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Old 08-29-2017, 03:42 PM   #64
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IMO, it’s kind of a blurry line, unless feederism is what you normally/mostly focus on. Or at least is not summed up well in a sentence or two.

Fat9276, I don’t know that I can change your mind about it being denial. I wouldn’t say I was a feeder any more a than any of the many other fat-porn related categories. The only thing that is consistent for me is a fat woman. It’s not meant as a judgment on feederism or any fetish. It is my understanding feeders are predominately interested in feeding and weight gain.

When dating I look for a fat partner because I want a fat partner. I am a firm believer, date someone for who they are, not who you want them to be. Before I came out, 20 or 21, I dated girls on the cross-country/swimming/track girls. I did have fantasies about these women gaining, because I was with the wrong partner, and I wouldn’t have to come out of the closet if they just gained weight. I wanted to be with fat women, but wasn’t.

Women giving into their cravings, is very hot. If my girlfriend told me she was in the mood from cheese cake. Got one, and ate half of it, and told me about it. Yes it’s arousing, but I am not imagining where I can measure it on her ass.

So if you wanted an extreme possible example: Say I was single. I just met the most interesting woman in the world, who so happens to adore me. She perfectly fits every category of what I want in a partner. However she is less than 200lbs, truth be told I don’t really know where my cut off is. So if I was going to start a relationship with her, she would be aware that I prefer partners that north of 250 lbs (guessing, I don’t go around asking women their weights). This would be a situation where I would qualify as a feeder, and would be vocal about it. I know this varies by FA, but I don’t find thin women attractive.

However, I see this scenario being equal to this: Non-FA meets SSBBW. “You are the perfect girl, to bad you are fat” She then should proceed in slapping him in the face. Granted there is no sexualization in this guy wishing this woman was thin.

Could I date a gainer/feedee? The answer is yes. I am assuming, this person thinks they are attractive and are becoming more attractive as they gain. I love confidence in a woman. If my partner was a feedee, I would act the part for her, not like it would be a huge stretch. I would be worried about what her desired end game would be. I don’t really have an ideal size, but more of an acceptable range. But I would be concerned about possible health consequences of continued gaining. I don’t know how a feedee would feel about reaching a point when they realize they need to stop gaining. I would feel guilty if my partner started having quality of life issues. I don’t know if most feedees are satisfied just gaining some weight. Maybe I haven’t explored it, but I don’t feel I am missing out.
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