Thread: I can't commit!
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Old 08-03-2017, 08:09 PM   #14
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Default know thyself

Getting married to or in any way committing yourself to someone because you feel that you HAVE to is absolutely the wrong reason to do so. Entering into such an endeavor should be done because you know with every fiber of your being that it's exactly what you want to do. Anything less and you're bound to just end up another statistical divorce, I would suppose.

I think some folks just don't know how to be alone. Chalk it up to a lack of self-awareness or some degree of fear or self -loathing, but I strongly feel that until one learns how to be alone with themselves, and to be honest and intimate with oneself, it's nearly impossible to have any of these things with anyone else.
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