Doin' it... you know... IT...

starwater · 01-04-2007, 06:54 PM

Okay, I'm planning on having sex with a guy for the first time. We haven't really done any fooling around before. Although I am a BBW, I'm not sure he's an FA. Any tips on something that can make me a little more confident/less insecure about it?

activistfatgirl · 01-04-2007, 06:56 PM

Turning off the lights really doesn't hide much!

It's like you can't learn how to swim by sticking your toes in the water and hoping it'll warm up. You've got to dive in head first.

And smile. Seriously. Do it. Smile the entire time, even if you're scared. Admit you're scared, but never stop smiling, and never doubt yourself.

UberAris · 01-04-2007, 07:33 PM

Try to relax and just let things flow. If you think too much you might give the wrong impression. Enjoy the moment and have fun

. Don't feel insecure, if he's going to take you to bed, he's more likely then not attracted to you

KnottyOne · 01-04-2007, 08:01 PM

Just go with the flow, it's all you can do. Just let things progress as they are and see what happens, dont really force anything, but at the same time dont be afraid to push a little bit. And if he's into you, he's into you, FA or not. Have confidence in yourself, this is between him and you, no one else, if you are comftorable with yourself, then there is no reason that he will not be comftorable with you. Just go with it and have fun with it.

swordchick · 01-04-2007, 10:18 PM

Definitely keep the lights on, maybe drink a little wine and tell yourself that you are beautiful. HAVE FUN!

itsfine · 01-04-2007, 10:49 PM

if you two are about to have sex Im sure he knows what your body looks like. Guys tend to check the ladies they are dating out.

If you are still unsure.....Does he have a boner? Yes?! He probably likes you.

Be confident! It'll be fine.

01-04-2007, 06:54 PM	#1
starwater Redhead Goddess&Newbie Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Near Toronto Posts: 78	Doin' it... you know... IT... Okay, I'm planning on having sex with a guy for the first time. We haven't really done any fooling around before. Although I am a BBW, I'm not sure he's an FA. Any tips on something that can make me a little more confident/less insecure about it? __________________ With me, beauty's definitely more than skin deep.

01-04-2007, 06:56 PM	#2
activistfatgirl donuts at the finish line Join Date: May 2006 Location: Boston Posts: 5,558	Turning off the lights really doesn't hide much! It's like you can't learn how to swim by sticking your toes in the water and hoping it'll warm up. You've got to dive in head first. And smile. Seriously. Do it. Smile the entire time, even if you're scared. Admit you're scared, but never stop smiling, and never doubt yourself. __________________ "Your half chub is offensive to my delicate sensibilities."

01-04-2007, 08:01 PM	#4
KnottyOne Ready For A Broken Heart? Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Wherever I Am Posts: 2,168	Just go with the flow, it's all you can do. Just let things progress as they are and see what happens, dont really force anything, but at the same time dont be afraid to push a little bit. And if he's into you, he's into you, FA or not. Have confidence in yourself, this is between him and you, no one else, if you are comftorable with yourself, then there is no reason that he will not be comftorable with you. Just go with it and have fun with it. __________________ Let the world change you, then you can change the world The past and future, is in us or nowhere. The external world is the shadow world, casting its shadows into the world of light. Now it seems to us so dark within, so lonely and chaotic. But how different it will seem to us when this eclipse is past and the shadow is removed. We will enjoy ourselves more than ever, for our spirit has suffered such deprivation.

01-04-2007, 10:18 PM	#5
swordchick Deeeeeeeeeeeeez Nuts! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: ¡ǝʇsɐʇ ssɐ ʎɯ ʍoɥ ǝɯ 11ǝʇ, FL Posts: 1,089	Definitely keep the lights on, maybe drink a little wine and tell yourself that you are beautiful. HAVE FUN! __________________ Rest in peace, Cinda and all the others that have passed. We will miss you sweet angels.

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01-04-2007, 07:33 PM	#3
UberAris Dominus Ferrum Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 1,253	Try to relax and just let things flow. If you think too much you might give the wrong impression. Enjoy the moment and have fun . Don't feel insecure, if he's going to take you to bed, he's more likely then not attracted to you

01-04-2007, 10:49 PM	#6
itsfine Miss Manda Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: NE, OH Posts: 106	if you two are about to have sex Im sure he knows what your body looks like. Guys tend to check the ladies they are dating out. If you are still unsure.....Does he have a boner? Yes?! He probably likes you. Be confident! It'll be fine.