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The OP didn't really ask for anyone's numbers that I could discern, just a sense that there are others like her and she's not the only one on the site. Since anyone can claim to be a SSBBW, providing numbers might help avoid ambiguity like the kind caused by this thread: http://dimensionsmagazine.com/forums...ad.php?t=59972
Ambiguity notwithstanding, it's a personal choice to share or not share that kind of info, right?
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Oh boy, SSBBW for sure
Oh, Yea. I'm 450lbs now, an SSBBW for sure
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12-09-2010, 06:47 PM
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12-09-2010, 07:43 PM
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goodbye halcyon days
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i am an ssbbw
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12-09-2010, 10:13 PM
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12-11-2010, 08:52 AM
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HABETIS BONA DEUM
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I am!! 5'8", 404 lbs so... 3!
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I noticed that your last activity was in mid Sept, and that you started this thread at the end of Aug, so I am not even sure if you will even end up reading what I am about to say, but maybe it will help someone else...so here goes... Being an ssbbw is not an easy thing. We get look at, pointed at, laughed at, and very rarely loved. This is so unfortunate for us, because the one thing that I have found out about EVERY ssbbw that I have ever met in person or on Dims, is that we are all so lovely. We are all beautiful women, who laugh until it hurts, love until the end, and we fight with all we have. Another thing that I notice, on Dims, and with other ssbbws that have never heard of Dims before, is that MOST of us do not appreciate ourselves. We look for others people to accept us, or desire for someone else to fall in love with us in order for us to be happy. This is what we need to change. First, you are not too big for Dims...no one is too big for Dims, SSBBWs and SSBHMs. Dims is 100% focused on size acceptance, more on big size acceptance. So, know that Dims accepts you, 250 lbs or 600 lbs...it doesnt matter. Second, you need to accept you, at no matter what size you are. If you are not happy, then I encourage you to change it. It does not matter if FAs or Feeders want you to stay bigger, or want you to get bigger. You are the one in your skin, and you need to love everything about it. It has taken me a long time to accept my body. I can honestly tell you that I am not ashamed to tell people, including people who have no idea about our large community, my size. Yes, their eyes get big, and there jaw drops, but thats their problem. Our size, as ssbbws is not something that we should view as a problem. No matter what the rest of the world views us as, we should not view ourselves as a lesser person. The first thing that people see about us, is our size. Some look at us as if it is a flaw, and for us to have one of our most sensitive flaws be the first thing that we get judged on sucks. So if you do not allow it to be a flaw in you life, then it wont be. If we do not view ourselves with higher standards, then how can we expect anyone else to? Next, after you accept who you are, know that you are not alone. That there are tons (pun intended) of other people out there that know what you are going through, and how you are feeling. That what is so great about Dims, we are here to support you. We are here to let you know that you are not alone, and that we feel the same way you do...when our body hurts to much to stand for more then just a few minutes, or when you cant fit well in seats, or needing to take breaks in the grocery store, or when you feel like you will never find anyone who would love you becase of your body. Some of us go through that too...and most of the FA's have an understanding of it, and they accept it, not to mention love us for it. Yes, you will find FA's who only want us for our bodies, but there are those who would like to get to know us for who we are, who actually have a genuine interest in us, and not just seeing us as an object for their masturbation. I guess what I am trying to say is that no, you are not alone, there are so many of us out there, but you will never accepted anywhere unless you accept yourself first. I know from first hand experience, that these words are so much hards to do then to say. So you dont have to lurk, and just peep in every now and again...sit down, read, post, reply, and just take in the full acceptance when you are on Dims. I hope that this helps you in accepting your size, just the way you are. As for the rest of the world, who cares, especially when there is such an awesome place like Dims to come to, where you can come and just be yourself. 
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I couldn't agree more,especially about the stared and pointed at bit ....
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12-11-2010, 11:22 PM
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12-11-2010, 11:33 PM
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Fat, and loveable!
Join Date: Dec 2005
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I am also an ssbbw,tipping the scales at 550.
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06-09-2011, 02:20 PM
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Where are all the california ssbbws?
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06-09-2011, 03:46 PM
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You are delightful
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Location: In the Great White North.
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Welcome. You have a very lovely picture in your profile. I look forward to your posts.
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