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Old 01-24-2013, 06:59 AM   #3
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Is it possible that a big part of her upset is the thought of you coming here and looking at other women, as much as the fat part? I mean, would she respond all that differently if she saw that you'd been to a playboy type site?

My best suggestion would be to make a point of giving her some extra attention of a sort that is apt to make her feel loved and special (this doesn't mean more sex, not that there is anything wrong with that). Something like....if she likes theatre going to a play and making an effort to dress up some to make it a special occasion, making her a romantic dinner, whatever will work in your relationship as showing that you love her, want to spend time with her, are proud to be with her, etc.

Good luck!
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