need help from the bbw ladies

nahger1011 · 02-04-2012, 10:55 PM

My wife has been aware of my preference for a while now and she is not opposed to gaining SLOWLY. When we met 10 years ago she was 135, she weighed at the doctor the other day and she was 201. Excited she has reached and is maintaining the 200 mark for about 6 months now. My question is how have you ladies dealt with the aches and pains as you grow. She is complaining that her back is hurting from the increase in butt and belly weight. Her posture is bad when sitting in computer chairs etc and I have told her that as she gets bigger this will contribute to aches as well. Anyways, you get the point. Thanks

nahger1011 · 02-19-2012, 02:03 PM

Anybody have any thoughts? Non smart ass ones.

penguin · 02-19-2012, 03:43 PM

Exercising will help, I'm sure. Walking, yoga water aerobics or other gentle exercise on the joints to improve health, strength and flexibility will help, and she can still gain doing those, I'm sure. Sitting properly and working on her posture at other times, as well as wearing shoes with good support.

nahger1011 · 02-20-2012, 01:36 PM

Im trying to get her to do this but then she says i thought u want me bigger. Round and round we go.
Are these things you do at your size?

lovelocs · 02-20-2012, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by nahger1011

Im trying to get her to do this but then she says i thought u want me bigger. Round and round we go.
Are these things you do at your size?

Bigger, yes, decrepit, no. Paying attention to one's body and keeping it comfortable are things we can all do at any time. I used to keep a post-it on my monitor that reminded me to watch my posture (I should probably put it back up). I belly dance, walk, and have a very physical job. If an activity hurts my body, I modify the activity. She can take active steps to improve her health if she so chooses.

penguin · 02-20-2012, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by nahger1011

Im trying to get her to do this but then she says i thought u want me bigger. Round and round we go.
Are these things you do at your size?

Moving for health is not the same as moving for weight loss. If she wants to stop hurting, she needs to move her body more so it can adjust better. But she'll probably find that she'll still hurt at times. I certainly do.

nahger1011 · 02-21-2012, 12:05 PM

Thanks for the responses. All good info.

02-04-2012, 10:55 PM	#1
nahger1011 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 58	need help from the bbw ladies My wife has been aware of my preference for a while now and she is not opposed to gaining SLOWLY. When we met 10 years ago she was 135, she weighed at the doctor the other day and she was 201. Excited she has reached and is maintaining the 200 mark for about 6 months now. My question is how have you ladies dealt with the aches and pains as you grow. She is complaining that her back is hurting from the increase in butt and belly weight. Her posture is bad when sitting in computer chairs etc and I have told her that as she gets bigger this will contribute to aches as well. Anyways, you get the point. Thanks

02-19-2012, 03:43 PM	#3
penguin Fnord Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Brisbane, Australia. Posts: 4,598	Exercising will help, I'm sure. Walking, yoga water aerobics or other gentle exercise on the joints to improve health, strength and flexibility will help, and she can still gain doing those, I'm sure. Sitting properly and working on her posture at other times, as well as wearing shoes with good support. __________________ Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional. My wishlist.

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02-19-2012, 02:03 PM	#2
nahger1011 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 58	Anybody have any thoughts? Non smart ass ones.

02-20-2012, 01:36 PM	#4
nahger1011 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 58	Im trying to get her to do this but then she says i thought u want me bigger. Round and round we go. Are these things you do at your size?

02-21-2012, 12:05 PM	#7
nahger1011 Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 58	Thanks for the responses. All good info.