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Old 11-19-2010, 03:54 PM   #51
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I also date younger men. Although, I prefer Puma for now...not quite old enough to be a cougar.
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Old 11-19-2010, 06:41 PM   #52
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I hate the term cougar. It seems to insinuate someone who is looking for prey, and like AnnMarie I also think it tends to lend to the idea that the women pay for things for the men to date them (which I find to be ludicrous). I posted a dating ad and found that I had nice chemistry with someone who was 9 years younger. I think that anytime that you can make a connection with someone and neither of you have an issue with it, why should it be a problem for anyone else? Whose business is it anyway as long as you are two consenting adults?
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I am 30 and have found that women in their 40's think I am too young and do not have enough in common. How would they know if they do not give me a chance?
I dated a girl younger and she flaked out on me so I would like to date someone my age or a little older late 30's early 40's. I find these women to be sexier and more honest in life than a younger girl.
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its not unusual to be pursued by guys half my age. younger guys are nice and cute but sometimes not mentally and emotionally attractive. i don't want to have to teach. i don't watch reality shows, cartoons or play WoW. most of them would bore me and i would bore them. constantly doing the been there done that thing would be a strain since i'm always looking to move forward and not backward in life. i'm no one's mommie. i'd like an emotional and mental equal.
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Old 12-07-2010, 06:25 AM   #55
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I'm a 34 yr old BBW...the oldest I would go would be 15 yrs above my age..the youngest I would go would be 10 yrs below my age
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its not unusual to be pursued by guys half my age. younger guys are nice and cute but sometimes not mentally and emotionally attractive. i don't want to have to teach. i don't watch reality shows, cartoons or play WoW. most of them would bore me and i would bore them. constantly doing the been there done that thing would be a strain since i'm always looking to move forward and not backward in life. i'm no one's mommie. i'd like an emotional and mental equal.
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I really don't like the word "cougar." It is degrading to older women, as is the acronym MILF. I really enjoy the company of older women as well as young women. I do not see myself as prey and would defintely not let a woman treat me that way, for I deserve more.



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Well, being 21, I am not sure if I could speak about anything from true experience, but I would say that I definitely would date someone older of a significant age gap. The chemistry would have to be there, of course. However, I feel that if the emotion and affection was there in any capacity, a beautiful relationship could erupt regardless of age difference.
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Old 12-13-2010, 06:44 AM   #59
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I really don't like the word "cougar." It is degrading to older women, as is the acronym MILF. I really enjoy the company of older women as well as young women. I do not see myself as prey and would defintely not let a woman treat me that way, for I deserve more.



you do deserve more. hate to say but there are some women who represent the term cougar in all of its negative senses. there are older women who are predatory and use younger men to try and get status or restore a lost youth. thats no reason to be with anyone. its just as bad as some of the young guys who use these women for money and easy sex and then laugh at them behind their backs. hey, maybe some folks really do deserve each other.
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Old 12-16-2010, 02:25 PM   #60
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i'll admit to being a cougar ....i'm 36 but the youngest i have felt comfortable dating is 25 or 26...and they have to be pretty mature for their age for me to consider it. Not to say i wouldn't date someone older..it just hasn't worked out that way yet lol
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you do deserve more. hate to say but there are some women who represent the term cougar in all of its negative senses. there are older women who are predatory and use younger men to try and get status or restore a lost youth. thats no reason to be with anyone. its just as bad as some of the young guys who use these women for money and easy sex and then laugh at them behind their backs. hey, maybe some folks really do deserve each other.
You forgot to mention the ones who are looking to have sex with the man of the month or the ones who want to do sex talk over the webcams. LOL




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Some older women can be fun and be great company if there is an emotional connection. Having a relationship with someone of a different age can okay depending on both people's reasons for the relationship.



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Old 12-27-2010, 04:21 PM   #63
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at 22 i dated a 38 year old, at 24 i dated a 35 year old, and now that i'm 35 i like....well, 21-50 is a good range, but 26-45 seems to work best
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I wanted to bump this thread. Lately it is 20 somethings hitting on me. I am 42.. is anyone else experiencing this?

Also...There is a show about older women dating younger men.

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Any 60 something cougars out there interested in a mere 55 year old?
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lol bbwbd...iamsure they would be happy to have you.
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I will go younger if they look like you, my dear..
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awwww.bbwbud.. that is sweet.. thank you.
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You know... No matter how young it was, I don't think I would ever date a cougar. Even when they're cubs, those things can really stick you with their little fangs and claws.

Still, their fur is nice and soft. It's just not what I'm into.
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Would you date someone younger than you? By how much? Is 20 too young for a 35 year old? Or 35 too young for 50?
Where would a raptor be on this scale? Why does it seem so many celebrity or rich older men have younger wives?

Also what do you call a woman who's marrying a man because his money err her insecurity?

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I am engaged to a man ten years younger than myself. Do I lose my cougar status when I make an honest man out of him?
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So, now that I live down South, I find young men hitting on me. It's so weird. They're like 18-21yo. I've always been into older men and the thought of these boys gives me the willies. They certainly cannot handle me mentally, financially and definitely not sexually

Maybe when I get older...but for now, I can't lol
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So, now that I live down South, I find young men hitting on me. It's so weird. They're like 18-21yo. I've always been into older men and the thought of these boys gives me the willies. They certainly cannot handle me mentally, financially and definitely not sexually

Maybe when I get older...but for now, I can't lol
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