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Old 02-20-2017, 04:26 PM   #22
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Originally Posted by rabbitislove View Post
BHMs: Were you automatically accepting of FFAs you met or did you struggle to accept that FFAs do exist living in a fatphobic culture? What would you want FFAs to know before dating a BHM?
I accepted it immediately but I suffered a lot of emotional damage due to growing up fat so it wasn't really the dream come true it should've been. I lurked off and on for over 3 years before posting because I still felt grotesque. And even after receiving positive attention from people I was really attracted to it still took me over a year to get past my issues and be in a place where I could feel attractive and pursue a relationship.
The only thing I would say is to be mindful of the fact that someone might be far more traumatized than they appear and try to be empathetic, but really, that's a good thing to keep in mind when dealing with anyone.


And if anyone thinks I didn't reply sooner because I wanted to get the last word, well, you've been paying attention.
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