BBW Confessions thread - Page 188

Surlysomething · 06-24-2012, 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by happyface83

I'm bored and sometimes I look at Craig's list personal ads for the kicks. It hurts when you see the casual encounter ads filled with wanting to fuck a bbw such as, "looking for ebony big tittied bbw", "looking for big ass", etc then you see the more serious 'men for women' ads and they want slim, petite girls and if they are looking for women of color, they want them slim and petite. It hurts and it sucks that there are people that think women that look like me are for a good lay and that's it. Damn.

Trust me, it works the same way for BBW white girls. I've noticed the casual encounter thing vs. the dating thing for quite some time on Craig's list. It's pretty gross.

HottiMegan · 06-24-2012, 07:54 PM

Ic that sometimes I wish we still were confined to our bedroom during menstruation like days of old. I really want to curl up in bed. I feel like crap for several days a month.

Diana_Prince245 · 06-24-2012, 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Trust me, it works the same way for BBW white girls. I've noticed the casual encounter thing vs. the dating thing for quite some time on Craig's list. It's pretty gross.

Yea, it's annoying. I don't online date. My stellar personality doesn't come throught, because the stupid shows up in writing quicker than in person, least most of the time.

Surlysomething · 06-27-2012, 03:08 PM

Eyebrow appointment booked
Pedicure booked
Hair cut booked

i'll be all freshened up for my baby's sisters wedding. Good lord, it's exhausting
being a woman sometimes. Haha.

Jeeshcristina · 06-27-2012, 07:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Eyebrow appointment booked
Pedicure booked
Hair cut booked

i'll be all freshened up for my baby's sisters wedding. Good lord, it's exhausting
being a woman sometimes. Haha.

The sheer maintenance that goes into being a female is totally exhausting. That's why I make sure to get a weekly massage to unwind from all the plucking, pulling, teasing, and prodding.

Can't wait to hear how the wedding goes! I'm sure it'll be lovely.

tinkerbell · 06-29-2012, 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HottiMegan

Ic that sometimes I wish we still were confined to our bedroom during menstruation like days of old. I really want to curl up in bed. I feel like crap for several days a month.

I totally agree with that!!

Lovelyone · 06-29-2012, 12:38 PM

IC that I feel pretty today.

CastingPearls · 06-29-2012, 04:58 PM

I finally found someone I'm comfortable with at a local salon (10 minutes from the house) that waxes everything. No bad vibe, no doubtful looks, just 'Yeah sure, why not, I've been waxing for ten years and plenty of them were big.' In fact, she was willing to do it right then but I was on my way somewhere.

Aaaaand hair appt tomorrow. Looking forward to being a natural blonde again.

fat9276 · 06-30-2012, 03:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CastingPearls

I finally found someone I'm comfortable with at a local salon (10 minutes from the house) that waxes everything. No bad vibe, no doubtful looks, just 'Yeah sure, why not, I've been waxing for ten years and plenty of them were big.' In fact, she was willing to do it right then but I was on my way somewhere.

Aaaaand hair appt tomorrow. Looking forward to being a natural blonde again.

oh Lainey, I wish I had this lady to go to! Good for you

lovelylady78 · 06-30-2012, 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CastingPearls

I finally found someone I'm comfortable with at a local salon (10 minutes from the house) that waxes everything. No bad vibe, no doubtful looks, just 'Yeah sure, why not, I've been waxing for ten years and plenty of them were big.' In fact, she was willing to do it right then but I was on my way somewhere.

Aaaaand hair appt tomorrow. Looking forward to being a natural blonde again.

It's always fantastic when you find a provider of some type (be it a cosmotologist, physician, whatever the case may be) that you feel comfortable with...that's awesome!

Jeeshcristina · 06-30-2012, 10:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CastingPearls

I finally found someone I'm comfortable with at a local salon (10 minutes from the house) that waxes everything. No bad vibe, no doubtful looks, just 'Yeah sure, why not, I've been waxing for ten years and plenty of them were big.' In fact, she was willing to do it right then but I was on my way somewhere.

Aaaaand hair appt tomorrow. Looking forward to being a natural blonde again.

Ah, that is so awesome! Make sure you give us an update!!!!! And can't wait to see the new 'do!!!!

aocutiepi · 07-02-2012, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Trust me, it works the same way for BBW white girls. I've noticed the casual encounter thing vs. the dating thing for quite some time on Craig's list. It's pretty gross.

I've noticed this as well. If I'm good enough to bang, I'm good enough for you to take me out in public, let me meet your friends and your parents, and introduce as your girlfriend. If you feel otherwise, I don't date boys, I date men.

It's sad though, because finding a "man" is so hard.

Micara · 07-02-2012, 03:19 PM

I confess that I started reading "50 Shades Freed" even though I said I wasn't going to. It gives me something to do at the allergist when I have to sit there for 30 minutes before I can leave.

HottiMegan · 07-03-2012, 07:15 PM

Hubs is wondering why I am so interested in changing my look so much. Ic I think I'm going through a midlife crisis. 34 isn't too young for that, right? I'm looking into a nose piercing and possibly a tattoo. (he doesn't know about the tattoo plans yet.) I just want a change.

livelovelaughsmile · 07-04-2012, 08:21 AM

I confess that I really like someone. Annnd that I'm tired of being single! lol

I also confess that I'm about to eat a giant breakfast!

fat9276 · 07-09-2012, 07:57 PM

Sooo... I love to walk. I love how it makes me feel. I love fresh air. I love nature. I was raised in the country where we always had at least 10 acres to roam freely around on. Walking is a BIG part of who I am and what I love to do. Yes, it has physical health benefits (which are awesome) but it is not the main reason why I do it.

Tonight, on my nightly walk, a lady passed by me.. and did she say "hi" or "how are you" or "nice night"? Noooo... she said "keep it up" with a "go get em'" tone. Really?!? Keep WHAT up? You just have to love people (especially strangers) that think a fat person doing any kind of physical activity is just trying to lose weight AND they feel the need... NO, that it is their OBLIGATION to root us on :roll eyes:

I can't wait until she sees me tomorrow night in my tight hot pink tank top and bicycle shorts hehehehe

audreyee · 07-23-2012, 03:37 PM

I confess that there is this guy. He is one of my oldest and closest friends. We have great chemistry as friends and flirt a little. And I am SO in love with him. (he's dated girls weighing from 100 lbs to my size 375 lbs and treated them all with respect so I know he isn't an FA but that he loves women of all sizes) Lately he was slyly hinting that he is tired of being single. Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life. So I bought a new dress and new shoes, got my hair and makeup done, and got full body wax, eyebrow/facial threading and manicure and pedicure. I arrived at the party looking FIERCE, and my friend gathered everyone in attendance...and promptly introduced his new girlfriend. His extremely "conventionally hot", size zero, tiny, pixie-ish girlfriend. The party was so they could meet each others friends. And she was so kind to me (which made it even worse) and complimented my appearance even more then he did and asked me for fashion advice because of how "awesome" "hot" and "pretty" I am. Many of my friends who were there and even some people who I have never met complimented my look too, but all the guys there were drooling over her, especially my friend who has honestly never looked so happy. I pretended I was tired from work and left early and went home and cried myself to sleep and it's been over a week and I haven't left my apartment and barely gotten out of bed because I'm so sad.

(btw the way this is my first post here. It's nice to meet everyone)

littlefairywren · 07-23-2012, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by audreyee

I confess that there is this guy. He is one of my oldest and closest friends. We have great chemistry as friends and flirt a little. And I am SO in love with him. (he's dated girls weighing from 100 lbs to my size 375 lbs and treated them all with respect so I know he isn't an FA but that he loves women of all sizes) Lately he was slyly hinting that he is tired of being single. Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life. So I bought a new dress and new shoes, got my hair and makeup done, and got full body wax, eyebrow/facial threading and manicure and pedicure. I arrived at the party looking FIERCE, and my friend gathered everyone in attendance...and promptly introduced his new girlfriend. His extremely "conventionally hot", size zero, tiny, pixie-ish girlfriend. The party was so they could meet each others friends. And she was so kind to me (which made it even worse) and complimented my appearance even more then he did and asked me for fashion advice because of how "awesome" "hot" and "pretty" I am. Many of my friends who were there and even some people who I have never met complimented my look too, but all the guys there were drooling over her, especially my friend who has honestly never looked so happy. I pretended I was tired from work and left early and went home and cried myself to sleep and it's been over a week and I haven't left my apartment and barely gotten out of bed because I'm so sad.

(btw the way this is my first post here. It's nice to meet everyone)

I'm so sorry you're hurting. I've no sage advice to give other than to be good to yourself and hopefully each day it will sting a little less.

Welcome to the boards audreyee.

lottapounds · 07-23-2012, 06:45 PM

[quote=audreyee;1894635]I Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life.
[quote]

Sorry that happened. Maybe something better is waiting for you. Things fall apart so better things can fall together. If that is verbatim what he told you about coming to the party, it seems a bit cruel, instead of saying, i am having a party so me and my new girlfriend can meet each others' friends. Just a thought. It would really hurt my feelings if it happened to me. Welcome to the boards. i am kind of new too. the natives seem friendly

CastingPearls · 07-26-2012, 01:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by audreyee

I confess that there is this guy. He is one of my oldest and closest friends. We have great chemistry as friends and flirt a little. And I am SO in love with him. (he's dated girls weighing from 100 lbs to my size 375 lbs and treated them all with respect so I know he isn't an FA but that he loves women of all sizes) Lately he was slyly hinting that he is tired of being single. Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life. So I bought a new dress and new shoes, got my hair and makeup done, and got full body wax, eyebrow/facial threading and manicure and pedicure. I arrived at the party looking FIERCE, and my friend gathered everyone in attendance...and promptly introduced his new girlfriend. His extremely "conventionally hot", size zero, tiny, pixie-ish girlfriend. The party was so they could meet each others friends. And she was so kind to me (which made it even worse) and complimented my appearance even more then he did and asked me for fashion advice because of how "awesome" "hot" and "pretty" I am. Many of my friends who were there and even some people who I have never met complimented my look too, but all the guys there were drooling over her, especially my friend who has honestly never looked so happy. I pretended I was tired from work and left early and went home and cried myself to sleep and it's been over a week and I haven't left my apartment and barely gotten out of bed because I'm so sad.

(btw the way this is my first post here. It's nice to meet everyone)

I'm so very sorry this happened to you. That would have crushed me too. Hugs.

Welcome to the boards, Audreyee.

Diana_Prince245 · 07-26-2012, 08:25 AM

That's devastating. Sending hugs your way.

deanna banana · 07-26-2012, 10:02 AM

IC that I love reading this thread.

CastingPearls · 07-26-2012, 11:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by deanna banana

IC that I love reading this thread.

Welcome to the forums, Miss Banana!

Shan34 · 07-28-2012, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Surlysomething

Eyebrow appointment booked
Pedicure booked
Hair cut booked

i'll be all freshened up for my baby's sisters wedding. Good lord, it's exhausting
being a woman sometimes. Haha.

I have never got my eyebrow's done. I've thought about it quite a bit though. I always just pluck them the old fashioned way. Maybe I should just do it and see if it makes a big difference.

IC that while extremely excited to see my daughter, I am also extremely nervous about flying...

Surlysomething · 07-28-2012, 02:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shan34

I have never got my eyebrow's done. I've thought about it quite a bit though. I always just pluck them the old fashioned way. Maybe I should just do it and see if it makes a big difference.

IC that while extremely excited to see my daughter, I am also extremely nervous about flying...

it gets all those little strays that are hard to pluck and it's fast. I don't like the one at a time thing. Haha.

06-24-2012, 07:54 PM	#4677
HottiMegan I'm a fat geek! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Northern California Posts: 8,592	Ic that sometimes I wish we still were confined to our bedroom during menstruation like days of old. I really want to curl up in bed. I feel like crap for several days a month. __________________ I may look lazy, but on a molecular level I'm quite busy!

06-29-2012, 12:38 PM	#4682
Lovelyone Fat, and loveable! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: South Bend, Indiana Posts: 3,043	IC that I feel pretty today. __________________ "I don't envy the headache you'll have when you awake, but while you are sleeping dream of LARGE women." -The Princess Bride

06-29-2012, 04:58 PM	#4683
CastingPearls Hello Sweetie Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 14,626	I finally found someone I'm comfortable with at a local salon (10 minutes from the house) that waxes everything. No bad vibe, no doubtful looks, just 'Yeah sure, why not, I've been waxing for ten years and plenty of them were big.' In fact, she was willing to do it right then but I was on my way somewhere. Aaaaand hair appt tomorrow. Looking forward to being a natural blonde again. __________________ http://castingpearls-blowingbubbles.blogspot.com/ You are that luminosity. You are that clear light. ~ Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche ~ People throw rocks at things that shine.

07-03-2012, 07:15 PM	#4689
HottiMegan I'm a fat geek! Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Northern California Posts: 8,592	Hubs is wondering why I am so interested in changing my look so much. Ic I think I'm going through a midlife crisis. 34 isn't too young for that, right? I'm looking into a nose piercing and possibly a tattoo. (he doesn't know about the tattoo plans yet.) I just want a change. __________________ I may look lazy, but on a molecular level I'm quite busy!

07-09-2012, 07:57 PM	#4691
fat9276 summer summer summer Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 2,816	Sooo... I love to walk. I love how it makes me feel. I love fresh air. I love nature. I was raised in the country where we always had at least 10 acres to roam freely around on. Walking is a BIG part of who I am and what I love to do. Yes, it has physical health benefits (which are awesome) but it is not the main reason why I do it. Tonight, on my nightly walk, a lady passed by me.. and did she say "hi" or "how are you" or "nice night"? Noooo... she said "keep it up" with a "go get em'" tone. Really?!? Keep WHAT up? You just have to love people (especially strangers) that think a fat person doing any kind of physical activity is just trying to lose weight AND they feel the need... NO, that it is their OBLIGATION to root us on :roll eyes: I can't wait until she sees me tomorrow night in my tight hot pink tank top and bicycle shorts hehehehe Last edited by fat9276 : 07-09-2012 at 08:00 PM.

06-27-2012, 03:08 PM	#4679
Surlysomething Vancougar! Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 10,094	Eyebrow appointment booked Pedicure booked Hair cut booked i'll be all freshened up for my baby's sisters wedding. Good lord, it's exhausting being a woman sometimes. Haha.

07-02-2012, 03:19 PM	#4688
Micara This girl is on fire. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: The state of corruption Posts: 2,486	I confess that I started reading "50 Shades Freed" even though I said I wasn't going to. It gives me something to do at the allergist when I have to sit there for 30 minutes before I can leave.

07-04-2012, 08:21 AM	#4690
livelovelaughsmile Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 20	I confess that I really like someone. Annnd that I'm tired of being single! lol I also confess that I'm about to eat a giant breakfast!

07-23-2012, 03:37 PM	#4692
audreyee Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 1	I confess that there is this guy. He is one of my oldest and closest friends. We have great chemistry as friends and flirt a little. And I am SO in love with him. (he's dated girls weighing from 100 lbs to my size 375 lbs and treated them all with respect so I know he isn't an FA but that he loves women of all sizes) Lately he was slyly hinting that he is tired of being single. Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life. So I bought a new dress and new shoes, got my hair and makeup done, and got full body wax, eyebrow/facial threading and manicure and pedicure. I arrived at the party looking FIERCE, and my friend gathered everyone in attendance...and promptly introduced his new girlfriend. His extremely "conventionally hot", size zero, tiny, pixie-ish girlfriend. The party was so they could meet each others friends. And she was so kind to me (which made it even worse) and complimented my appearance even more then he did and asked me for fashion advice because of how "awesome" "hot" and "pretty" I am. Many of my friends who were there and even some people who I have never met complimented my look too, but all the guys there were drooling over her, especially my friend who has honestly never looked so happy. I pretended I was tired from work and left early and went home and cried myself to sleep and it's been over a week and I haven't left my apartment and barely gotten out of bed because I'm so sad. (btw the way this is my first post here. It's nice to meet everyone)

07-23-2012, 06:45 PM	#4694
lottapounds happy mutant Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: ohio Posts: 43	[quote=audreyee;1894635]I Last Saturday he threw a party and said I needed to be there because he wanted things to change in the romance department of his life. [quote] Sorry that happened. Maybe something better is waiting for you. Things fall apart so better things can fall together. If that is verbatim what he told you about coming to the party, it seems a bit cruel, instead of saying, i am having a party so me and my new girlfriend can meet each others' friends. Just a thought. It would really hurt my feelings if it happened to me. Welcome to the boards. i am kind of new too. the natives seem friendly Last edited by lottapounds : 07-23-2012 at 06:46 PM. Reason: spelling

07-26-2012, 08:25 AM	#4696
Diana_Prince245 Wise as Athena Join Date: May 2011 Location: Potatoland, USA Posts: 1,164	That's devastating. Sending hugs your way. __________________ Peace is a virtue. A state of mind, a disposition for benevolence, confidence and justice. -- Wonder Woman

07-26-2012, 10:02 AM	#4697
deanna banana Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 9	IC that I love reading this thread.

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