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Old 07-09-2009, 04:29 PM   #1
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Default Questioning and Asexuality

Not sure if this is the right place to post this, or if there is a right place for that matter, but I'm curious how many have wondered where their sexuality lies, only to feel/come to the conclusion that you might actually fall somewhere in the middle - not bi-sexual or any permutation thereof, but more asexual, where all aspects of physicality are easily overtaken or put in a subjugate position to personality and the strength of the connection at hand?

This was largely inspired by Superodalisque's thread about the FA Sexual Cover-up, but also due to some lingering questions I have had in regards to my own sexual nature for some time - namely that I truly don't feel an intense pull one way or another to sex. I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I am only interested in women, but even with that I still don't often feel the intrinsic "need" for sex, sexuality, or even a deeper knowledge thereof. There just isn't a pull for it in the traditional sense, to be perfectly blunt.

I certainly don't hate sex, that's for sure, but I don't feel as if I absolutely need it either - I know many people would hear that and think I am headed for unhealthy relationships, but is that the case? Has anyone had any sort of experience with a definitive lack of sex drive, or where a sex drive is so very tied to the situation/individual at hand that things need to feel "perfect" before anything can come from it?

Very curious to hear any responses from this.

Cheers.


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