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Old 01-17-2010, 10:36 AM   #65
joswitch
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@rainyday... Imagine some bloke dropped by a thread on body issues in the BBW board and told all BBWs with self-loathing/fat-hating/body issues that they should remain celibate because their feelings and attitudes were like a "communicable disease" which would "splatter" any prospective partner... Imagine the hurricane force shitstorm that would ensue in response to the arrogance of that... That's equivalent to what you just did here! (and it IS painful/sad/soul destroying to love someone who loathes herself, btw... But wtf, we're adults and we're none of us perfect and love ain't all roses, so we try...) @James - yes absolutely it's better for neophyte FAs to work this stuff out on here than in a relationship... But we all make mistakes (and hopefully learn from them) in our relationships... And letting people tell struggling FAs they are "diseased" isn't going to help them come out of the closet! Or make them feel ok about sharing their feelings on here..
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