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Old 03-11-2011, 04:29 PM   #1
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ok i think this is the right place to post this. i hope. i have been married for over 13 years. my wife being larger when we got married as a good thing. i didnt know it then, but i do now. so with that in mind as i have grown older i have noticed that i have devoloped a fetish for large women. ok with this my wife has grown larger throu out the years and nothing way with this either. now i have noticed that i would rather look at my wife then any other women. i mean i love to look at her clothed and unclothed, i would rather look at her than any other porn or anything like that. i would love to have her model everything that she owns and me take a millions pictures of her. i travel alot so i love having pictures of her. one thing that i would love to do is to have her do this more but she doesnt seem not ot like it. that is here nor there. i guess my thing is, is this a weird thing that i feel this way and when does it get freakish. i mean this is something i truely enjoy. i dont know lol.
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Old 03-11-2011, 04:32 PM   #2
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lol I think, for me at least, the best compliment would be to have the man I love find he not only wants my fatass lol but really perfers me to porn or other women??? I think that is BALLIN sir and she is only lucky girl!!
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Old 03-11-2011, 04:46 PM   #3
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now you see why i asked this. im not sure if i should of put it that way but it is the thruth.
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I've had moments of (pardon the expression) infatuation in relationships, wish they lasted longer. Arguably it's what everyone wants. Don't apologize, you're doing something right.
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hhhmm i guess i never had it put that way.
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YES.... your wife can be a focal point for your love. I also married a woman who gained a lot of weight over seven years after we married and I was continually amazed at how as she grew I found her more attractive. I loved her as a person but, her physical beauty greatly increased. But, all good things must come to an end and, when her weight was a real issue to her she had an intestinal bypass operation in 1972. The next four of five years were difficult but, I found she was a easier person to live with. Having a self worth that was high was a pleasant change!
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f8fourmore, you and your wife are incredibly lucky1 I was getting to that point with my wife when her weight started getting above 220, but then she had WLS. It has not been quite two years, so I am still getting used to it. And it has been rough, for me anyway. I am a dyed in the wool FA and was really looking forward to my wife getting to at least 250, but that was not to be. We just had our 10th anniversary and I do still love her very much, so maybe we will still make it for the long haul. But unfortunately I can no longer say that I would rather look at her than other women. She was a lovely pear shape with big thick legs and fluffy upper arms. I loved everything about her slowly growing body. But now she looks kind of deflated. She does feel better about herself and feels better physically so that's good. She has to be on her feet a lot for work and works very long hours and carrying 75 less pounds around has made a big difference for her.

Anyway, f8fourmore, enjoy your incredibly good fortune! May you and your wife have a very long, happy and healthy marriage!
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ok i think this is the right place to post this. i hope. i have been married for over 13 years. my wife being larger when we got married as a good thing. i didnt know it then, but i do now. so with that in mind as i have grown older i have noticed that i have devoloped a fetish for large women. ok with this my wife has grown larger throu out the years and nothing way with this either. now i have noticed that i would rather look at my wife then any other women. i mean i love to look at her clothed and unclothed, i would rather look at her than any other porn or anything like that. i would love to have her model everything that she owns and me take a millions pictures of her. i travel alot so i love having pictures of her. one thing that i would love to do is to have her do this more but she doesnt seem not ot like it. that is here nor there. i guess my thing is, is this a weird thing that i feel this way and when does it get freakish. i mean this is something i truely enjoy. i dont know lol.

Fetish? Don't know.

But...

10 years married this fall, and 15 since we met, and I am still helpless. A total dog. A slave. She is always the most beautiful woman anywhere we go, and she looks more beautiful now than when we met. I need my space, that's for sure, but inevitably if I stay away too long on business, I start missing her in a raw, primal way, and I can't stand being apart from her for too long.

It's better now than it ever was.

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All great insight....and I feel the same about my wife of 11 years, been together for 16. She has slimmed down from her most desirable weight in my eyes at the time hovering around 200 luscious Lbs. at 5" 3" pear shape with big fat soft breasts, fluffy upper arms and a soft fat lower belly, she looked like a sandy blonde tan overweight fattened beautiful cheerleader at her heaviest.

She has started gaining a little weight back probably around 155-160 Lbs. currently.

I dream and fantasize about her gaining the weight back a little less or a little more just her gaining and growing her precious curvy figure back. That really arouses me more than any porn or the thought of any woman etc. I just think of her gaining and being able to touch and feel her extra weight is like the best aphrodisiac to me not to mention I love her for her witt, personality, charm and sexiness but something I just need is for her to gain some more weight. Us FA's who are into weight gain can have it pretty tough.
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ok i think this is the right place to post this. i hope. i have been married for over 13 years. my wife being larger when we got married as a good thing. i didnt know it then, but i do now. so with that in mind as i have grown older i have noticed that i have devoloped a fetish for large women. ok with this my wife has grown larger throu out the years and nothing way with this either. now i have noticed that i would rather look at my wife then any other women. i mean i love to look at her clothed and unclothed, i would rather look at her than any other porn or anything like that. i would love to have her model everything that she owns and me take a millions pictures of her. i travel alot so i love having pictures of her. one thing that i would love to do is to have her do this more but she doesnt seem not ot like it. that is here nor there. i guess my thing is, is this a weird thing that i feel this way and when does it get freakish. i mean this is something i truely enjoy. i dont know lol.
You love your wife and find her so attractive that neither other women nor pornography can turn your head. As long as you respect she has her own issues and desires, I fail to see a downside here.
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Old 03-23-2011, 05:52 AM   #11
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When my wife and I first met, she was about 125 lbs. When we married, she was closer to 150. Lately, she's been hovering around 200. She's 5'8" and feels bad for weighing 200 lbs., but I have always found her to be the most attractive woman I've ever seen, no matter what her weight, thin or otherwise. I think she looks awesome and she turns a lot of heads, but she thinks that she's unattractive because of her current weight. Nothing can be further from the truth! Some women look great when they're bigger!

Ever since I first saw my wife 8 years ago, it's been love at first sight. I have not lost my desire for her - I want her just as much now as I did 8 years ago. So, I guess you can say that my wife is my fetish, but I prefer to say that she is genuinely the object of my affection.
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ok i think this is the right place to post this. i hope. i have been married for over 13 years. my wife being larger when we got married as a good thing. i didnt know it then, but i do now. so with that in mind as i have grown older i have noticed that i have devoloped a fetish for large women. ok with this my wife has grown larger throu out the years and nothing way with this either. now i have noticed that i would rather look at my wife then any other women. i mean i love to look at her clothed and unclothed, i would rather look at her than any other porn or anything like that. i would love to have her model everything that she owns and me take a millions pictures of her. i travel alot so i love having pictures of her. one thing that i would love to do is to have her do this more but she doesnt seem not ot like it. that is here nor there. i guess my thing is, is this a weird thing that i feel this way and when does it get freakish. i mean this is something i truely enjoy. i dont know lol.
Seriously, count yourself as lucky and she should do the same.

A level of lust in a long-term relationship is to be treasured. A high level of lust is to be treated like a daily blessing from God. As another poster referenced, just make sure to satisfy her whole person. Do that and you'll spend your life in the lucky situation of being married to a great, beloved friend and your ultimate sex object. Some people wind up married to the former, damn few wind up married to the latter and a sliver of the populace winds up married to both.
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Seriously, count yourself as lucky and she should do the same.

A level of lust in a long-term relationship is to be treasured. A high level of lust is to be treated like a daily blessing from God. As another poster referenced, just make sure to satisfy her whole person. Do that and you'll spend your life in the lucky situation of being married to a great, beloved friend and your ultimate sex object. Some people wind up married to the former, damn few wind up married to the latter and a sliver of the populace winds up married to both.
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I couldn't possibly say it any better than this.
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ok i think this is the right place to post this. i hope. i have been married for over 13 years. my wife being larger when we got married as a good thing. i didnt know it then, but i do now. so with that in mind as i have grown older i have noticed that i have devoloped a fetish for large women. ok with this my wife has grown larger throu out the years and nothing way with this either. now i have noticed that i would rather look at my wife then any other women. i mean i love to look at her clothed and unclothed, i would rather look at her than any other porn or anything like that. i would love to have her model everything that she owns and me take a millions pictures of her. i travel alot so i love having pictures of her. one thing that i would love to do is to have her do this more but she doesnt seem not ot like it. that is here nor there. i guess my thing is, is this a weird thing that i feel this way and when does it get freakish. i mean this is something i truely enjoy. i dont know lol.
don't sweat it hon, you have the best of both worlds. whats sad and freakish are the married guys who don't get to feel this way.
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there are a few defs of 'fetish' but the one that comes to mind for me is of an inanimate object (a shoe, a balloon), so I hope your wife isn't one of those.
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I think the fetish/turn on unless something like a preticular event happens is pretty much there early on in our lives (as a curiousity and not so much sexually) and you just haven't put 2 & 2 together. Talked to alot of FA and other fetishes over the years and most usually ask how the other got started and usually it's an as a kid i was facinated by blank but wasn't till i got older and i realized i liked this or after progressing through i few different fetishes i realized it was all rooted back to blank so i'm here.
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That actually sounds lovely, to be that turned on by your wife. That's what marriage can be, to be with a person who is your sexual and emotional all.

It's part of the partnership, to create so close a bond that to you, she is the ultimate turn-on.

Lovely! Gives me faith in humanity! :-)
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wait...wait...wait..... is that my husband starting this thread?? hahaha...

I wish.....

I dont think your wife is a "fetish" as such....infatuated maybe..

My hubby often tells me the same, his "fetish" as such, is my bum....if he could create a shrine to it, then he would!

When i hear my husband say the words "i love your chubby bits, your bum is the best bum ever, come here gorgeous and sit on my face"

yehhhh that makes me feel good

Your wife is lucky....you should let her know how you feel every minute of every day
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