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Old 11-06-2013, 10:54 AM   #36
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Originally Posted by ODFFA View Post
In other words: Can it be a good thing sometimes to 'play hard to get' - especially as an FFA? And how much is too much either way?

As to why: I suppose because I've noticed a pattern with my previous crushes/relationships and it's made me wonder if I could be doing some things better.... On the other hand, it could just be because of a bit of paranoia on my part.

Be interesting to hear what you guys think
I think it's just a bit of paranoia. You've been blunt and, unfortunately, those particular guys didn't all respond the way you hoped, but everyone is different. If you start holding back to a level that is unnatural for you, you risk giving off the wrong impression of your personality and/or attracting the wrong type of person (e.g. a guy who wants a timid woman).

Of course, this is coming from someone with zero internal monologue.
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