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Old 04-11-2011, 06:30 PM   #4
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Tania, while I agree with much of what you're saying, I hear the same complaints from women in their 30s and 40s and they can be encouraged about their value until you're blue in the face and they can even repeat the mantra 'I'm worth it' themselves and STILL accept and excuse shitty disrespectful behavior because at heart they believe if they were less flawed they'd be more loved, cherished, etc.

If you (general you) accept poor behavior from anyone why should they give you what you deserve if you don't believe what you deserve yourself?

For a few years I lost my way. I wasn't even exempt from this but I have woken up since and am regaining my own personal power. I am worth all the good things life has to offer because I have so much to offer. If a man doesn't respect and cherish that, he's history because I *DO* believe there are a LOT of good men out there and he can and will be replaced with one who IS capable of a mature healthy relationship.

EDT: I also say less analysis of bad boy/sad girl behavior and for women to cut the line and keep moving forward rather than sitting around thumbsucking over margaritas with their girlfriends.
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