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Old 02-04-2017, 08:58 PM   #3
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Originally Posted by rabbitislove View Post
FFAs: Have you noticed that when you talk about being an FFA that women and men respond differently to you? Does one group respond more positively or negatively? Have you dealt with anger and internalized self loathing from BHM you have dated in the past?

BHMs: Were you automatically accepting of FFAs you met or did you struggle to accept that FFAs do exist living in a fatphobic culture? What would you want FFAs to know before dating a BHM?
Pretty much all the men I've told have responded very positively. Even the non-BHMs I've "rejected" seemed happy to know that such a preference exists in the world. The women's reactions have been more varied. Some have delightedly confessed the same attraction, or something similarly unconventional. Others were nice, but made no effort to hide their disappointment that I couldn't relate to all the mainstream ogling.

As for the other question.... yes. Most people would like you to not-mind the larger body types. But actually being attracted to something that we're socialised to be averse to; and something that's implicated in so many health issues... that can be hard to understand. Even for a partner who longs to be found attractive.
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