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Old 03-12-2012, 07:14 AM   #1
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Default variation of the would you date a web model question.

If you found out that your child's teacher or teacher's wife was a web model or porn star would you complain to the principal and/or school board?

If you found out that your horny teenager was viewing nude pictures of their (fill in a subject) teacher, would you be upsent and what, if anything would you do?

Once I felt I should explain to my principal why a short clip of my leading a NAAFA activism workshop was in a film called "The Sex O'clock News"

As best I remember it was between the nude car wash clip and the teaching retired women to strip clip.

If any parent ever complained I was not informed of the complaint.
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Old 03-12-2012, 07:51 AM   #2
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If you found out that your child's teacher or teacher's wife was a web model or porn star would you complain to the principal and/or school board?

If you found out that your horny teenager was viewing nude pictures of their (fill in a subject) teacher, would you be upsent and what, if anything would you do?

Once I felt I should explain to my principal why a short clip of my leading a NAAFA activism workshop was in a film called "The Sex O'clock News"

As best I remember it was between the nude car wash clip and the teaching retired women to strip clip.

If any parent ever complained I was not informed of the complaint.
I'm friends with a webmodel who's had to deal with this. Her children's students and faculty complained of her web modeling and it was a big headache for her.

Now if my teenaged son had a crush on his teacher, as long as he didn't act upon it or do anything stupid then I wouldn't mind. Many many people have had the hots for their teachers over the years including me so it wouldn't be right for me to complain.

I'd be more concerned if my teenaged son WASN'T looking at nude pictures of some sort.
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What an adult does in their private life is their business. If the teacher was using the school for photo shoots, then I might have a problem, but only with that.

While I expect teenagers to find dirty pictures and enjoy them, I'd really hope they wouldn't be of their teacher.
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Ex-porn actor fired from school allowed to seek teaching certificate





By msnbc.com staff

A former porn actor fired from his job as a substitute teacher may pursue teaching certification, a Florida education commission has ruled.

"Pornography is not against the law," Shawn Loftis, 36, was quoted as saying by The Miami Herald after he won his challenge.




The commission reversed an earlier decision against Loftis, who was fired when officials found out about his past as a gay porn actor.
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Russell, I'm interested in your OWN answers to the questions posed in the OP, please.
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Nope. I am biased I am sure.
A woman was just fired for students finding her old porn online.
By all accounts she was an excellent teacher.

My questions are;

1. Why do you kids have access to porn?
Maybe monitoring them a bit more would be a better idea than
worrying about the private choices of another adult.
2. How could they prove it was her? I have been shown videos by people who KNOW me that they swore was me... and it wasn't.
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I am not good at knowing the meaning of initials. I have read enough so that I know the meaning of SHAEF and ETO but I have no idea who the OP is and what question he or she asked.
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I wouldn't care what my son or daughters teacher did in his/her private lives as long as he/she wasn't directly sharing that information with my son or daughter. If someone else happened to leak information that my kids teacher was a porn star, I wouldn't care. If the teacher his/herself was discussing it with my kids I would have a problem with that. I would hope my kids teachers would use the same discretion when discussing any potentially sensitive topic of their personal lives. Like, I wouldn't care if my kids teacher smoked pot every night when they got home from work but it would be inappropriate for them to come into work the next day and discuss it. I had a few teachers in high school who blurred the lines between appropriate and inappropriate.. some of them would share information about picking up girls in bars, doing illegal drugs, binge drinking, etc. The relationship between teacher and student should be as professional as possible imo.

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I am not good at knowing the meaning of initials. I have read enough so that I know the meaning of SHAEF and ETO but I have no idea who the OP is and what question he or she asked.
OP is either Original Post or Poster.

My own personal view is that there's nothing illegal about being a web model, porn actor/actress or anything in that area. If a child/teen finds those pictures or videos surely it's a sign that the KID has been doing something wrong, not the teacher, since it's probably on an 18+ Restricted site.
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Your own original post.


I withhold my own opinion for now. I'm very curious to know yours though.
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Sadly, a lot of people are unable to conceptualize the people around them as having wants, needs or a life completely separate from the role that we see them in on a regular basis.

I have a few friends that are teachers and have said a few times that they feel like they're held to a much higher standard in the way they live their lives outside of the classroom - I've had one friend tell me that they had a parent complain because she wouldn't confirm if she went to church regularly or not. Another parent complained about a different friend because they went to go see an R rated movie at a local movie theatre. Ridiculous.

Being a teacher doesn't necessarily mean that their profession goes home with them - they can and should live their own lives. So long as they're professional with their job and don't bring their baggage to work, fine.

But, at the same time, putting images of yourselves online does open yourself to scrutiny - wanted or unwanted - and really kind of compromises your own personal privacy by your own choice. I feel that there is a bit of recognition of the outcome of one's own actions and accepting responsibility comes with that turf.
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Although it is not illegal, and I certainly would not have any problem with this, I think it would be considered not ethical by most parents and religious folks..Teachers are professionals, and are held in higher regards then most others...and for good reasons....like being good examples to the youngters.As a society we do need a moral compass to some degree, or else we might as well throw in the towel and become a total incendiary country.I would say it is most definitely not a good idea for any teacher to be any kind of porn/nekid web model, and also going against the grain of school boards and administrators, they will find another way to end the teachers career..
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I withhold my own opinion for now. I'm very curious to know yours though.
A lot would depend on the details. Simply having pictures of his or her body , clothed or unclothed, on Facebook type page would be unlikely to bother me. Finding out that the teacher was selling pictures of themselves involved in videos pretending to torture or be tortured would be more of a concern.

I would be far more concerned if I found out the teacher was the grand Wizard of the local Ku Klux Klan or if the teacher was the biology and/or science teacher and did not believe in either evolution or gravity (both of which are unproven theories).

Why first came to this, at that time, recently desegregated County I did not provide the information that I had been involved in the civil rights struggle in the 60s. By the 90s, in discussions related to Martin Luther King Day I would show pictures that had been taken of Martin Luther King and I together at a meeting.

Probably most of the readers have already read of the only time, that I know of, that parents got up a petition against me. I had let the students read the Declaration of Independence.

A variation of the question I asked in the original post was, what if it is the teacher's spouse that is providing things on the Internet?

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The puritanical sex=immoral bullshit is through the roof in this thread, that is all.
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The puritanical sex=immoral bullshit is through the roof in this thread, that is all.
for a teacher or for someone thinking about becoming a teacher or marrying a teacher to know. Thank you for pointing that out.
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If you found out that your child's teacher or teacher's wife was a web model or porn star would you complain to the principal and/or school board?
I don't think I'd be bothered by it. I might google them, find their site, and block the IP from my child's internet-capable devices. I've always said my kid will be unfortunate in that his/her parent will be more tech-saavy than they for quite some time since I work as a programmer... On the other hand.. I don't plan to block all porn sites or anything.. I'd just not want them having reason to disrespect teacher.

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If you found out that your horny teenager was viewing nude pictures of their (fill in a subject) teacher, would you be upsent and what, if anything would you do?
Again, block the IP from internet capable devices my child had access to. Further, I'd have a talk with them about respecting that particular teacher. It would be an awkward moment for the both of us, but my main concern would be that my child would feel justified goofing off in class because his teacher had nude pics online. I wouldn't want him/her to jeopardize her grades or education over it.
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I wouldn't complain about it, but I would have to have a long conversation with my child about pornography- the good, the bad, and the potentially ugly. Hard conversation. I watch pornography, and I also know pornography is complicated, and I don't feel it's fair to gloss over the negatives by just calling oneself "sex-positive." For me, it's kind of like loving meat, leather, and fur (which I also do). I recognize the pleasure and beauty, but I also recognize that there are (or may be) costs for the participants which have to be looked, and dealt with as ethically as possible.

Also, we have not addressed what kind of porn it is. Does it feature him or her being degraded, or in situations where he or she (or anyone else) could come to harm? If the answer is yes, then that poses a problem for me, much more than a few sexy photos, or folks enjoying their own and one another's bodies.
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