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Old 10-30-2011, 10:12 PM   #26
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I don't condone the idea on giving up or settling. But I do think that given enough time, altering what you are looking for to be broader in description is a needed thing.

For me, in 2009 I met the girl I was always looking for. I thought I had won the lottery, found one in a million. Sadly I wasn't what she was looking for, and she cast me aside.

Several meet and greets with new people later, I decided that time is short. I needed to find someone that matched up with me on the most important things, and exclude some of the superficial things.

My girlfriend is wonderful. She is a beautiful woman who shares a lot of my common interests. Given the broadening of what I want in a woman, I feel like I won the lottery all over again.
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Old 10-30-2011, 11:53 PM   #27
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I found my wife in 2003. She's perfect for me.
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Old 10-31-2011, 03:53 AM   #28
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After two failed marriages, I had for the most part thrown my arms up in disgust and defeat. . I didn't believe there was a woman in the world worth having. . (not an uncommon feeling after an ugly divorce) I did find myself wishing for female "companionship". (read that as sex if you wish)

Not exactly a "clubber" our local newpaper began offering a "singles" section with personals. .etc. I opted to put a short ad stating my preferences in "queen-sized" women (a pre-bbw descriptor) I received several replies, none of which went anywhere . I did receive a bit of an "angry" reply. . stating some things I for one wasn't exactly looking for in a woman. . but undaunted, I responded and we set a date to meet. .

She was not what I was looking for, but she was exactly what I needed, and for the next 20+ years she was the first person I talked to every day and the last person I spoke to every night. . The truth is, I'm not perfect, so how could I possibly expect a woman to be so for me. . yet I found her! Even though I had in essence given up, I was blessed with the most wonderful partner anyone could have possibly asked for...

Years later, people would ask her how we met. . She would reply. . "He advertised for a fat woman, I applied for the job and got it!" The truth is, I was the one who received the most, she was my everything. . until cancer took her from me. . . We found one another in the most unexpected place, under the strangest of circumstances. . Sometimes you think you should "give up". . and life takes a strange turn. . I cannot imagine how empty my life would have been without her. . even though she wasn't exactly what I was looking for. . she was so much more!
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Old 10-31-2011, 08:31 AM   #29
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What we can't be happy without we can't be truly happy with. That said, love is not a negotiation; there's no "settling" involved when you care more about another person than yourself. Love is a selfless act that you give yourself over to, no matter what. Lust always has stipulations.
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