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Old 08-28-2013, 07:47 PM   #1
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I was pleasantly surprised to find sex at 45 to be way better than it was when I was younger.

Anyone else feel the same or was the sex better when you were younger?
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Old 08-29-2013, 07:20 AM   #2
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For me, pretty much better when I was younger, for a variety of reasons.
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Better now but also less frequent.
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I am a little more in shape now, and using more of my body on a regular basis, so I find my body is more responsive. It's nice...
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Better now but also less frequent.
+1 (have to do something about the frequency though)
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I'm not 40 but sex has definitely become more intimate as I've gotten older.
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I turned 45 this year and sex is better than ever.
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It's still sex to me- some of it good and some of it bad. The main thing that has changed is the partner.
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The main thing that has changed is the partner.
And is that good or bad? *cough*

However, do you think that there is a correlation between your/someone's age and what kind of partner you/they choose?
Or, maybe better, do you think our taste in partners is changing over the years?
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And is that good or bad? *cough*

However, do you think that there is a correlation between your/someone's age and what kind of partner you/they choose?
Or, maybe better, do you think our taste in partners is changing over the years?

Some times good- sometimes not so good....

I do choose whom I "date" (shack up with ) on different crteria/needs now. In other words, I don't believe a prince will come but do want someone more responsible/willing/mature than what I had in a previous life.

Do I still need compatibility based upon humor, spiritual, political and family beliefs? Yes- of course. That has always seemed harder to find over someone to screw me- though if we wind up having a banging sex life then great.

My partner before the one I'm with now....we had wonderful sexual compatibility- the best I have ever had. However, almost everything else about him didn't just "fall short"- it was total failure when it came to having a LTR with him. He's 7 yrs younger than myself. The man I'm with now is more trustworthy, dependable and seems to get it those few times when I'm down for the count and need a shoulder to lean on. It makes me grow closer to him and trust him more than anything sexual could.

Since you asked about age differences, my current partner is 10 yrs younger (my ex husband, before either of them, is three years older) I have ran the gamut on age differences since my teenage years (some younger some older though I seem to prefer the younger ones now...or could that be all that prefers me?).

I see more issues in our relationship from the age differences putting us at different points/wants in our lives more than any sexual differences.
A lot of the younger men I have dated wanted kids...I already have three and got a tubal....nor am I looking to get married again any time soon after two previous marriages.
Some seem to have more stamina than myself when it comes to "trying again".

Doesn't affect the sex as much as it affects the total outlook on getting our needs/wants met by each party.

Though, I will say, keeping the sex good and happy with a younger man is another issue in itself
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Old 09-11-2013, 10:13 AM   #12
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The little bit of sex that I've had has been much better since I've become the age I am now. I'll be 50 in October. When I was younger I was much more self concious and very inhibited. Alot of my confidence is recent, acquired from finding DIMS and finally seeing myself in a positive light.
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