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Old 03-30-2012, 05:39 PM   #1
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Ok, I don't know where to turn for answers so I'll ask it here. My wife and I had an amazing sex life up until a few weeks ago. We are young by the way, I mean 30 and 35. A few weeks ago she was in the mood but I wasn't feeling good, tummy issue, but I couldn't get erect. It was the first time I ever had an issue like this. Its almost like it completely freaked me out. Every time I try to enter her, at that moment I lose it. Its so weird and its just not good. She is getting upset and that is not helping matters, and I feel horrible. So do you think its a mental issue or physical? Is it ED? Would viagra help? Please any advice will be appreciated. Thank you.
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It sounds like the first time it was probably caused by you not feeling well and now you're psyching yourself out. Just relax, the more you stress out about it the more of an issue it's going to be. Both of you need to realize that more pressure you put on your performance the more likely it's not going to happen.
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I agree with the first comment. Seems you're psyching yourself out. Keep calm and think good horny thoughts and it should be okay. You were probably just not feeling good.

But if the problem does persist, it might be a good idea to talk to your doctor about it, because it could be ED but it could be something else. You never know.

So just keep trying, but keep calm and try not to psych yourself out. If that doesn't work... call a doc.
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Psyching out, definitely. Sometimes our bodies work just fine, other times they don't. Don't second-guess yourself. It'll all be fine.
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Thanks guys, I think its a psych out too because I just got erect, and finished myself off lying next to her as she watched. Now I'm just freaked out I'll never get it back for her. What should I do? Do you think maybe one time on Viagra would get us over the hump or its just not needed? Thanks again for the help.
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Try taking the focus off penetration for next time, and focus entirely on other things you can do to please her; hopefully that will allow you to stop thinking about performance anxiety, because it will remind you that even with a soft dick, you can still give her plenty of pleasure. And it'll give you a chance to get hard in a situation that doesn't require that your erection remain reliable - you can enjoy it for its own sake and hopefully feel more comfortable with it.
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Thanks guys, I think its a psych out too because I just got erect, and finished myself off lying next to her as she watched. Now I'm just freaked out I'll never get it back for her. What should I do? Do you think maybe one time on Viagra would get us over the hump or its just not needed? Thanks again for the help.
I would definitely not do that. First, you're far too young for that. Second, if it worked you may simply psych yourself into believing you need the stuff.
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Exhaustion can do that. It sometimes happens to me after the 5th or 6th round of sex in one day.
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I forgot to tell you we did have sex the other night, and it went nice an easy, but yesterday things went badly. I guess the best advice is to relax but its hard to do when you are telling yourself to relax and you know you have to relax.
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I have seen this happen as a cycle... It DOES happen to most men at some point. The guy can;t get it up or get off so he finishes himself... then has anxiety about it the next time... happens from anxiety then finishes himself off (sometimes for pleasure sometimes for proof to himself he CAN) I would abstain from getting off and let nature take it's course!
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Thanks guys, just an update. This morning was very sexy, she slept naked which is always great for me. I got hard several times through the night fondling her which is why she sleeps naked. In the morning there was very heavy "petting" I guess is the word. Just really sexy talk, sexy feeling around and touching. I then gave her pleasure with a certain body part. She came EXTREMELY hard which was very nice. I then finished myself off on a certain body part [ass] and it was actually pretty hot to be honest.
By the way I always, and I mean always get her off before we have actual intercourse. I either use my hand or mouth, usually mouth. Is that how most guys do things? I always like to make her cum before we have sex, is that normal? Or am I just a very generous lover? Thanks for all the help, hopefully I get over the "Entry" problem like now.
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