.


That makes two of us.

He's really into me, he just doesn't quite know it yet. :happy::wubu:

[Punkin1024]

I call shotgun! Let's get this BBW roadtrip underway! :)

:) You know, a roadtrip with my BBW girlfriends has always been one of my dream trips. I'd love to travel across the states and see how many Dims people I could meet. Also, I'd love to visit all the "food" spots like they mention on the Travel Channel. Who knows, when I win the Lottery, I'll have the means to get a BBW tour group together! :D

[mossystate]

I wanna be the one who kills the trucker with the naked woman mudflaps!!!

I called it!!

[Jane]

I wanna be the one who kills the trucker with the naked woman mudflaps!!!

I called it!!


Oh, come now, these are MUCH more disgusting:

http://www.bumpernuts.com/

[Tina]

Once my son and I were looking for parking to go in the store. We parked near a truck that had those idiotic mudflaps and also a playboy bunny sticker on the back window in the cab of the truck. I turned to him then pointed to the truck and said, "This is who you do not want to be. See that crap on the truck? That crap on the truck serves two purposes: he advertises that he gets no sex, and at the same time, that crap serves as salt peter for women, thereby perpetuating the cycle."

Just add those balls and it's truly complete. :rolleyes:

[Jane]

Once my son and I were looking for parking to go in the store. We parked near a truck that had those idiotic mudflaps and also a playboy bunny sticker on the back window in the cab of the truck. I turned to him then pointed to the truck and said, "This is who you do not want to be. See that crap on the truck? That crap on the truck serves two purposes: he advertises that he gets no sex, and at the same time, that crap serves as salt peter for women, thereby perpetuating the cycle."

Just add those balls and it's truly complete. :rolleyes:

When you have to buy some, and hang them out for all to see in order to have some....people know it.

[Punkin1024]

You ladies make me giggle! How about, on our historical roadtrip, we try to spot FA stickers too! Just like the game we played when I was a kid, spot the out of state license plate. That usually kept us well occupied. :D

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC if I ever win enough money on the lottery I am going to make sure Punkin gets her road trip!

[kayrae]

come visit me!

[JerseyGirl07093]

:) You know, a roadtrip with my BBW girlfriends has always been one of my dream trips. I'd love to travel across the states and see how many Dims people I could meet. Also, I'd love to visit all the "food" spots like they mention on the Travel Channel. Who knows, when I win the Lottery, I'll have the means to get a BBW tour group together! :D

You and I think alike! I would love to do this too. We all have to promise that if any of us wins a lottery big enough to make this a reality that we will do it. I'm giving you my promise right now, and you have it in writing. lol :happy:

[bobbleheaddoll]

i confess with my daughter off on vacation i am a bit lonely :(

[Punkin1024]

IC if I ever win enough money on the lottery I am going to make sure Punkin gets her road trip!

come visit me!

You know we will!

You and I think alike! I would love to do this too. We all have to promise that if any of us wins a lottery big enough to make this a reality that we will do it. I'm giving you my promise right now, and you have it in writing. lol :happy:

Ladies, you are on! :D Let's all try really hard to pick those winning numbers!

[AshleyEileen]

I confess that the other night I had a 2 hour argument with my boyfriend and told him how much I hated him and he was was a horrible person. The bad part is that I was asleep and don't remember a thing. :confused: I don't know where it came from because I love him to pieces, and he's wonderful.

[Tania]

I confess that I am restless and lonely and I miss having a relationship.

I confess that male attention is a big ol' double-edged sword; I need the validation, but with that validation comes the potent reminder that sex and admiration fall well short of love and emotional security.

I confess that someone recently told me that he was afraid of me, which was both touching and depressing as hell.

I confess that I am too accepting.

[kayrae]

Yeah you are.

[Tania]

I soak up jerks and losers like a sponge. Trouble is, I actually like some of them. :(

[olwen]

IC that I probably sucked at flirting over the weekend. I gave the guy my number, but after I left the party I thought, well, why the hell didn't he ask me for mine. Yeah, he's not going to call, and I confess, it doesn't bother me as much as I thought it would. Strange that. O_o

[ashmamma84]

IC it was so freeing to sunbathe topless on the beach, just like the other women. And the truth is, there were a couple big women doing the same. I kind of nodded and smiled at them as a sign of fat girl solidarity. No one ever snickered or made rude remarks. Just like I've always thought - most everyone is too into themselves and what they're doing to really give a hoot.

However, there were a couple old men, one in particular, who couldn't stop staring. I don't think it was the size of my girls, but I do have large aereolas so that might have been the reason. He even positioned himself in such an awkward way as to not obstruct his view of my boobs. Not sure if his wife was too pleased. :rolleyes: Perve. :p

[Jane]

IC it was so freeing to sunbathe topless on the beach, just like the other women. And the truth is, there were a couple big women doing the same. I kind of nodded and smiled at them as a sign of fat girl solidarity. No one ever snickered or made rude remarks. Just like I've always thought - most everyone is too into themselves and what they're doing to really give a hoot.

However, there were a couple old men, one in particular, who couldn't stop staring. I don't think it was the size of my girls, but I do have large aereolas so that might have been the reason. He even positioned himself in such an awkward way as to not obstruct his view of my boobs. Not sure if his wife was too pleased. :rolleyes: Perve. :p

Sometimes you need a long range water gun to squirt them on the zipper.

[Tooz]

I confess that the other night I had a 2 hour argument with my boyfriend and told him how much I hated him and he was was a horrible person. The bad part is that I was asleep and don't remember a thing. :confused: I don't know where it came from because I love him to pieces, and he's wonderful.

Oh thank God I'm not the only one this happens to.

[exile in thighville]

things i've said in my sleep:

"your normalcy offends me"

"way to play me an album i heard five years ago" (my ex to her roommate at the time: "god he's even pretentious in his sleep")

and my favorite

"IF YOU DRINK THE JUICE I SWEAR I'LL FIND OUT AND KICK YOU OUT OF THE GAME"

and the other day kt told me i was reviewing a record in my sleep

[Tau]

I confess to having a distinctly unhealthy thing for my workaholic, skinny ass, female boss... I dig chicks but never before chicks like her :confused:

[StarWitness]

I confess to being a big ol' BBW stereotype. :rolleyes:

So I was in the supermarket, and I saw boxes of brownie bites on sale, 2/$3... and I've been on a serious brownie kick lately, but my mom's doing South Beach and I don't want to undermine her... so I bought them and hid them in my room. :D

[steely]

I confess to being a big ol' BBW stereotype. :rolleyes:

So I was in the supermarket, and I saw boxes of brownie bites on sale, 2/$3... and I've been on a serious brownie kick lately, but my mom's doing South Beach and I don't want to undermine her... so I bought them and hid them in my room. :D

That was kind. I'm diabetic and my family just puts those boxes of cookies and candy and banana bread out all over the kitchen. It's so hard to resist when it's right in your face. Nice job!! :)

[AshleyEileen]

Oh thank God I'm not the only one this happens to.

He's still mad about it!

[AshleyEileen]

IC that I'm socially retarded when it comes to going to a bar. I don't know what to do or where to start. I'm almost 23 and I've yet to ever order a drink.

[kayrae]

Don't worry... it's not a big deal at all. Are you into sweet mixed drinks? Do you like beer? I recommend the following: mojitos, midori sour, whiskey sour. I usually order margaritas :happy:

[BarbBBW]

I confess to being a big ol' BBW stereotype. :rolleyes:

So I was in the supermarket, and I saw boxes of brownie bites on sale, 2/$3... and I've been on a serious brownie kick lately, but my mom's doing South Beach and I don't want to undermine her... so I bought them and hid them in my room. :D

THIS made me laugh out loud!!!! I have done this also hehehehe

[Punkin1024]

I keep thinking about picking up Cinnamon rolls on my way to work, but hubby has been taking me in, so I don't mention it to him! :rolleyes:

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC I am really missing my Mom right now....I really need to talk to her..:(

[AshleyEileen]

Don't worry... it's not a big deal at all. Are you into sweet mixed drinks? Do you like beer? I recommend the following: mojitos, midori sour, whiskey sour. I usually order margaritas :happy:

I wouldn't know. I've had one drink since I turned 21. It was a berry banana colada. I know I don't like beer though. It reminds me of my rebellious stage when I was 17. I think my problem is that I don't have any friends here to out with. Last night, I was at a random bar watching him play with a friend.

[Cors]

I wouldn't know. I've had one drink since I turned 21. It was a berry banana colada. I know I don't like beer though. It reminds me of my rebellious stage when I was 17. I think my problem is that I don't have any friends here to out with. Last night, I was at a random bar watching him play with a friend.

I don't like beer either and haven't drank much after I turned 18 (legal age here). Do you like girly cocktails? You can barely taste the alcohol and they're pretty enough. You might want to go with the frozen margaritas (I love strawberry) because you can sip them slooowly.

[olwen]

I don't like beer either and haven't drank much after I turned 18 (legal age here). Do you like girly cocktails? You can barely taste the alcohol and they're pretty enough. You might want to go with the frozen margaritas (I love strawberry) because you can sip them slooowly.

One can sip anything slowly. Girly drinks are kinda deceptive tho because you can't taste the alcohol you'd have a tendency to drink them faster and it's harder to gauge how tipsy you are and before you know it you've had 4 of them and then all of a sudden you are well drunk. Better to start with something strong and basic like a vodka cranberry, or a gin and tonic.

IC to once having a beer, sake, and a long island iced tea one after the other and then throwing up on the sidewalk. Never did that again. LOL

[Cors]

One can sip anything slowly. Girly drinks are kinda deceptive tho because you can't taste the alcohol you'd have a tendency to drink them faster and it's harder to gauge how tipsy you are and before you know it you've had 4 of them and then all of a sudden you are well drunk. Better to start with something strong and basic like a vodka cranberry, or a gin and tonic.

IC to once having a beer, sake, and a long island iced tea one after the other and then throwing up on the sidewalk. Never did that again. LOL

That's true Olwen. I personally find the frozen drinks helpful because I get brainfreeze if I drink too fast, and I like how the sweet slush melts on my tongue. I also like how they remain nice and cool even after twenty minutes - I hate warm drinks.

Eeek, thinking of the mixture makes me retch too.

[Punkin1024]

I confess that I'm spending way too much time on Facebook games...but they're so much fun! :doh: :blush: :doh:

[NoraBadora]

I confess that I am dying to find someone to make out with. =X

[steely]

I confess that I'm spending way too much time on Facebook games...but they're so much fun! :doh: :blush: :doh:

*Hangs head in shame.* I know of what you speak.:doh:

[BubbleButtBabe]

I have just found Facebook and I also tend to spend to much time play the games as well..Ladies it is so much fun so don't be to hard on yourself! :D

[IndyGal]

I confess that I haven't been on here for months because the guy I was dating for two years thought I'd meet someone (or something) and leave him...all the while he was seeing someone else.

I also confess that I'm nowhere near as confident as the many women and men on this site about their body image. I'd much rather stay away from people than worry about how I look in someone else's eyes.

[Jane]

I confess that I haven't been on here for months because the guy I was dating for two years thought I'd meet someone (or something) and leave him...all the while he was seeing someone else.

I also confess that I'm nowhere near as confident as the many women and men on this site about their body image. I'd much rather stay away from people than worry about how I look in someone else's eyes.

Lots of times when they are very jealous, YOU have a reason to be.

[Buffie]

things i've said in my sleep:

"your normalcy offends me"

"way to play me an album i heard five years ago" (my ex to her roommate at the time: "god he's even pretentious in his sleep")

and my favorite

"IF YOU DRINK THE JUICE I SWEAR I'LL FIND OUT AND KICK YOU OUT OF THE GAME"

and the other day kt told me i was reviewing a record in my sleep


Is this a "guy" thing because Mr. Buffie talks all sorts of nonsense when he's asleep. It sounds perfectly lucid, the way he strings words together and uses nouns and verbs correctly.

But what he actually says ends up about 10 miles away from making any sense at all.

The one that always comes to mind is from several years ago and I've never forgotten... and this is probably the first time I realized he was a sleep talker, he plainly says to me "your toe is a tub of glass."

:huh:

Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?





I confess ... uhmmmm... there's so many to pick from...

Uhhhh.... iiiiiii confessssssss that sometimes I lie about my political or religious beliefs to avoid having to explain myself to someone I have good cause to suspect is narrow-minded.

And I further confess I probably do this on a weekly basis, if not more.

And I confess additionally that it really feels like a compromise of my ethics to be dishonest, but at the same time, I don't owe these people any personal details and it's out of line for them to ask.

Because I have to deal with many of them on a regular basis, I chose to bend my values in order to have a less stressful working environment.

Yeah. :(

[Green Eyed Fairy]

Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?






My ex didn't talk in his sleep...but he sure as hell snored a lot. I was always grateful for the short bit of silence I usually needed to be able to fall into my heavy sleep and not hear him anymore........

[rainyday]

Uhhhh.... iiiiiii confessssssss that sometimes I lie about my political or religious beliefs to avoid having to explain myself to someone I have good cause to suspect is narrow-minded.

And I further confess I probably do this on a weekly basis, if not more.

And I confess additionally that it really feels like a compromise of my ethics to be dishonest, but at the same time, I don't owe these people any personal details and it's out of line for them to ask.

Because I have to deal with many of them on a regular basis, I chose to bend my values in order to have a less stressful working environment.

Yeah. :(

I confess I do the same thing. Well, I don't lie but often I don't bother volunteering my beliefs because of the stereotyped box people immediately shove you into. Either that or they take it as an opening to tell me why I'm wrong or what's wrong with others who share my beliefs :doh: and it's just not worth the hassle. I think (from what I vaguely, vaguely remember from old posts) that you and I are on opposite political sides (not sure about religion), which makes it kind of funny we're doing the same thing to avoid the same narrow-mindedness.

It does make me laugh though when people just assume because they like me that I share their beliefs and will go off on a rant about people who believe exactly as I do. In that case I sometimes enjoy telling them after a bit just watch their face as the light bulb goes on. The shocked, uncomfortable look when they realize they're staring the "enemy" in the face is pretty amusing. :p

[olwen]

Is this a "guy" thing because Mr. Buffie talks all sorts of nonsense when he's asleep. It sounds perfectly lucid, the way he strings words together and uses nouns and verbs correctly.

But what he actually says ends up about 10 miles away from making any sense at all.

The one that always comes to mind is from several years ago and I've never forgotten... and this is probably the first time I realized he was a sleep talker, he plainly says to me "your toe is a tub of glass."

:huh:

Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?





I confess ... uhmmmm... there's so many to pick from...

Uhhhh.... iiiiiii confessssssss that sometimes I lie about my political or religious beliefs to avoid having to explain myself to someone I have good cause to suspect is narrow-minded.

And I further confess I probably do this on a weekly basis, if not more.

And I confess additionally that it really feels like a compromise of my ethics to be dishonest, but at the same time, I don't owe these people any personal details and it's out of line for them to ask.

Because I have to deal with many of them on a regular basis, I chose to bend my values in order to have a less stressful working environment.

Yeah. :(

Sleep talking...i'm intrigued. Sounds like a fun tread topic for the lounge.

[Jane]

I confess I do the same thing. Well, I don't lie but often I don't bother volunteering my beliefs because of the stereotyped box people immediately shove you into. Either that or they take it as an opening to tell me why I'm wrong or what's wrong with others who share my beliefs :doh: and it's just not worth the hassle. I think (from what I vaguely, vaguely remember from old posts) that you and I are on opposite political sides (not sure about religion), which makes it kind of funny we're doing the same thing to avoid the same narrow-mindedness.

It does make me laugh though when people just assume because they like me that I share their beliefs and will go off on a rant about people who believe exactly as I do. In that case I sometimes enjoy telling them after a bit just watch their face as the light bulb goes on. The shocked, uncomfortable look when they realize they're staring the "enemy" in the face is pretty amusing. :p

Buffie, Rainy, do you want to borrow my "I'm a Liberal, so Bite Me" button? It sure fends off a lot of those conversations you didn't want to have in the first place.

My pseudo-conservative boss was telling me about a waiter at a nearby restaurant. He said I would really like the guy, but he had straightened him out when he was in the restaurant that day. I looked at him and said, "Then he went in the kitchen, where you couldn't see, and got your food." I love that shade of green.

[Tooz]

often I don't bother volunteering my beliefs because of the stereotyped box people immediately shove you into.

Good Lord, THIS.

I hate to bring anything up because it just seems that someone such as myself (ever-so-slightly right of center on government size, quite left in views on immigrants/foreign cultures present in the US) gets branded in highly innacurate ways. :\

[Crystal]

Is this a "guy" thing because Mr. Buffie talks all sorts of nonsense when he's asleep. It sounds perfectly lucid, the way he strings words together and uses nouns and verbs correctly.

But what he actually says ends up about 10 miles away from making any sense at all.

The one that always comes to mind is from several years ago and I've never forgotten... and this is probably the first time I realized he was a sleep talker, he plainly says to me "your toe is a tub of glass."

:huh:

Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?





I confess ... uhmmmm... there's so many to pick from...

Uhhhh.... iiiiiii confessssssss that sometimes I lie about my political or religious beliefs to avoid having to explain myself to someone I have good cause to suspect is narrow-minded.

And I further confess I probably do this on a weekly basis, if not more.

And I confess additionally that it really feels like a compromise of my ethics to be dishonest, but at the same time, I don't owe these people any personal details and it's out of line for them to ask.

Because I have to deal with many of them on a regular basis, I chose to bend my values in order to have a less stressful working environment.

Yeah. :(


Absolutely. An old friend of mine once, when we were sleeping in bed together, sat up on his elbow and said, "You know...I was in the 3rd grade." And then quietly rolled over and went back to sleep.

Quite plainly, no mumbling. And he said it as if I was a complete idiot. It made me laugh for days later.

Oh and...the same person would sleep on his stomach sometimes. Occasionally, his knees would bend and feet would go up into the air. But, because he was asleep, he obviously couldn't keep them up, so they would keep falling over onto me. When they'd fall over, he'd put them right back up in the air until I placed my hand on them and lowered them back onto the bed.

...we all do strange things when we're sleeping. I think that's pretty much unanimous. :)

[Tau]

I
Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?


I do this :blush: I talk, I laugh, I hit people, I swear, I cry, I sing. There was a time I woke up eating a packet of biscuits and i don't remember getting up to fetch them. Most of my friends refuse to share a bed with me - I'm always the one banished to the single bed during sleepovers - unless its cold and they want to cuddle :p

[Tau]

IC my boyfriend wet my bed last night :/

On purpose? :p

[Tau]

I confess I'm seriously horny and there isn't anybody even vaguely shaggable on the horizon :rolleyes:

[NoraBadora]

I confess I've been browsing craigslist ads looking for dates. >.>

[rainyday]

Buffie, Rainy, do you want to borrow my "I'm a Liberal, so Bite Me" button? It sure fends off a lot of those conversations you didn't want to have in the first place.

Everyone here is liberal so they'd just wonder why I was being hostile about something so normal lol. I guess I need an "I'm part conservative/part libertarian so bite me!" button. I think you and I are both ducks out of water in each of our geographic locations.

[Tooz]

Everyone here is liberal so they'd just wonder why I was being hostile about something so normal lol. I guess I need an "I'm part conservative/part libertarian so bite me!" button. I think you and I are both ducks out of water in each of our geographic locations.

The thing I find the most is that people simply cannot respect the views of others. I go somewhat frequently to gatherings of otherwise very open-minded people (people I feel comfortable hiking my dress up in front of to show my tattoo!) who shut down like a stone tower when it comes to these kinds of things. :\

[rainyday]

The thing I find the most is that people simply cannot respect the views of others. I go somewhat frequently to gatherings of otherwise very open-minded people (people I feel comfortable hiking my dress up in front of to show my tattoo!) who shut down like a stone tower when it comes to these kinds of things. :\

Yup. Yup. Yup. Can't say more without Hyde Park-ing.

[Cors]

*snip*

Ladies, do your men do this? Do YOU do this?


My partner does! Sometimes he kicks and fight me for the blanket too, ugh. He mostly mumbles in Danish (his first language), but once in a while I make out phrases like "FIVE MORE FUCKING MINUTES" or "I AM AWAKE NOW ZZZZZZZ".

[Jane]

Everyone here is liberal so they'd just wonder why I was being hostile about something so normal lol. I guess I need an "I'm part conservative/part libertarian so bite me!" button. I think you and I are both ducks out of water in each of our geographic locations.

I wasn't liberal enough for Oregon.

As I tell my friends here, when I say I'm a liberal, it's with the assumed "for Oklahoma."

[Jane]

Absolutely. An old friend of mine once, when we were sleeping in bed together, sat up on his elbow and said, "You know...I was in the 3rd grade." And then quietly rolled over and went back to sleep.

Quite plainly, no mumbling. And he said it as if I was a complete idiot. It made me laugh for days later.

Oh and...the same person would sleep on his stomach sometimes. Occasionally, his knees would bend and feet would go up into the air. But, because he was asleep, he obviously couldn't keep them up, so they would keep falling over onto me. When they'd fall over, he'd put them right back up in the air until I placed my hand on them and lowered them back onto the bed.

...we all do strange things when we're sleeping. I think that's pretty much unanimous. :)

I woke up in the middle of the night last night, freezing. I looked all around for my comforter...not on the left side of the bed, not on the right, not off the end. I looked twice in each place, turned around, and evidently I had made it into a pillow sometime in the night. Whole comforter scrunched up under my head. Sheesh.

[Buffie]

I confess I do the same thing. Well, I don't lie but often I don't bother volunteering my beliefs because of the stereotyped box people immediately shove you into. Either that or they take it as an opening to tell me why I'm wrong or what's wrong with others who share my beliefs :doh: and it's just not worth the hassle. I think (from what I vaguely, vaguely remember from old posts) that you and I are on opposite political sides (not sure about religion), which makes it kind of funny we're doing the same thing to avoid the same narrow-mindedness.

It does make me laugh though when people just assume because they like me that I share their beliefs and will go off on a rant about people who believe exactly as I do. In that case I sometimes enjoy telling them after a bit just watch their face as the light bulb goes on. The shocked, uncomfortable look when they realize they're staring the "enemy" in the face is pretty amusing. :p

I out-right lie if I'm really cornered, but I do try to avoid first. I think we actually lean the same-way-ish? I don't remember either, my apologies.

Issues are more my thing. I'm too confused to have a real party affiliation. Literally all over the place...

Totally know what you mean about people assuming you think the same. This girl who is a total-self-fat-hater always talks to me as if I hate myself as much as she hates herself. I used to ignore this from her, but now I constantly have to correct her. SO annoying.




Sleep talking...i'm intrigued. Sounds like a fun tread topic for the lounge.

It does it does. Goooo for it. I will totally share some of Mr. Buffie's sleep-babble nuggets. There have been more than a few.




Buffie, Rainy, do you want to borrow my "I'm a Liberal, so Bite Me" button? It sure fends off a lot of those conversations you didn't want to have in the first place.

My pseudo-conservative boss was telling me about a waiter at a nearby restaurant. He said I would really like the guy, but he had straightened him out when he was in the restaurant that day. I looked at him and said, "Then he went in the kitchen, where you couldn't see, and got your food." I love that shade of green.

Fun button! Do you ever look at the buttons here? One Horse Shy (http://www.onehorseshy.com/political/)

I really like the fortune cookie tees. And the owls... Who? WHOM!
:D

[Tania]

I confess that I sleep-talk. I also confess that almost everybody I've ever shared a bed with did/does, too. My personal favorite was, "I'm dreaming that you and I are lying in bed talking about Burt Reynolds' mustache."

I confess that the 1994 midterm elections scarred me for life.

I confess that I have a huge necrophilic crush on James Madison.

I confess that I really like the Tony DeSare cover of "Bizarre Love Triangle."

[Punkin1024]

My hubby is a sleep talker too! The conversations I remember most are usually him giving directions about moving things. It is funny! I have noticed that he only does this when he is very anxious or feeling pressure about something. He snores too, but so do I! He's told me he has heard me crying and singing in my sleep. Again, usually when I'm stressed out about something.

[olwen]

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It does it does. Goooo for it. I will totally share some of Mr. Buffie's sleep-babble nuggets. There have been more than a few.

Fun button! Do you ever look at the buttons here? One Horse Shy (http://www.onehorseshy.com/political/)

I really like the fortune cookie tees. And the owls... Who? WHOM!
:D

started a sleep talking (http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=62581) thread in the lounge.

IC I like that site, especially the gunsliger graphic and I really like that that shirt goes up to a size 32.

[Tania]

I confess that I have been listening to this song constantly for the last two hours on iTunes. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmH3_TbfHaA

[Keb]

IC that I know I need to tell the guy I've been dating that I can't see him anymore because of the smoking, but I'm terrified that it'll be another 29 years before I get anymore kisses and cuddles.

[Green Eyed Fairy]

IC that I know I need to tell the guy I've been dating that I can't see him anymore because of the smoking, but I'm terrified that it'll be another 29 years before I get anymore kisses and cuddles.


Have you mentioned how much it bothers you?

[Keb]

Yeah, he knew, and when I said it was a dealbreaker for me after the first date, he offered not to smoke around me. He didn't keep his word, and every time he'd apologize...but it's pretty clear he values smoking above being with me.

[Green Eyed Fairy]

Yeah, he knew, and when I said it was a dealbreaker for me after the first date, he offered not to smoke around me. He didn't keep his word, and every time he'd apologize...but it's pretty clear he values smoking above being with me.

Oh yeah....I can see your point there. If he can't keep his word about something that important to you, then he will easily break it about other things, too.

[olwen]

Yeah, he knew, and when I said it was a dealbreaker for me after the first date, he offered not to smoke around me. He didn't keep his word, and every time he'd apologize...but it's pretty clear he values smoking above being with me.

Keb that sucks. He shouldn't be smoking around you if you don't like it. At the same time, it is insanely difficult to quit. It's so not your responsibility, but have you offered to help him quit?

[Keb]

I don't think he wants to, really. And anyways, there are other signs the relationship isn't going where I wanted it to. I'm just very sad about it. And scared that it'll be a very long time before I have someone else.

[olwen]

I don't think he wants to, really. And anyways, there are other signs the relationship isn't going where I wanted it to. I'm just very sad about it. And scared that it'll be a very long time before I have someone else.

It's totally not worth it to be miserable all the time. I'd rather be alone than be with someone who pisses me off all the time. Keb there are other guys out there.

[Green Eyed Fairy]

It's totally not worth it to be miserable all the time. I'd rather be alone than be with someone who pisses me off all the time. Keb there are other guys out there.

This is the truth..........all of it. It does seem best to move on if he cannot respect your feelings and thinks telling you what you want to hear is enough...it goes beyond the smoking.

Think of it this way....what if you missed the kind of guy that you really want all because you stayed with this one? How would that make you feel?

[Keb]

Yeah, I know what you mean, GEF. It's just hard to deal with.

[kayrae]

IC this smoking thing reminds me of Sex and the City... Aidan didn't want to date Carrie because she was a smoker...

[Punkin1024]

IC it's that time of the month and I am so wanting chocolate! I finally sweet talked my hubby into making some brownies - they sure are good. I'm having a hard time keeping from eating too many of them! :rolleyes:

[Jane]

I watched the Sex in the City movie tonight for the first time.

I finally figured out what I am: An Emotional Cutter

[Tania]

I confess that I post a lot of meaningless shit to the BBW Confessions thread.

I also confess that I feel really, really emotionally fragile right now.

[b0nnie]

IC that when my son is with me HE is the boss of my fashion choices. He tells me when he thinks my shirts are too low cut, or when he thinks that my skirt is too short, or even that I don't match:doh:, and oh, yeah...did I mention that he's only seven and a half.

[lemonadebrigade]

I confess that I watched The Lion King last night and cried my eyes out.

[Crystal]

IC that yesterday, I was shopping at the Outlet Malls with my aunt and 12 year old cousin.

We were in Rue 21 and she was finding some cute outfits for school. We were standing in the fitting room hall (we weren't allowed in the actual fitting room), and we saw this 16 year old girl come out and tell her mom that the shirt made her look fat. She was probably a size 12, which in that store, is pretty large.

I looked at her and said, "Sweetheart. I think that shirt makes you look absolutely fabulous. It compliments the highlights in your hair and it makes your bust look amazing."

She bought the shirt. :)

[Teleute]

Crystal, that's awesome :happy:

[BubbleButtBabe]

IC I am having more senior moments lately..

[olwen]

IC that Cary Grant is my new favorite actor of all time.

[steely]

IC I am having more senior moments lately..

I'd like to confess this, too. I'm going to be 41, I thought it would hold off a little longer.;)

[Punkin1024]

Aww, go ahead Steely, saying the phrase "I'm having a Senior moment" is so liberating! :D

[BubbleButtBabe]

Maybe a little to liberating....lol :D

IC I ate a whopper tonight with extra everything and it was good!!

[Tania]

I confess that I suspect I am somebody's secret/fish on the line. I'm devastated.

[rainyday]

Heh, Bubblebutt. I confess that I now want a Whopper.

[OneWickedAngel]

IC I think I might be ready to fall in love again.

[Tooz]

IC I think I might be ready to fall in love again.

With me, right?! :smitten:

[steely]

I confess I trusted blindly, I should know better.:doh:

[OneWickedAngel]

With me, right?! :smitten:

LOL! But of course!:D:wubu:

[Keb]

IC that those new Angus burgers at McDonald's are actually pretty yummy. (Mushroom and swiss...mmmm!)

[KaliCurves]

IC I really only sleep well when he is here. I hate these long nites with little sleep.:(

[BubbleButtBabe]

Heh, Bubblebutt. I confess that I now want a Whopper.

Sorry Rainy,I haven't had one in months...It was gooooooddd...

[Punkin1024]

IC I'm very sleepy, but I just had to pop in here for a bit to see what my BBW friends where up to! :D :happy:

[butch]

Sounds like you could use some hugs, (((((((((((Tania))))))))))))). Hope you're feeling better soon.

[Tracyarts]

I confess that I am going to blow off at least half of the artsy-craftsy, sewing, and household organizational projects I had planned to work on while Dear Husband is out of town; and probably spend my time being absolutely lazy and unproductive instead.

Tracy

[Sweet Tooth]

I have someone in my life that has appointed herself the health guru for everyone in her little circle of influence.

I'm really getting sick of it. I can name twenty serious life issues she needs to focus on in her own life, but she doesn't want to deal with those things.

She's not my savior or my rescuer. I'm tired of this person thinking she knows why I don't want to suddenly go for a walk tonight [uh, I'm exhausted from the stronger-than-multiple-Benadryl drugs I'm on for serious hives and I have to get ready to go on a work retreat in the morning], and why I get annoyed at her for being all blowing off her "need" to get me moving more [her words, not mine]. She doesn't get that it's less about the exercise and more about her.

And, really, you can't say anything without it being misunderstood or seen as deflecting or whatever. Ugh.

[msbard90]

i confess that i want a tattoo, even though I am the one always protesting others getting theirs... uh oh :D

[Keb]

IC I'm spending entirely too much time reading the FA forum.

[Weeze]

I confess that since we do not have a private bbw forum, i'm going to start bitching about feminine products and not give a shit who sees it.

THEY NEED TO MAKE PADS LONGER.
The length of my underside IS BIGGER THAN THAT.
STOP LETTING MY PANTIES GET RUINED, ALWAYS.
am I the only one that doesn't want to move them around so I can put 2 together, because then they go up TOO far on either side and it's awkward.

It's just bad. Bad. Bad.


Also. I met a guy on okcupid and I have to be honest, I am freaked to hell about the fact that I DON'T KNOW HE LIKES FAT GIRLS. I feel like I shouldn't worry about that, but at the same time.... even FA's have a "hard time" actually going out with fat girls, so what in HELL does that say for going out with someone who might not be? He wants to get dinner (found me on okcupid) and I'm nervous as all hell.
If guys who like SPECIFICALLY fat girls have a struggle... what's a guy who doesn't going to do?

[Crystal]

I confess that since we do not have a private bbw forum, i'm going to start bitching about feminine products and not give a shit who sees it.

THEY NEED TO MAKE PADS LONGER.
The length of my underside IS BIGGER THAN THAT.
STOP LETTING MY PANTIES GET RUINED, ALWAYS.
am I the only one that doesn't want to move them around so I can put 2 together, because then they go up TOO far on either side and it's awkward.

It's just bad. Bad. Bad.

Gah, I used to have such problems with this. I now buy "Extra Long" pads from Kotex. They work wonders and they are definitely long enough in both the front and back.

I use these. They're medium coverage, but they also have Extra Long in super coverage.
http://www.kotex.com/na/UltraThinRegular.aspx


Also. I met a guy on okcupid and I have to be honest, I am freaked to hell about the fact that I DON'T KNOW HE LIKES FAT GIRLS. I feel like I shouldn't worry about that, but at the same time.... even FA's have a "hard time" actually going out with fat girls, so what in HELL does that say for going out with someone who might not be? He wants to get dinner (found me on okcupid) and I'm nervous as all hell.
If guys who like SPECIFICALLY fat girls have a struggle... what's a guy who doesn't going to do?

I know exactly what you mean. I always think, "Should I mention something about being fat? Should I warn him? I probably should, but then...why? Should it matter that I'm fat, it doesn't define who I am." It's such a back and forth with me. I usually end up hinting around at it, hoping he'll get the hint. I also have a couple full body shot pics on Okcupid so that they can see for themselves. And if that isn't enough, in my profile, I mention being a BBW. I want to make damn sure that if they hate fat girls, they won't contact me.

Go have dinner, darling! I know you must be nervous, and I'm not going to be silly and tell you not to be. But, I WILL say that if he doesn't like fat girls, it'll be pretty clear during your date and then you can chalk it up to practice for when you DO find the right guy. :)

[katorade]

I confess that since we do not have a private bbw forum, i'm going to start bitching about feminine products and not give a shit who sees it.

THEY NEED TO MAKE PADS LONGER.
The length of my underside IS BIGGER THAN THAT.
STOP LETTING MY PANTIES GET RUINED, ALWAYS.
am I the only one that doesn't want to move them around so I can put 2 together, because then they go up TOO far on either side and it's awkward.

It's just bad. Bad. Bad.




Yes! Always Infinity Overnights are your friend.

[Tracyarts]

" am I the only one that doesn't want to move them around so I can put 2 together, because then they go up TOO far on either side and it's awkward. "

No, you're not the only one by far.

Not every day can be a tampon day, and when I need a pad instead I make due with the overnights. I used to get these super thin but super absorbant tiny little mini pads (folded up in their wrapper they weren't much larger than a condom wrapper) and just kind of patchwork about four or five of them to make the perfect size/shape pad. But that got really expensive and I can't find them anymore.

Tracy

[MisticalMisty]

Always makes pads for sizes 14 +. I can normally only find them at Wal-greens..but I find them and they work well for me.

[Green Eyed Fairy]

I luvs....all the women of this board........so much...........:wubu:

I decided to splurge and treat everyone to maxi pads :D
http://www.buythecase.net/uploads/products/200/3700038600.jpg

[thatgirl08]

I have to second the suggestion for Always Infinity.. I can't believe how well they worked. More expensive, but worth it, IMO.

[mossystate]

Always also has great panty liners. The best ones were a store brand...something like Western Family. My hoo nodded and gave me the thumbs-up over those. I am not a fan of hair meeting sticky pad edges. Just sayin.

[thatgirl08]

Always also has great panty liners. The best ones were a store brand...something like Western Family. My hoo nodded and gave me the thumbs-up over those. I am not a fan of hair meeting sticky pad edges. Just sayin.

I use Always panty liners as well.. the 14+ ones generally although the normal ones can be fine too. Love them.