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Old 01-31-2009, 10:39 AM   #26
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He doesn't have to try I guess. Exceptionally pale, thin, somewhat delicate features, minimal blond soft body hair and shaved everywhere else. I do love androgynous and butch women so its not too much of a stretch. ;D
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Old 01-31-2009, 02:05 PM   #27
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I dated both thin and fat guys before meeting my husband, who is fat. There was a point in my life when I finally realized I could never be with a thin man, and I'm glad I never looked back. I figure with how many fat guys are out there, and lack of FFAs, that it would be doing a disservice to myself and to the fat guys out there to not go with my gut (no pun intended) feeling and do what I wanted, which was be with a sexy fat man (done and done!)
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Old 02-23-2009, 08:50 PM   #28
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Honestly, i've dated both and I have absolutely adored both. It's always been what I wanted in a man and who he was rather than what he looked like. I've dated two huge men and one was a jerk while the other I thought was the love of my life. I've dated many single men and one of them I thought was intensely passionate (but all the ladies know how that goes). Right now I'm with my favorite guy that, although isn't jiggly or has a huge ass or large belly...... sorry, got lost on a tangent, he fullfills me in the way he simply cares so much and he loves me so much. So yeah, I'm a screaming FFA and I'm into ssbhms, but my guy loves me entirely and we click. I can give up my preferences if he makes me so happy.


.....that doesn't mean i can't look or flirt
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Old 02-23-2009, 09:28 PM   #29
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Oh, definitely not. I love playing with the "what if..." buttons. ~~what if he was 6'4", and dark haired, with soulful eyes and a utility belt?

Really, I don't believe myself when I say I'll only date someone with x trait. Of the boys I've seriously dated, none of them (granted all 2) have fit any template. I've certainly grown from knowing the people around me, especially ones that I wouldn't have thought to get to know better.

There is a caveat: if someone dates me, chances are they won't be skinny for the duration of the relationship. I bake way too much for my primary taste tester to have a 30" waist.
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Old 02-23-2009, 10:01 PM   #30
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i have dated many shapes, sizes, and body fat percentages, but i go gaga over the really big ones...
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Old 02-25-2009, 01:25 AM   #31
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Personally, I wouldn't want a thin guy. It may sound shallow but hey, most people won't date someone who is overweight and that's shallow too lol

I am okay with "football player" type of guys, not skinny though.

200 lbs and over should be good, depending on their height. (for example, I'll take a 180 lbs guy but then he should be under 5'9).

No 6 ft, 150 lbs guys. That's unacceptable LOL
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Old 02-26-2009, 12:34 AM   #32
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I've dated guys of all body types literally haha. My first boyfriend was 6'2" and only 120 lbs (no he wasn't anorexic, he had a genetic condition that made him that thin- Marfan's syndrome)...who woulda thunk that I would end up years later with a guy the same height, and 300 lbs!

And yes, I definitely prefer bigger ^_^. Although there are guys I absolutely adore who are thinner (Christian Bale for instance). It kind of depends you know
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Old 02-26-2009, 12:56 AM   #33
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I have my deviations, and have slept with thinner men.

However, I usually keep the whole thin boy thin a fantasy, because they'll never be as good in real life as sex with a BHM.

Which totally makes me shallow, but Im far from caring...
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Old 02-26-2009, 08:55 PM   #34
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Old 02-27-2009, 06:24 AM   #35
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*flashes you a BHM gang sign*

*realizes she is a small white/Asian girl*

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Old 03-02-2009, 07:13 PM   #36
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Were I single, I would probably only want to get into a relationship with a (very) fat man. It's just how I roll ...
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Old 03-02-2009, 09:50 PM   #37
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Sounds like the beginning of a 70's porno flick ;
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Old 03-03-2009, 07:03 AM   #38
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I've understood that I was passionately attracted to fat men since I was 15 or 16, but it didn't stop me from dating thin ones, and I eventually married one.

I'm still over the moon for fat guys (and as I have an open marriage, I sometimes have the opportunity to enjoy them up close...), but at least in a life partner, I am more interested in brains and values.
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Old 04-22-2009, 07:06 PM   #39
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i have dated thin guys, but i'm just really not sexually attracted to thin guys in general...
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Old 04-23-2009, 06:33 AM   #40
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I've always thought there had to be something like the Kinsey Continuum for FAs.

Kinsey rated homo/heterosexuality on a scale of 1 to 7; there are some pure homosexuals who will simply never be aroused by the opposite gender, and some pure heterosexuals. However between those 2 polar opposites is a range of sexuality. Some may strongly prefer one gender but be able to be aroused by another.

I think it's the same with FAs. Some (like Mary) will only be able to be aroused by a fat guy, while others (like me) have a preference for them but am able to be sexually aroused by thin men as well.
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Old 04-23-2009, 06:26 PM   #41
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Hmm.

I'm not sure.

I like to cuddle, and I don't want to cuddle with a skinny dude.

There's something about guys that feel like pillows that's really attractive to me.

Most people get heavier after they get married, so I guess it might be okay if his family is heavy (he'd have a better chance of gaining weight), but I wouldn't have any fun at all snuggling with him up until then, so...

I don't know... I don't think I'd rule anyone out... but I'm not sure I'd be attracted to a very skinny person in the first place...
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Old 04-24-2009, 01:15 AM   #42
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Yes and I have but the only thing is he did not stay skinny after we started dating
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Old 04-24-2009, 09:13 PM   #43
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and thought, "Obviously they haven't met me..."

For me, a man has to be at least chub-with-potential who likes being chubby or more. I've dated several chubby-to-large guys whom I found cute, but the didn't like their size and weren't turned on by it, and that sucked.
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Old 04-27-2009, 01:07 PM   #44
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Most definitely.

If he treated me right and had qualities that I love, for sure.
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Old 04-28-2009, 09:35 AM   #45
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I've always thought there had to be something like the Kinsey Continuum for FAs.

Kinsey rated homo/heterosexuality on a scale of 1 to 7; there are some pure homosexuals who will simply never be aroused by the opposite gender, and some pure heterosexuals. However between those 2 polar opposites is a range of sexuality. Some may strongly prefer one gender but be able to be aroused by another.

I think it's the same with FAs. Some (like Mary) will only be able to be aroused by a fat guy, while others (like me) have a preference for them but am able to be sexually aroused by thin men as well.
It's funny, I was thinking of this while I read the original post.

I'm fairly certain I'm pansexual - there's never been a specific type, gender indentity, sex, etc that I have found myself unable to be attracted to so long as the personality worked for me. (I also wish I'd had that vocabulary when I was fifteen and trying to explain for the first time that I didn't care that the guy I was dating had been born a girl and was "pretending" - their word, not mine.)

That definitely translates into my stance as an FFA. I may lust after fat guys, prefer them if all other things are equal, whatever. The bottom line for me is always going to be the person.
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