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Old 02-13-2015, 02:00 AM   #8
phelan4022
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As a guy coming into a similar situation, where my partner needed or even just wanted to lose weight, I have chosen and will continue to choose to be supportive. Because it's her life. Because it's her body. Because it's her happiness. Because seeing her happy makes me happy. Because confidence truly is one of the sexiest things another person can possess. Because I made that choice for myself when my partner liked me being big and I have never been happier even though she is long in my past.

If you want it, if you need it, do it. I understand the excitement of the gradual growth of a woman's body because that's life sometimes. I understand the excitement when it is intentional. I also understand that if physical attraction is the sole reason I love and am with someone, I need some serious help and I have no right to be in a relationship.

My significant other is on a journey to finding her own happiness right now. Part of that journey has been and will continue include losing weight. But I love her and my attraction to her body is only one small facet of that love.

Love yourself first.
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