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Old 08-01-2015, 06:44 AM   #22
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Our sex life has completely died and now that she is down to 210 lbs I don't find her sexy.
I'm sorry that this happened to you and your family.

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I love her as much as always but I don't know how to get our intimacy going again.
Sorry - it's over.

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This is a very big problem for me and advice like "love will find a way" isn't helping.
This is fairy tale bullshit for weak minds.

From my perspective only options for you are: open relationship, divorce...or do nothing (and be miserable). This sounds hars but try to face it and turn off emotions for a moment - do the math and decide.

Sex is one of the basic instincts that needs to be satisfied, without it you will end up with depression and poor quality of life. I know that because I've been there.
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