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Old 07-27-2015, 02:17 PM   #1
SvenskFA
 
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Default When the wife diets successfully

I met my wife 7 years ago. She was 363 lbs back then. She lost down to 332 to easier get pregnant and after 2 babies she was at 286 lbs. As a FA i prefered her bigger but our overall life was better at this weight and our sex life was still good.

But this january she started a rather radical diet supervised by the hospital. I suspected I would be bothered by this but I never thought I would be this devastated about it. Our sex life has completely died and now that she is down to 210 lbs I don't find her sexy.

I love her as much as always but I don't know how to get our intimacy going again. This is a very big problem for me and advice like "love will find a way" isn't helping. If I could shut my FA-ness off everything would be fine but since that isn't possible I need another way.

I would really apreciate advice from other FAs who have dealt with this.
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