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Old 01-24-2015, 11:30 AM   #45
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Originally Posted by magodamilion View Post
So how'd you manage to get an active dating life then? It sounds like you're essentially in the same boat as me. I'm asking in genuine curiosity because I'm not sure what to do really.

Lately I've hit on so many BHM guys in bars and it never goes anywhere. They rarely even give me their numbers. Someone needs to develop some type of Pick Up Artist advice directed at women because no one ever seems to consider the problem of women who have no game at all. I'm nice and I give specific compliments not generic ones. I don't get what these guys issue is. I don't think it's insecurity like you all on here assume. There's a lot of diversity within the BHM population. They're not all skittish insecure people most of them are absurdly picky and I have no idea what they're looking for.
Fat guys are no more a monolith than women are. They aren't all looking for the same thing. You have to get to know each one you talk to individually to find that out. You just talk to them like you would talk to anyone and if you have a rapport, then ask if they want to go out some time. They will either say yes or now. Doesn't seem that hard to me.
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