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Old 02-05-2010, 04:08 AM   #36
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Originally Posted by chubby_tgirl View Post
I am Trans Gendered. Never heard the term "Bi Gendered". That is an interesting term. I guess it applies like Bi sexual. I am a M to F TG that is growing breasts and wears fem cloths even when i am in "guy" mode. I have the mind of a woman and body of a guy. Being TG is not easy. I am open with it but don't push it on anyone. I have lost friends and gained friends for being what i am.
Hey chubby tgirl. Thinking about it, most of the queer people i know have at some point (usually when they are just coming out or at school etc) have both lost and gained friends. I think in some ways this is actually a fortunate thing because it means we can cut the crap out of our lives from the start.
I often wondered when people said they 'had the brain of x gender and the body of the other" -what it was that made them know. I guess, i thought about being both x and y in the brain but that would mainly relate to stereoyped behaviours of either gender. I think for some it even goes as far as wanting to have genitals of the opposite gender. (which i know is different from needing to re-align your body).
If gender is socially constructed, I wonder if it is social cues that make you realise you are in the wrong body. Or is it the body alone that feels wrong?. Or a bit of both?
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