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Old 10-15-2012, 02:20 PM   #6
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I remember when I was strictly feeder, the last thing I wanted was to add lbs. that could have gone to a feedee gf. My mentality at the time was that fat was feminine, as IMO people paid to go to bbw clubs not bhm clubs.
I experienced a tweak of an 'inner fatty' from an ssbbw who was a budding ffa, but by the time it manifested; the relationship failed due to my other mistakes.
As a result, I had that 'inner fatty' submerge, as my employment with its active lifestyle compounded that. Years later, with different employment (in which gaining would not be a job/safety risk) and meeting another ssbbw with ffa tendencies; I made the switch from strictly feeder to mutual gainer.
It took time, as it unlocked those inner feelings of wanting to balloon together with someone, since I was 10 yrs old (due to family, societal pressures and ssbbws I dated preferring thin men at that time, I would subconsciously submerge the 'inner fatty' before it could take hold).

I know there is a stereotype that frustrated feeders with no one to feed, tend to take it out on themselves, though in my case; I was a closeted feedee who needed a growing ssbbw to bring it out.
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