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Old 03-25-2014, 09:16 PM   #151
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All true, all gems of advice.

I highlighted one particular part because I know a good number of people, guys AND girls, who *refuse* to dress appropriately or get haircuts/beard trims for work, dates, family events, weddings... my ex boyfriend was like this. When they don't get the job, or people treat them like a joke, or their girl/guy leaves them, they say shit like "I wouldn't want a job/friend/boyfriend/girlfriend that judged me by my appearance anyway."
I just want to smack them! It's not about judging! The way you present yourself tells people around you how serious you are about something, or how much you care. That's the way it is. You show up with long, dirty hair and an unkempt beard to a wedding, people get offended. You refuse to dye over your green hair and take out your 15 facial piercings for a job interview, people think you're not serious about it.
Cut your hair, trim your nails, and put on a clean, decent outfit!
Hear, hear!
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Old 03-26-2014, 06:14 PM   #152
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plus if you feel like workwear/formal wear is disingenuous, there's always adding little things that make your obligatory outfits more "you".

i like crazy socks to make you feel a bit more relaxed and less overly-serious during job interviews. once went on a job interview wearing a pair of neon rainbow-striped knee-high socks. wore wide-leg trousers and black dress boots. no one else knew about the rainbow socks, but *I* knew. and i found it quite amusing.

another interview outfit i made better with a large black silk flower with a little bit of glitter. tied my hair into a bun at the nape of my neck and added the flower and instantly went from completely dull to at least looking like i had some individuality and creativity.

rainbow-colored hair? sneak it past the powers-that-be by just doing the ends. Last year i had bright purple on about 3" of my hair to the tips. going to the day job? put it up in a bun and it's covered. only works if you have really long hair though.

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Old 03-26-2014, 07:08 PM   #153
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plus if you feel like workwear/formal wear is disingenuous, there's always adding little things that make your obligatory outfits more "you".

i like crazy socks to make you feel a bit more relaxed and less overly-serious during job interviews. once went on a job interview wearing a pair of neon rainbow-striped knee-high socks. wore wide-leg trousers and black dress boots. no one else knew about the rainbow socks, but *I* knew. and i found it quite amusing.

another interview outfit i made better with a large black silk flower with a little bit of glitter. tied my hair into a bun at the nape of my neck and added the flower and instantly went from completely dull to at least looking like i had some individuality and creativity.

rainbow-colored hair? sneak it past the powers-that-be by just doing the ends. Last year i had bright purple on about 3" of my hair to the tips. going to the day job? put it up in a bun and it's covered. only works if you have really long hair though.
knee high and thigh high socks make my penis happy.

Socks also happen to be my thing. I love adding just the right socks to an outfit to make it my own. They aren't always seen, but that's okay, I know they're there and it gives me the added "oomph" to feel more attractive, desirable, and confident.
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Old 03-26-2014, 08:50 PM   #154
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Socks also happen to be my thing. I love adding just the right socks to an outfit to make it my own. They aren't always seen, but that's okay, I know they're there and it gives me the added "oomph" to feel more attractive, desirable, and confident.
When I read this, all I could think of was these couple of scenes from The IT Crowd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG0kwal0Im4
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Old 03-30-2014, 08:55 PM   #155
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When I read this, all I could think of was these couple of scenes from The IT Crowd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG0kwal0Im4
ahahah, love it.
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Old 03-30-2014, 09:00 PM   #156
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Went perusing for sports coats for my new gig. I found some funky stuff I may purchase later.

I had a couple people tell me this made me look skinny. I promise you it's just the cut of the coat, I'm not skinny at all.

this one was WAY out of my price range, so I had to try it on.

and then here's a coat I actually bought along with my first attempt at tying a bowtie.




That's my current fashion!

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Old 03-30-2014, 09:44 PM   #157
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So in love with the bow tie!
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Old 03-30-2014, 11:01 PM   #158
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You look damn spiffy.
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Hozay.. I love all the pics!
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Hozay,

That blue jacket is awesome. You gotta have a certain vibe to pull off a jacket like that, so kudos
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So in love with the bow tie!
Thanks! Me too, I'm going to keep an eye out and see what else I can find.
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That blue jacket is awesome. You gotta have a certain vibe to pull off a jacket like that, so kudos
Thanks Chaz, I really appreciate it.
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Went perusing for sports coats for my new gig. I found some funky stuff I may purchase later.....
.....That's my current fashion!

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Not a fan of bow ties for the most part, but you rock one pretty well. It looks good on you. The blue coat is nice, I dig your style with it, but damn that brown one. That is definitely a keeper. That is a very flattering cut. If you haven't already, figure a way to get that one into your closet ASAP!
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lol i thought of this topic just now; there's a guy in the library here explaining complicated organic chemistry topics to a small group of people. this obviously-intelligent gentleman is wearing a black t-shirt with 'ASS' printed on it in white letters.
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lol i thought of this topic just now; there's a guy in the library here explaining complicated organic chemistry topics to a small group of people. this obviously-intelligent gentleman is wearing a black t-shirt with 'ASS' printed on it in white letters.
What, you've never heard of someone being a smart-ass?

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