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Old 08-02-2015, 01:09 PM   #39
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Originally Posted by lucca23v2 View Post
So let's say when you get married you are both sexually compatible. Lets say through the years it changes because of kids, health issues. meds. whatever.. does that mean that you now check out if the marriage because the sexual component is not there because of health issues? It just seems selfish to mm.. That person is only interested in their own needs being met. call me crazy, but I thought being in love meant that you care for the other persons needs as much as your own needs. If you are leaving a marriage because one (1) need isn't being meant the way you want it met, then it is not a marriage.

But getting back to the OP's original thought/post.... I think you may want to discuss things with her and maybe the both of you should go to counseling and see if something can be worked out. It can't hurt to try. If it can't, then the both of you can decided where to go from there.
All of this, so totally all of this ^^^^^^^

One more thought for the OP: do you think you have a preference for a ssbbw partner, and the degree of change was just too much to take in, or do you think you have more of a fetish, where a lot of fat is simply necessary for your sexual functioning, period? For example, if you'd met your wife at her current weight, back in the day, and she'd invited you to.bed, do you think you could have performed back then?

And even one more thoigbt;: you are sure you have no health issues that could be hurting hour sexual functioning?
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