Slim FFAs drawn to women?

[Richard1955]

I'm just curious how rare a breed this is. I find the contrast between a slender FFA and a plump female partner whose weight she appreciates and/or is fattening - wildly erotic.

Yet in real life (rather than fiction on this site), I've never encountered it. Do slim FFAs drawn to women -- or larger women drawn to slim FFAs - exist?

[persimmon]

Originally Posted by Richard1955

I'm just curious how rare a breed this is. I find the contrast between a slender FFA and a plump female partner whose weight she appreciates and/or is fattening - wildly erotic.

Yet in real life (rather than fiction on this site), I've never encountered it. Do slim FFAs drawn to women -- or larger women drawn to slim FFAs - exist?

Well, I'm mostly straight, but I like pretty girls. On average, I like fat pretty girls more than thin pretty girls.

I'm given to wonder why you think you would have encountered this in real life, given that it would be an intensely erotic and private situation between two women, and you appear (given your name) to be a man.

[Richard1955]

Oh, in answer to your question, first because I have been pretty well acquainted with quite a number of women over the more than five decades of my own life - and none had ever mentioned this interest or fantasy of the hundreds with whom I've spoken of such fantasies.

Second, because I disagree that the appeal of people who look a certain way - or in feeding them - must be a closely guarded secret, or one experienced at once intensely and alone with the other. For example, many know of my interest in larger women - and of my pleasure in feeding them - it's not a terribly furtive thing. Nor would I expect it to be a terribly dark secret for most people.

I think perhaps you're relating the real pleasure in feeding -- with sexuality - and they needn't be intertwined.

Do you like to feed women? If you like the appeal of larger women, it's a natural thing to wish to help them grow in appeal - as natural as to suggest makeup or a new hairdo that you think might look nice on them.

[Ichida]

Originally Posted by Richard1955

Do you like to feed women? If you like the appeal of larger women, it's a natural thing to wish to help them grow in appeal - as natural as to suggest makeup or a new hairdo that you think might look nice on them.

Hmm I have to disagree here (that everyone finds it natural, not that it is natural) - as a straight FFA I can appreciate bigger men without the urge to help grow them at all - but to me feeding IS sensual, if not sexual. Encouraging can be less sexual. I might SUGGEST a few lbs might look better to a woman - the same as hair or makeup. But I wouldn't help them gain the same way I wouldn't cut their hair for them or do their makeup for them.

If a girl asked for a belly rub or to be fed and they were a girlfriend (straight) of mine I would probably do it, but it would have the same fun girly feel of painting each others nails, no erotic pleasure.

[Melian]

I'm bisexual and have a lot of friends in the GLBT community. Of the lesbian couples I know, about 30% seem to have one thin partner and one fat partner; I don't know if there is some kind of fetish/preference involved or if it just worked out that way, though.

In my case, I've only dated women with the same body type as myself (tall and very thin). The physical qualities that I find attractive in women are quite different from those I admire in men - slender, delicate forms versus powerful, massive ones. Basically, when I'm with a woman, I want to be the man....and when I'm with a man, I want to be the woman.

Wow, I did not do a good job of explaining this. Haha.

[Ichida]

Originally Posted by Melian

In my case, I've only dated women with the same body type as myself (tall and very thin). The physical qualities that I find attractive in women are quite different from those I admire in men - slender, delicate forms versus powerful, massive ones. Basically, when I'm with a woman, I want to be the man....and when I'm with a man, I want to be the woman.

OH MY GOD **laughed so hard irl while drinking coke she cant stop coughing and choking** I read your response wrong. I thought you said:

"When i'm with a woman I want them to be a man, and when I'm with a man I want them to be a woman" (Woman is thin and fit like a traditional guy, the man is soft and curvy like a traditional woman)

Which actually kind of makes sense too in an odd way....

[Cors]

Originally Posted by Melian

Basically, when I'm with a woman, I want to be the man....and when I'm with a man, I want to be the woman.

Wow, I did not do a good job of explaining this. Haha.

Slim queer FFA here (I dated bigger women exclusively but decided to make an exception for a skinny, pale, beautiful androgynous guy recently) and I can totally relate to what Melian is saying.

I have been fascinated by Mandy Blake's Her First Fat Girl site for years, even though I prefer a more submissive BBW partner. I don't personally know any fat girls who are into it too, told a couple of my ex-dates about it and they predictably freaked out.

[Ichida]

Hmmm...for me it depends. When women find other women attractive (even straight ones) i find it is usually about a multitude of things, physical appearance only being a small portion.

I personally find a variety of women attractive, and as an FFA yes, some heavier ones. I personally do not find bigger women as attractive as thinner ones if they are not wearing a bra, with clothes fifteen million sizes to big etc etc.

Some women look....**speechless* AMAZING plump or even bigger. The women who pull it off with class and poise along with a good nature I not only find attractive, it makes me want to BE them, dispite the fact I am not a gainer myself. I am sure many bigger women look at thinner ones and feel the same thing - but there are women I look at and sigh enviously as their shirt strains.

For proof they exist you would have to ask a couple but my overwhelming suspiscion is yes.

I dont think it odd you find it erotic - many men find that type of relationship erotic, and add the FFA thing in...well **shrugs** i can see where you are coming from!

And persimmon he said he never encountered it - in fiction only, so he is wondering if they do exist.