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Old 08-27-2017, 04:36 AM   #60
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Originally Posted by fuelingfire View Post
Like so many posts, I am agreeing with HM.

If you are in a caring relationship with a fat partner, but are not slapping food out of their hand, you probably qualify for “supportive” or “encourager.” Depending on how you want to look at it. If my girlfriend gains weight, the FA in me is like awesome! But I don’t really fantasize about it.

Intentional weight gain is not really my thing. I don’t find eating to be erotic. It can be made erotic by actions, moaning or acting like it’s a turn on. But then it’s not really the eating that’s the turn on then. A lot of the side fetishes related to fat can be fun.

I could date a gainer, but the turn on for me would be getting the gainer turned on. I do find the confidence a huge turn on. I would assume if you want to gain weight you like how it looks. My girlfriend doing things in public that draw attention to her being fat, and sexy as hell, gives me a rush. For example, at a restaurant we were told we could sit at any table. We walked over to one where the chairs had arms. She looked around and saw a table that had chairs without arms. Then at a very audible volume she said, “Let’s go to that table, my ass is to big for these chairs.” Two table with people at them turned to look. Of course I smiled, I had to put my hand on her butt to escort her over.
Yeah, people are going to start thinking we're the same guy using different accounts! As usual you have described something nicely where I have failed to do so.

Now your girlfriend sounds awesome and I love it when a plus size woman is confident enough to not only embrace but openly flaunt herself. I think my wife is slowly, tentatively reaching the "acceptance" of herself. Next will come embracing and we'll see, maybe she'll reach the flaunting phase too!

Your restaurant story reminded me of an incident a few months ago where we were eating on the patio of a restaurant and when she stood up her butt was so big she took the chair with her. I had to discreetly push down on the chair while she stood up a second time. A pair of women nearby noticed. They both looked pretty in shape and a bit on the judgy side and smirked at my wife's predicament. Fortunately she didn't notice them.
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