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Old 07-14-2010, 12:53 PM   #101
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Old 08-17-2010, 07:28 PM   #102
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Old 08-22-2010, 01:21 AM   #103
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Talking The Rantings of a British Civil Partner

Well, I met my partner, Sam, in 2003 and we had our Civil Partnership in 2007. We are comlpletely monogomous. No point in getting hitched otherwise otherwise, I think. I was single for soooooo long because of "bunny boiler" admirers and I began to believe that I would never find a woman I could just be myself with and so I kinda gave up and stopped looking...

And then it happened...

She found me!

We are like "Little & Large"! lol

I do not believe a girl (or guy for that matter) has to be in a relationship to feel happy, contented or whole. We can get that from friends, family or ourselves if we are super-duper confident and comfortable within ourselves! Sam is slender and beautiful and loves every curve of my body. She has said she does not want me to be skinny or feel I should "conform" to todays "Lillipop Brigade" look - and neither do I! I can do more than pout and look down on others because of digits on a scale, thank you very much!

I understand our looks, bodies and youth are only for rent and that time is precious and I do not want to waste it fretting about my bum, tum and thighs! I realise there are people out there with real problems; men and women fighting to stay alive; war etc...

I am thankful to have love in my life but if I was not to have such an amazing woman who loves me unconditionally, I would take comfort in my friends, my family and my ever hopeful attitude.

If you are single and feeling like you won't find them or your tower is so high you firmly believe they will never find you - think again! Retain and hold tight to your hope and your dreams. They have your postcode (zip code), they are on their way...
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Old 08-22-2010, 03:24 AM   #104
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Just wanted to say that I have nothing but respect for your celibacy. Today's society is all sex, sex and yes, you guessed it - more sex! I am no prude by any means, I enjoy making love regularly as possible. Society has an unwritten law that: if you're not having sex then you must appear to LOOK like sex at all times - ready to drop your knickers at a seconds notice! What I am asking is don't you get a little miffed or angry at a sex obsessed culture when you are abstaining? I would. I guess I would crave something a little "deeper". I had a close male friend who was, and I am sure still is, celibate as although he was gay, he didn't want to engage in the sexual act. It done very little for him. I found him deeply refreshing and his whole agenda and "concept of being" was radically different to any of my other friends

Do you face questioning and some adversity to your lifestyle choice by others? I think you show great strength of character.
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Old 08-29-2010, 12:18 PM   #105
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Old 08-29-2010, 08:22 PM   #106
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Hiya Rebecca,
Just wanted to say that I have nothing but respect for your celibacy. Today's society is all sex, sex and yes, you guessed it - more sex! I am no prude by any means, I enjoy making love regularly as possible. Society has an unwritten law that: if you're not having sex then you must appear to LOOK like sex at all times - ready to drop your knickers at a seconds notice! What I am asking is don't you get a little miffed or angry at a sex obsessed culture when you are abstaining? I would. I guess I would crave something a little "deeper". I had a close male friend who was, and I am sure still is, celibate as although he was gay, he didn't want to engage in the sexual act. It done very little for him. I found him deeply refreshing and his whole agenda and "concept of being" was radically different to any of my other friends

Do you face questioning and some adversity to your lifestyle choice by others? I think you show great strength of character.
To be honest, I don't think many people assume I'm supposed to be sexual--not only am I fat, I don't really follow the rules of what's supposed to be feminine. So I think people are more shocked when they find out that I'm actually a very sexual being. Sometimes, I think they believe I'm celibate because I can't get laid anyway. Sometimes, I think they just listen to my reasons and accept them.

Also, my reasons for celibacy aren't that noble: I'm not offended by the sexualized nature of the world, not really. Sometimes it's a bit much, but I'm a fan of sex and sexuality. When I was growing up, I wanted to be a sex therapist, but I didn't know they were even real back then. My reason for being celibate is simple: I don't seem to be able to balance things in my life AND sex. When I put sex in the mix, things get spun way out of proportion and I go and mess everything up.

At the end of the day, it's just easier for me to concentrate on the things I have to do. Still, I'm a terrible flirt. I'm also kind of a pervert. So, sex is never completely gone from my life--I just don't tend to invite other people in on it. At least not for now.
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Old 10-22-2010, 01:01 AM   #107
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I am recently single and thinking about looking. It's been a long time since I dated, 2 long term relationships in a row . . .
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Old 10-22-2010, 06:14 AM   #108
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I'm currently engaged to a wonderful FA...I never thought I would lfind a guy like him in my area..and here he was living just a 30 min drive from me...I wish all guys where like him...a guy that will love ya no matter what you weight...
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Old 10-23-2010, 04:12 PM   #109
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Not looking though... More sort of drifting through life seeing what happens. Stuff keeps getting in the way of dating in any kind of real way.
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Old 10-29-2010, 09:54 PM   #111
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Haha, I met him through the trans support group I'm in, he's FtM, nerdy, cute, and polyamorous so he doesn't have any issues with me being poly as well He's an anarchist and a punk and I hearts him.
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Haha, I met him through the trans support group I'm in, he's FtM, nerdy, cute, and polyamorous so he doesn't have any issues with me being poly as well He's an anarchist and a punk and I hearts him.
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