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Old 03-04-2012, 09:43 PM   #1
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So, I married my dream girl just over a year ago. I love her with all my heart and I think shes the sexiest woman on the planet. She wasn't exactly thin when we started dating, but since the wedding, she's put on a noticeable amount of weight. I can tell it really bothers her, and she's tried every diet under the sun to lose weight. She's having a harder time finding clothes at non-plus-sized stores, and I feel bad that it frustrates her.

I tell her how beautiful she is every day. Every time she complains about how fat she's gotten, I do not correct her. I simply say how gorgeous I think she is, using words like curvy, womanly, and sexy. I think she believes me, but she still doesn't feel it herself.

So, to all the sexy ladies out there who are plus-sized but not necessarily by choice, what, if anything, should I say/do here?
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Old 03-04-2012, 11:06 PM   #2
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So, I married my dream girl just over a year ago. I love her with all my heart and I think shes the sexiest woman on the planet. She wasn't exactly thin when we started dating, but since the wedding, she's put on a noticeable amount of weight. I can tell it really bothers her, and she's tried every diet under the sun to lose weight. She's having a harder time finding clothes at non-plus-sized stores, and I feel bad that it frustrates her.

I tell her how beautiful she is every day. Every time she complains about how fat she's gotten, I do not correct her. I simply say how gorgeous I think she is, using words like curvy, womanly, and sexy. I think she believes me, but she still doesn't feel it herself.

So, to all the sexy ladies out there who are plus-sized but not necessarily by choice, what, if anything, should I say/do here?
You're doing everything right, and everything you can. Just listen and sympathize about there not being enough fashion available for bigger girls in non-plus sized stores.
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Old 03-05-2012, 09:30 AM   #3
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So, I married my dream girl just over a year ago. I love her with all my heart and I think shes the sexiest woman on the planet. She wasn't exactly thin when we started dating, but since the wedding, she's put on a noticeable amount of weight. I can tell it really bothers her, and she's tried every diet under the sun to lose weight. She's having a harder time finding clothes at non-plus-sized stores, and I feel bad that it frustrates her.

I tell her how beautiful she is every day. Every time she complains about how fat she's gotten, I do not correct her. I simply say how gorgeous I think she is, using words like curvy, womanly, and sexy. I think she believes me, but she still doesn't feel it herself.

So, to all the sexy ladies out there who are plus-sized but not necessarily by choice, what, if anything, should I say/do here?
Diets don't work right unless you exercise. Try getting her to be more active. Go for walks, parking further away to your destination (every little bit helps) and maybe hit a gym a few times a week if its affordable.

I know you may not want to hear it but if she loses weight and is happier with herself, enjoy her happiness and try not to let it bother you.
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