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Old 04-09-2009, 12:08 PM   #26
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When he/she is down about his/her weight, don't just reply with "I love you". It just makes him/her feel like you love them anyway DESPITE their appearance and that is not the case.

Something I learnt a while ago.
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Old 04-09-2009, 07:46 PM   #27
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It took me awhile to realize that calling girls fat was not as much of a compliment to them as I intended it to be.
Hit the nail on the head here. My mistake was assuming that if it was ok for her to make a joke, a comment, or use size wording in discussions, that it was ok for me too as well.

Certain days it was ok, other days were quite uncomfortable. I knew I was being complimentary in my own way, but it wasnt always taken that way even though she knew my intent wasnt to insult her.

It took quite a while for me to understand that just because I adored and loved her it couldnt quite erase the sting of certain words and phrases heard over years and never in a complimentary or positive manner.
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