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Old 05-05-2009, 01:50 PM   #37
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IC that while Im really happy for my cousin that shes found a really great boyfriend, Im still frustrated that it didnt happen until after she lost a lot of weight. I just dont know if I should be frustrated at my gender for ignoring what a gorgeous and wonderful young woman she already was, or frustrated with her for not really looking for guys back then.

Or maybe with myself for not somehow communicating the concept of FAs to her (beyond showing how smitten I was with my BBWife).

She seems happy, so Im happy for her, but it irks me that shes another story of I was fat and sat at home every night, then I lost a lot of weight and met a great guy who treats me well. Which helps reinforce the stereotypes that fat girls don't get the nice guys.
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