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Old 05-22-2016, 05:57 AM   #20
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Originally Posted by squeezablysoft View Post
There is also a difference between how fat ppl get treated online where more F/FA's are "out" vs how they get treated in day-to-day meatspace. I think maybe the idea of BBWs having all these admirers throwing themselves at them is mostly an internet phenomenon, next time you are at the mall count how many slim couples vs BBW/BHM couples vs BBW/slim guy couples vs BHM/slim lady couples you see. It's also worth noting that women tend to gain weight with childbearing, so just because you see a BBW with a man, doesn't mean he initially hooked up with a fat girl.

I think there just aren't as many FAs/FFAs as I would like there to be, rather than how out FAs are. At Dims I am sure it sounds like we are obsessed with chasing fat people. But go to a mainstream website and almost all comments about fat people will be condemning them or sound like jokes. It is now much more common to see couple with a fat person than ever. Though probably because the population is becoming overweight. Most BBWs I have talked to in real life either have never met a FA or only met a few that they know of.

Kind of a funny observation, since I have started dating since my divorce, when I post pictures of the girl I am dating on social media, it's mostly BBWs who have been liking the pictures, of the people on my friends list. Some of them know I am a FA from outright asking me, others I think guess. I, in general, don't flirt with other women while in a relationship, but went I am present with a group of people I do go out of my way to be chatty with BBWs. That or they notice my ex-wife and girlfriend BBWs and the people I know guess or assume I am a FA.
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