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Old 05-16-2013, 08:19 AM   #26
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Originally Posted by tankyguy View Post
Sort of a rant, sort of thinking out loud.

Lately I've been wondering just how many FFAs there actually are.

Granted I'm a somewhat introverted guy, but I've only met one girl in person who identified herself as liking bigger guys in my 32 years.

To me, they seem very rare and almost mythical, like the Loch Ness Monster or evidence of intelligent extra terrestrial life. I thought that I had found a second FFA once, but she turned out to be just a crashed weather balloon.

Just going by these forums, there seems to be way fewer of them than male FAs. I know a number of guys in person who favor, or at least are sometimes attracted to, curvier or larger than 'average' women.

And there's definitely fewer FFAs than BHM here. All the more special and lucky when a couple hooks up, I guess.

Yes, that's been my experience too. I've met quite a few ladies who like the idea of their BF/SO being bigger than they are (I've been told that it makes them feel feminine). However, these women aren't really attracted to fat guys -- just big guys -- and they would gladly date smaller guys if they lost weight. One of the primary reasons a close friend of mine had MLS was to increase the size of her dating pool (she really didn't like dating guys that weighed less than her). At 190lbs she had -- in her mind -- a lot more options than she did at 360 (she married a guy who weighs about 220).

Also, as someone who has been both fat and reasonably thin, its been my experience that fat guys get very little action. There are always exceptions of course but for the most part fat guys are at best ignored by single women. Ironically this is especially true at BBW events.

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Originally Posted by BigChaz View Post
You are thinking about it backwards. The world is full of FFAs, also known as women. Women can be seduced with more than just a big belly. Confidence, attitude, being interesting, etc make any woman a potential "FFA" and by that I mean a girl who thinks you are sexy.

Here is my post for this thread. I wish fat dudes would stop coming to this forum to complain about the lack of women out there into fat guts.
If you're one of the lucky few fat guys who is able to seduce women regardless of your looks I truly happy for you. Unfortunately a lot of us are not so fortunate. If I had to rely upon by personality to attract women I'd still be a virgin. I don't think I've ever convinced a women to consider me romantically if she hadn't found me at least moderately attractive from the get go.
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