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Old 08-12-2012, 08:16 AM   #1
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Default Hiding your feeder fetish

Hi, I've lurked these forums on and off in the past, but this is my first time posting. So, as the title of this post says, I'm a feeder and I do not share this with my girlfriend. To clarify, I purely consider this to be a fetish--one that I've always had--but have no desire to be in a feeder/feedee relationship at all. My girlfriend is a BBW who knows that I have a bit of a preference for larger women, but does not know about my kink. I don't want to share this with her, but at the same time, I feel really awful that in order for me to really get turned on I have to fantasize about some type of weight gain scenario in my head. I guess my question is: how do I reconcile this? Is it Ok for me to simply keep my fetish to myself? I really don't want her to be grossed out by me, or for her to think that I simply like her because she's fat and I have a weird feeder fetish thing.
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