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Old 05-21-2017, 11:44 AM   #45
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Originally Posted by fuelingfire View Post
There is. For proper framing, I weightlift and we have had many discussions about it, I stay on the weaker side grip strength, as not actually hurting her especially in hyoid and carotid artery area. I need her to tell me how hard, both for what she wants and for her safety.

I love that I can help her fulfill her fantasies. Discussing what both of us really want is an amazing part of our relationship. She is probably the most body/size positive person I have ever met, in real life. She has returned the favor by doing things and being completely cool about it, that my past relationships would make me feel like a deviant for just talking about.

I look at it like I am doing what makes my partner happy, because I like having a happy partner.
Trust is always an element needed, whether the play includes asphyxia or light spanking. Without it, how can you be with someone?
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