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Old 10-31-2009, 08:36 PM   #59
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Originally Posted by nottobig View Post
I dated a woman, a bit plump, but with an absolutely sexy large hips. As you might suppose from the way I said that, I thought she was hot, and her figure magnificent.

She informed me she was planning to have lipo on her hips, butt, etc. and how much she was looking forward to being "normal". I found this bothered me greatly, and stopped dating her.

Refecting on it, it was not that I felt my opinion should count, but more that she hated a physical feature that I liked so much. The contrast in value/opinion was much bigger (pardon the pun) than the physical issue.

I think it is something that I would handle better today, but it would probably still break the relationship. Of course, we had been dating for a while but not engaged or married, so those relationship bonds were not so strong.
I am only wondering, since the post does not say, did you let your GF know that you loved her hips and she was the kind of "normal" you wanted? I'm not saying that would have changed her mind, since once a person hates something about themselves, it takes a near miracle to change her/his mind, but it may have had some effect.
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