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Old 05-11-2009, 10:39 PM   #18
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Originally Posted by bexy View Post
In reference to the bolded part, I just wondered is this really the case? I have been out with a number of people who only fancy/date fat girls, and am now engaged to one! But I have never, ever known any of them to "come out". I think it's strange to think that a preference would have to be explained like this....am I missing the point?
It really does intrigue me that anyone would feel the need to "come out" about fancying fat people. Can anyone enlighten me a little? Am I just being naive? I just think it's a bit, I dunno, over the top maybe? To have to actually go "Mum, Dad, I like fatties..."

Not trying to be negative in any way, just wondering if it really is the case and why people feel the need to do it?

Thanks for replies in advance, I really do want to understand this more.

The degree to which one needs to come out is the degree to which one was shamed in to the closet in the first place. Your mileage may vary.

In my experience it wasn't always easy being an FA, but the best way to develop poise is to be knocked around a bit.

Heh.. there's also the fact that making your preference known means you're far more likely to get set up with a girl you're actually attracted to.

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