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Old 07-31-2017, 03:29 PM   #3
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I agree with Tad: find a way to deal with this yourself so that you don't do damage that may take a lot of time to repair. If your wife is far from a BBW and always has been since you've been together, if you go telling her you prefer something she's not, look out!

Look for a way to rekindle the attraction that brought you to her to start with. Go back and reminisce on the good times you had early on and all things about those moments that made them so special. Don't throw that away just because a preference for BBWs has emerged. Do what you need to do internally to work this out. It would be far better than raising the issue with her and potentially damaging your relationship.

Best wishes to you.
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