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[shirmack]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

No one is excluding fat men though. You just need to push yourself in there and post. That's the difference. Why aren't big guys posting on the original naked pics thread? What's stopping you?

Why bother posting to be ignored?
doesnt sound worth it to me...

[Surlysomething]

Originally Posted by sprintpimp

Why bother posting to be ignored?
doesnt sound worth it to me...

You're ignored? How often have you posted? Maybe you need to form a gang of hot fat men and take over for awhile. I know I would appreciate the hell out of it. I'm seriously tired of those skinny, nerdy FA's taking over.

[shirmack]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

You're ignored? How often have you posted? Maybe you need to form a gang of hot fat men and take over for awhile. I know I would appreciate the hell out of it. I'm seriously tired of those skinny, nerdy FA's taking over.

I think I may have done so in the past :P Meh when I get motivated ill try


Purely to prove a point though

[Surlysomething]

Originally Posted by sprintpimp

I think I may have done so in the past :P Meh when I get motivated ill try


Purely to prove a point though

I do know what you mean though. There are a kajillion fat women on here and they make a pretty good united front. I don't think as many big guys join these types of forums either so representing can be frustrating and you all tend to stick to the BHM board. I wish you wouldn't, personally. I would love if you added your experience etc and turned the BHM/FFA area into less of a dating/sexuality board to a normal reality thing.

[shirmack]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

I do know what you mean though. There are a kajillion fat women on here and they make a pretty good united front. I don't think as many big guys join these types of forums either so representing can be frustrating and you all tend to stick to the BHM board. I wish you wouldn't, personally. I would love if you added your experience etc and turned the BHM/FFA area into less of a dating/sexuality board to a normal reality thing.

Ya there a fuckton of fat chicks on here but nowhere as many fat dudes we wouldnt stand a chance....
I dunno Maybe the mods should make some Bhm ffa's sub cats

Idk Mod's FTW

[Surlysomething]

Originally Posted by sprintpimp

Ya there a fuckton of fat chicks on here but nowhere as many fat dudes we wouldnt stand a chance....
I dunno Maybe the mods should make some Bhm ffa's sub cats

Idk Mod's FTW

Why do you think there are less fat men?

[shirmack]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Why do you think there are less fat men?

Because this started as a BBW site and only semi recently became more of a BHM FFA thing

I recall when i was 15ish this place had no forums or anything and was pretty much all bbw

just look at the front page

"WOMEN WE LOVE" .ect

[Surlysomething]

Originally Posted by sprintpimp

Because this started as a BBW site and only semi recently became more of a BHM FFA thing

I recall when i was 15ish this place had no forums or anything and was pretty much all bbw

just look at the front page

"WOMEN WE LOVE" .ect

Ahh. Maybe they should think about changing it. Good point.

That could definitely be brought up on the main board. I would love to see this place be WAY more BHM friendly.

[shirmack]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Ahh. Maybe they should think about changing it. Good point.

That could definitely be brought up on the main board. I would love to see this place be WAY more BHM friendly.

Ya that would be awesome...
Peep my post count though my opionion means precisely dick...
Who has the biggest post count in this section lol
They shall be our ambassador

[HDANGEL15]

sprint......I beg to differ on a few points.....there are many big guys posting on here, but I don't believe I have ever seen you post outside THIS board. I took my time getting comfortable on the other boards as a FFA strictly...but now I feel comfortable posting everywhere, although no one knew me before. This site is for SIZE ACCEPTANCE. there are many forums on here to discuss other stuff besides pic whoring and fetish etc...I am not pointing any fingers at you, you knows I think you are very handsome, just saying many women on the other boards will compliment you equally, and would like to hear your opinions bout other stuff......I am one to share a sexy pic or 2 sometimes, but that's ego partially and I know folks like to see who they are chatting / posting with. If you never see more then a head shot you have virtually no idea what someone looks like...just my 2 cents thrown into the arena...

[Melian]

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

You're ignored? How often have you posted? Maybe you need to form a gang of hot fat men and take over for awhile. I know I would appreciate the hell out of it. I'm seriously tired of those skinny, nerdy FA's taking over.

*fully supports hot, fat men hostile takeover*

[PolarKat]

A hostile fat man takeover..hmmm...
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[shirmack]

Originally Posted by HDANGEL15

sprint......I beg to differ on a few points.....there are many big guys posting on here, but I don't believe I have ever seen you post outside THIS board. I took my time getting comfortable on the other boards as a FFA strictly...but now I feel comfortable posting everywhere, although no one knew me before. This site is for SIZE ACCEPTANCE. there are many forums on here to discuss other stuff besides pic whoring and fetish etc...I am not pointing any fingers at you, you knows I think you are very handsome, just saying many women on the other boards will compliment you equally, and would like to hear your opinions bout other stuff......I am one to share a sexy pic or 2 sometimes, but that's ego partially and I know folks like to see who they are chatting / posting with. If you never see more then a head shot you have virtually no idea what someone looks like...just my 2 cents thrown into the arena...

Indeed I have posted outside this thread....
I used to have a different screen name once upon a time...
I don't remember what it was but infact I posted quite a bit..
Did't go over well... So I am not talking purely through my hat

[AZ_Wolf]

I definitely love discussion threads more than any other, but it seems very difficult to start one here that isn't considered out of bounds for our narrow board focus if it doesn't include photos. Having said that, I like the monkey thread for its ability to limbo under said focus.

So maybe folks are lurking here for a while and seeing little change, so desperation is the result -- something more visible to the single than the married or coupled.

[William]

Hey

Sometimes I am the toast of the party outside of the BHM/FFA Board

Just post on any of the boards and sooner or later you will get replies. On any of the board if you add value to the conversation you will be recognized, especially if your point of view agrees with the partyline.

Sometimes my experiences outside of the BHM/FFA area are dismal, but on average they are great.

William

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

No one is excluding fat men though. You just need to push yourself in there and post. That's the difference. Why aren't big guys posting on the original naked pics thread? What's stopping you?

[viracocha]

Originally Posted by Melian

*fully supports hot, fat men hostile takeover*

Viva la Revolution!

While the title of this thread is understandable and reasonable, I'm not sure it's accurate. Granted, the random picwhoring has administrative effects that both users and ops have to deal with, but as sprint and others have been saying, it represents people reaching-out. These have a sublative influence that is as significant as genuine discussions such as this, I think.

I don't remember what thread, but there was a discussion about how to make Dims most effective by reaching a "critical mass" (ed, I think it was). These random posts contribute to the accumulation of support needed to make BHM/FFA boards equal to others on Dims and to make Dims more effective. I just try to take in the amount of people interested or vested in size acceptance combined with the message of the community: if we can extend belonging to even a few of these posters who typically are discouraged elsewhere, we can move our message faster and more thoroughly.

I know it's not consensus, and for covenience's sake discouraged, but I want to recognize everyone who contributed to the boards. Philosophical, entertaining, anything that acknowledges and discusses any aspect of BHMness, FFAness, and size acceptance in general. Woot.

And, as a relative newbie, I think we who are not as well versed in protocol and Dims history have a lot to offer. There are tenets of size acceptance IMHO that have excluded many people, and I still see these attitudes on the boards. We can change the message to one of inclusion, to promote the realization that fear/hate/discrimination/intolerance is the problem. Basically, all people have a size, so accept it.

This is probably a bit from left field, but I whole-heartedly welcome some criticism/feedback. Thanks!
~Katy

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