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Old 01-31-2017, 03:31 PM   #64
TwoSwords
 
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Originally Posted by happily_married View Post
It's quite simple for me: I value the person above a given height and weight. Sure, I have a preference for height and weight like anyone else but I don't define my wife by these numbers. There's a complete person there just under her skin!
Umm... I'm afraid I must not have expressed this well enough. See, I value deeper qualities too (ethics, abilities, commitments, etc,)... on a non-emotional level. Yes, I recognize, consciously, the hierarchy of what traits are most important for a person to have, but it never has any effect on my emotional state at all. That was what I meant when I said that my feelings weren't malleable in that sense.
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