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Old 01-14-2015, 08:22 PM   #24
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Originally Posted by choudhury View Post

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But if, by "fetish," we simply mean, a specific pre-requisite for sexual arousal, then gosh, I'm actually not a "fat fetishist." I've gotten hot and heavy with a couple of relatively thin ladies in my time, and arousal wasn't a problem, although they weren't my preferred type. Once you're getting intimate, a lot of other sensual factors come into and have the desired effect.
I too have been with a couple of thin women and arousal wasn't a problem. Good thing to since my wife is now under 175 pounds.

I've always been physically attracted to large women but there have been quite a few smaller women who have turned my head over the years. However, the smaller women never seemed interested in me so I pretty much stuck with BBWs.



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Yet saying all of that doesn't do full justice to the extent to which I am wired to lust after BBWs. Are you kidding? Out in public, the only women I'll look at "in that way" are BBWs. When I look at porn, it's BBWs. In my head, it's BBWs. And no, this was in no way a choice - why would I "choose" an orientation that throws me outside the mainstream? Geez, in the pre-internet era, even finding BBW porn was a chore. A lot of frustration and isolation accompanied this "preference."

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I've lusted after mostly BBWs but more and more I find myself attracted to thin women too. So if its a hardwired preference can it change over time?
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