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Old 07-06-2012, 01:21 AM   #33
Jon Blaze
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I guess it depends on their perspective really. Almost a determination made on whether they are aware of the community elements or not.

If they aren't aware, then it's generally a non issue since it's not likely to come up.

If they are, then it's just something I consider. I have no reason to just say I am not a feeder or encourager, but I will just have it on my toes to clarify given that the question may come up.

The issue has come up on one occasion with someone I was interested in dating about a year ago.
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Her: Are you a feeder? Have you ever fed someone you were dating?
Me: I'm not a feeder, but I have fed some of my partners on occasion. It's just out of satisfying my partner, and not something related to my preferences.

And she totally understood where I was coming from.
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